Questions: Family & Friends

For guys: Would you put your Bros above the Hoes*?

For girls: Would you put your Sisters (or Bros if guy friends are your thing) above Manhoes*?

* your partner would want you to break off with your bros/sistas.

Growing up, my dad was a doctor and he treated nudity as pretty much another day at the office. So seeing my brothers or sister naked was not uncommon. (Though not my mom, and only my dad if we happened to be at the gym or a public swimming pool locker room together.)

My girlfriend grew up in a more conservative home - two sisters - and she says she saw one of her sisters naked maybe once in her whole life until my girlfriend moved out.

My girlfriend and I have lived together for ten years and have three children and we seem to be right in the middle with a tilt toward the way my family was. As my kids get older, I generally tend to assume that we will be more like my family, though I certainly would not demand that.

Anyhow, I just want to see how we stack up to other families.

Why does one type of girl have mostly guy friends, another type of girl has mostly girl friends? Same with guys, why does one guy get along with mostly girls, and another type of guy hangs out with only guys? Sure there is a type of both genders that can get along with both genders with no difference. But I've had a girl admit to me she only likes hanging out with guys, and I know I do better hanging out with girls. What I think it is, is that it matters if the person is an attractive person or not, I feel like people like to be surrounded by people who like them. If a guy or girl is attractive then the same gender will not want to hang out with them if they felt like they were less attractive, and cause them to have self esteem issues. Maybe the attractive person has self esteem issues and only likes the gender they are attracted to. Obviously one person isn't friends with only the oppisite gender. Like one attractive girl will have a girl friend, but the MAJORITY of their friends are the oppisite sex. Also attraction isn't just physical, they maybe attracted to their personality or worth?
here's the main question, do some type of people surround themselves with the oppisite gender for a reason or purposely? And why do you suppose that is? If you are one of those people, feel free to tell us why, theirs no shame in it. I dont think its being shallow, I dont think its wrong, its just what we do naturally because it works.

My sister came over yesterday and started talking to me about college, she was ttelling me about how she could help me get into her college after I got my diploma

Anyways she was talking to me about the college lifestyle

She told me how girls would be all over me
(lie)
How they'd wanna have sex with me
(lie)
Then she said
"I've seen your nudes, they're going to be all over you"
(lie)

Why does she claim to have seen my nudes?
She's lying, but it makes me uncomfortable

I told her I didn't take nudes so there was no way she had mine
She just kept insisting she's seen my dick
Thats impossible..
For her to have seen my nudes she would've had to looted my phone.
& she doesn't know my password
I forget my password sometimes...

She doesn't live with us
I've never seen her in my phone, ever.
Yet she claims to have seen my nudes

There's only two ways she could've seen my nudes

1 she works for at&t & I'm on her cellphone plan
They have my number and if they're able to access my phone just by using my number. . Then maybe but she's not saying that

2
A very long time ago I sent a nude to her friend she went to highschool with
They still talk, but they don't talk to the point where they can share dick pics.
My face wasn't in it & she didn't save the picture

So how could she have seen my nudes?

I and my sister are best friends and I love her dearly. She has been always by my side since I was in primary school and I was emotional when I went to see her during her graduation. As soon as I saw her stepping out from the college, I ran, jumped towards her and gave her a kiss on the forehead and the cheek. I can't control my emotions as I saw my big sister achieved her biggest dreams, she was holding a sheet of paper in her hands which reads Degree of Modeling from Lim Kok Wing College of Malaysia. This soon become viral in Malaysia and i was interviewed by the local news media. A few days later, i noticed that i was getting a lot of hate from people who told that I'm a creep and you sexually assaulted your sister in front of your family and other shit like that. I began to cry and to be more depressed as more and more hate and death threats were referencing to me. My family eventually realized something was wrong and told me to stay calm. Please I need help :(