Polls: Family & Friends

So for my own personal reasons I am waiting until I am married to have sex (this includes oral sex). I understand that most guys don't like this, I understand that this is very uncommon and unrealistic but this is something, for my own reasons I want to do.

I generally do not tell people other than my super close friends (my parents do not even know) because this is a personal choice and not really anyone's business beside my own. But I am not the stupid virgin, I know about sex, and contraception, and STI's and the whole nine yards. I am actually the one to drive my friends to Planned Parenthood or buy them condoms when they are too scared because you know safety first.

To get to the real meet of my question I have been going out with a guy since the beginning of September he is my first boyfriend but I am his fifth girlfriend. He knows that I want to take things kinda slow (we have barely gone to second base over my shirt) and he respects that given the little experience that I have had. What he does not know is that no matter how slow we go we are not having sex (or oral sex).

He is a great guy and he cares and respects me but I still have that fear in the back of my mind that he might break up with me knowing that we will never have sex. I have heard of guys that even though they said they would not date a girl knowing that she was abstinent got to know the girl and then stayed anyone (the situation with my older cousin and her husband). So I hoping that maybe that would be the situation so I want to avoid telling him because maybe he will become more invested in the relationship and build stronger feelings and not want to break up.

Two of my close friends are saying I should tell him because he might break up anyway and it is better to get it over with now, and I should not go out with a guy who can't respect my choices, and I could be keeping him from happiness with someone else.

What should I do should I tell him (even though I never really tell anyone) or should not say anything? And If I do tell how soon should I tell him?

Let's just say you could only have ONE child... For whatever reason. Would you want that baby to be a boy or girl? Any reason?

And no this isn't a "who's better between the two" type question.

I have a daughter, and from the moment I got pregnant I always wanted a daughter. And I don't want anymore children, one is good for me. So I was just curious about other people.

My bf's best friend is a girl that he knows since high school (they were very close b4, but now they've remained good friends - they go to each other for advice and she asks him for favors).

He is also very close with me (always affectionate with me -even in front of ppl, met each others families, and he's pretty open, plus he's a friendly, affectionate type of a guy, and were both the same kind).

He has told me that he has never slept with her and that she's a platonic friend and that he knows her for a very long time and they talk a lot, plus she knows that him and I are an item and I've met her once. But I've also noticed that they fight a lot and she's demanding to him).

is this a red flag? or am I worrying too much about her?

My boyfriend and I are together for just over a year now. We are very close - we see each other often and sleep over at each others houses. And we have also met each others' families.

He is always very affectionate with me - always cuddling, hugging, kissing, stroking my belly and always has his arm around me and calls me "my baby" and tells me he loves me.He also loves my body shape (hips, thighs, belly - curves).

He also have a female best friend and they talk a lot on a daily basis and they say I love you to each other and he always does favors for her and buys her things and they fight quite a lot and if he doesn't do as she says, she yells at him and they get into fights and he ends up getting moody and really sad? He also speaks to her in private and feels uncomfortable to talk to her when I'm in front of him...

is he in love with her or emotionally attached to her?

or is she just using him?

why are they so close?

(they are friends for awhile now - way b4 he met me, plus he ahs told me that he would never marry he because she isn't his type and she fights way too much)

Lets say your best friend that you've known and been friends with for about 10 years. She ended up liking the same guy you liked which you had strong feelings for? Would you upset? Would you not care?

Would you go crazy?

(if you're a boy, say one of your guy friends liked the girl you liked)

My best friend has liked the guy I liked for a long time, she tried hiding it from me, but as I can read her like a book, it was obvious.

She knew it would hurt me. I'm trying to get over him.