Would you allow your daughter to be friends with a lesbian girl? Why? Why not?

[Being_a_good_Indian]

#Lesbian #Daughter

[fauchelevent]

Of course, mainly for two reasons:

1. Her being a lesbian is irrelevant. All that matters is if she's a good friend which, as I said, isn't affected by her sexuality.

2. I cannot control every aspect of my child's life. Beyond being unable to, I also have no desire to do so as I want to raise strong, independent children who can make decisions for themselves. My job as a parent isn't to control them entirely, I'm there to support them and help them grow, not stifle it or mould it into my idea of perfect. Unless a friendship is putting my child's safety and well-being at risk, then I shouldn't interfere. Since her being a lesbian is irrelevant, it's not putting my kid at risk, so I wouldn't attmpt to interfere.

[rxm_bxl]

Yes. Why the fuck not.
If she's a good person then they can be friends. Her being gay shouldn't change your mind cause then I wouldn't want my daughter to know you, if you thought like that

[Thia18]

Yes, as long as she nicely said that she is not a lesbian to her friend. Then she’ll be good. But honestly, I don’t know if I’m going to have children.

[curiousnorway]

Yes, because of the same reasons as fauchelevent. But I would also see the advantages with it though if a relationship happen:

1. Less likely for unwanted pregnancies and abortion.
2. Less likely for becoming a mother in a too young age.
3. Less likely to get STD, although lesbians also gets some. STD is more common when men are involved.
4. Less likely to have to deal with sweaty stinky boys. Boys in the puberty tends to smell worse than girls in my opinion.
5. She has someone to discuss her girl problems with.
6. I'm a conservative and believes certain things shouldn't happen before marriage because of less chance of stability, more likely for having children outside of marriage etc.

[Gedaria]

I have 4 daughters and 3 step daughters their mother my second wife was bi sexual they thought it was cool. in fact they had more questions about it . One big question was if I kiss my sister am i a lesbian. It's good question because girls are always kissing and cuddling and they get very close. From a male point of view I felt left out but we explained is your feelings for eachother. They are all married now and to men except eldist she has her cats. To honest it would not have mattered if they had gone to be lesbian I would still have loved them !!!

[just_tired]

What? Why wouldn't I let them?

[andreasderjuengere]

As life has proven, my daughter had always made decisions where I had no reason to even comment. Basically this comes from me being a conscious parent. I am tolerant towards homosexuality, although I would not push for it when it comes to (my) kids. But if she would have chosen so, it would have been for the correct reasons.

[clampfan101]

She has her own free will. If it’s purely casual friendship, she can choose whoever she wants. I admit I’d be a bit uncomfortable with it, but would trust in my daughter’s judgement. If her les friend started getting too close to her, I would simply implore my daughter to be cautious with her. Her friend would have to go way too far before I kicked her out the door. She can be friends with anyone who doesn’t start making her bi/les.

[monkeynutts]

Depending on situation, if they were under the age of 13, i would be worried what impression the girl would have on my daughter, they will probably go to a Catholic school, so it might be something no one talks about anyway. But I worry about kids these days. I would quizz them regularly to find out what was happening in their lives

[modeve]

Two points:
My daughter will never seek my permission, rather lesbians or gays don't consult their parents about their preferences and sexuality.
No. 2. If my daughter has lesbo tendency and inclination, how will I know with certainty? Only doubt? And being a grown up, she is free to choose her friends with one condition that they are not drug addicted and criminal minded.

[ShadezMcgee]

I would be fine with it. I have no problems with her wanting to be friends with a lesbian or a gay guy. Now if it came down to a romantic relationship it would not be my preference and I would give her my view on it and leave it for her to decide, but I would probably let her do that too if it made her happy

[KittyKat12346]

Yes I would because love is love no matter what and just because one person is lesbian or whatever doesn't mean the other is. Either way I would support her no matter what.

[lovebug093]

Yes! im bisexual anyways, so i see absolutely no issue with it! Even if I were completely straight.. I wouldn't stop her from having gay or lesbian friends.

[musical_kittycat]

Of course! For the same reason I'd allow my daughter to be friends with a straight guy. Why would their sexuality make any difference whether they sexually harassed someone or not?

[terincvd]

Of course. As long as she’s not friends with racists, homophobes, sexists, criminals or the like I’d be fine with whoever she’s friends with. It’s her choice anyway, not mine.

[uniquegirl04]

Yes, there is nothing wrong with that. Just like there is nothing wrong with a guy and a girl being friends.

[aconfusedgirlie]

Obviously. It’s like her being friends with a guy I wouldn’t care. Even tho I’m 17 as long as my kids are friends with good people it doesn’t matter.

[Raajk1995]

First of all how I will know that the friend is lesbian.
And why should I stop her to e friend if it's only friendship than it doesn't matter to me but if something else than I have to think about it

[karahiri]

yeah, as long as she's a good friend to my daughter, i don't care about her sexuality.

[hahahmm]

Yeah but I would treat the friend like I’d treat a boy when it comes to sleep overs

[Glass_Cat]

Ofcoarse, I’m into girls i don’t see why i can’t have lady friends

[Cerberus_1773]

I'm a female and I support LGBTQ+ and I have Lesbian friends

[JulieXO]

Yeah. I’m friends with a bi girl and it’s no big deal. I don’t see why my daughter shouldn’t.

[AddictedGirl]

Yes! Off course! Until and unless that girl don't try on my girl..

[opurba]

Y not coz with or without my permission she would become when she want.

[SirRexington]

I have gay friends but I'm not gay... So why shouldn't my daughter be able to have gay friends?

[taleswapper]

Yup. Especially if she was a lesbian herself. There is no downside that I can see...

[InfiniteGray]

Yes and why's she supposed get my permission to become friends with someone? She's free to choose her friends.

[Surely]

Of course, it is not a disease. It is a life style that people choose.

[owens97]

dude ur 20 how is this relevant

[Being_a_good_Indian]

I had asked 300+ questions. Just to know Opinion of other people. I am little bit curious person. 😛😛

[owens97]

well how do u know she is lesbian? like ur daughter isn't gonna say hi this is sally she's gay and i might be to I don't know yet.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Lesbians have firmness to her walk, a long step, and a rather heavy timbre to her voice. Lesbians shows mental arrogance and is abnormally deficient in natural female shyness. Lesbians have a strong, self-assured look in her eye. Being a Good Indian is also Real Life Author and Researchers who had presented research papers in International Conference. 😊 It's possible to identify lesbians from their body language.

Hope it Helps.

[owens97]

no offense to the research but that just sounds like a lot of bogans

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Thank You for your feedback.
Have a great life Ahead. 😊

[Naruto_Uzumaki]

The only arrogant person here is you

[Naruto_Uzumaki]

Who gave you the right to insult people who just live their lives they want to be and who are you to order people around?

[owens97]

sorry who and huh?

[phoenixhelix]

Hmm, how to characterise straight Indian men? They're all the same aren't they? Dare I say what negative traits I see in them?

[owens97]

can u or naruto explain what the hell ur talking about

[phoenixhelix]

I'm pretty sure you're just bullshitting when you say you're an internationally renowned social scientist that's studied lesbian characteristics if you're only 20. Besides, how you described lesbians reeks of ignorance, prejudice and a frankly disgusting view of life. It would appear that this whole question is built on an immoral basis, though possibly because it is a common point of view where you live. Regardless, I would expect anyone to consider the values they live by instead of taking those around them blindly. I celebrate anyone who finds love and happiness. Who it's with is their business, not mine to dictate or judge.

[phoenixhelix]

Owens, Naruto is talking to the 'Good Indian' who seems to be a bad human being. I can only hope that's not a common attitude in India these days.

[owens97]

i thought he was like quoting a professional not saying he was and how u know isn't really part of the question i was just trying to make a point like u wouldn't know so u couldn't stop it anyway so its all good and yea every country probably has a different idea of gay people and straight people

[phoenixhelix]

In fact, this question is worse than I thought. You view lesbianism as some sort of disease, that spreads from one person to another. The question isn't about if your lesbian daughter had a lesbian girlfriend. It's about how would you feel if a lesbian turned your daughter into another lesbian, isn't it?

[LazloHollyfeld]

Of course. Then I wouldn't have to kill some boy trying to lie to her at least.

[IsoUser]

I trust my daughter's judgement, besides who am I to judge

[miia389]

Who doesn't wana be friends with me 😔

[Being_a_good_Indian]

I am Hetrosexual Man but I support LGBTQAI+ Community. You can consider me as your friend.

[miia389]

Lol thanks I was just teasing with my comment though lol. I am lesbian. But if someone doesn't wana be friends with me cause I'm Bi... Oh well. Their loss 😂

[Seppelson]

Yes I would, because I wouldn't care if they have sex together

[TheEagle_000]

No one would come out and openly say they are lesbian in my country so thank God for that. And no I am not from Canada.

[acooke-13]

Yes why wouldn't I? They chose their own friends!

[wankiam]

wouldn't matter to me in the slightest

[DodgersGM]

That would never be a problem for me.

[Becca_]

yes ofcourse. why not?

[Naruto_Uzumaki]

It's her decision who she wants to be friends with

[Naruto_Uzumaki]

Not yours

[alice55]

I wouldn't like it to be honest

[charie]

depends on the situation :O

[yourdarksecretx]

Yeah. What's wrong in that

[gmrgrl]

I am a lesbian soooo...

[LegateLanius]

Why would that matter?

[BronzedAdonis]

you haven't been laid in a while, huh OP?

[HereIbe]

Too late, already happened. Not a big deal.

[FunkyMonkee]

Sure! Why not? What's it gonna hurt?

[Rachel6677]

yes of course.

[baegirlbae18]

Yeah ofc

[888theGreat]

She gets a girlfriend , she moves out on her own.

[daddy1995]

i can cure lesbians xD

[negin]

Of course!!!

[DBmusic3]

sure, why not

[Sarah101avxg]

Yes. Can we fuck?