Should I make my brother massage my feet?

[Anonymous]

So my brother (13) got in trouble with my mom, and I get to make him choose a daily chore of mine that I want my brother to do. I (18) waitriess at a Red Robins everyday, and my feet are usually sore. I was thinking of making him massage them. I asked my mom and she actually likes the idea because that will actually punish him. It would be a daily thin for a hour. But my feet also really sweaty and reek really bad after work. I'm not sure if that's a good or bad thing. Should I make my bro do it?

Yes

Yes, but longer than a hour

No

Other (Specify in the comments)

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+1 y

He gave me a wonderful massage. This is definitely his chore. XD

[DodgersGM]

Like Vincent Vega says, foot massages aren't a wholly platonic act. It's probably best not to have your brother touching you like that, I think.

Also, ewww! Wash your feet. Or like, wear some anti-stinky wool socks or something. LOL

V. V.: "Now, look, I've given a million ladies a million foot massages, and they all meant something. We act like they don't, but they do, and that's what's so fucking cool about them. There's a sensuous thing going on where you don't talk about it, but you know it, she knows it..."

[Asker]

I've given my mom foot massages, it's easily a platonic act.

[DodgersGM]

Seems strange for adult/adolescent siblings to do, but maybe it's just a cultural thing.

Anyway, I think you should look into making your feet less smelly, or else almost nobody's gonna wanna touch 'em.

[Asker]

They just smell bad because of work, not because I want them to.
And no, foot massages aren't sexual on their own. They're massages, people go to massage places all the time for massages, not what you're describing. Lol.

[CoolSky01]

i can assure you that when i get a message from a girl i always feel something sexual you are either dumb or naive , grow up

[Asker]

@CoolSky01
Neither. That's you, and the world does not revolve around you. Looks like you're the dumb and naive one. :^)
In fact, that statement still didn't even refute my previous statements of how you go to a masseuse for a massage and it's not sexual. Massages, while can be sexual, are not inherently sexual, and simply because when you get a massage it's sexual to you does not mean it's sexual as a whole. That's incredibly dim and naive, I'm kind of shocked you had the gall to call me the same. XD

[TripleAce]

Sure lol... enjoy it

[Anonymous]

Well if you want your bro to hate you for the rest of his life, go for it !

But if you have some respect for him, please don't make him massage your "sweaty and reeking" feet.

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[Asker]

Yea but probably any chore I make him do would do that.

[Asker]

Also we always mess with each other too.

[Opinion Owner]

No. First of all, massaging your feet isn't a chore. A chore is something you do to help at home, like do the dishes, do the laundry, etc... That would be very acceptable, and he wouldn't hate you for it. But massaging smelly feet? No one wants to do that shit. I can't even tell if you're being serious tbh

[Asker]

I used to massage my mom's feet as a chore what. Granted, not daily, but I had to do it every now and then when I was like 15. It also is helping around the house, it's helping my sore feet since I live in that house. I don't think my brother would hate me for it, but I'll keep that in mind.

[Tha_Girl]

Try telling him but if he goes "ew never!" Then make him do something else but if he sighs and says okay let him do it

[Asker]

Lol I've already been getting them massaged for the past few days. Now the only question is how long should I make him do it each night. XD

[Tha_Girl]

However long he's done it before seems pretty fair

[Asker]

Right now he's just giving me them for as long as I feel I need, with the max being 2 hours and 30 minutes or so. Lol

[Asker]

Well basically, he's been massaging them for the length of a Netflix movie. XD.

[Tha_Girl]

lol 😂😂

[Asker]

That sounds about fair. XD.
And if I ever really need the extra attention we can just do a movie marathon. Lol.

[Cmasterson]

I dont think thats an actual punishment however it is beneficial for you.

[Asker]

Why isn't it a punishment? Lol.
But yes, very beneficial.

[Cmasterson]

Because i don't think he'd find it really all that bad haha

[Asker]

Really? Well that's even better for me then. XD

[Ritisha]

Ask him too massage if he say no then don't force him

[hazoplmeught]

FUCK YOUUUUUUUU (IM TROLLING THIS QUESTION NOW!) HOW U GONNA USE YOUR OWN BROTHER LIKE THAT Punish him another way HE GONNA GROW UP SOON. PUBERTY BOUTTA GIVE HIM THAT BOOST. HE GONNA BE LIKE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XHPOxYy3uds

[AleDeEurope]

What an awful way to teach a kid a lesson. You're not actually teaching him anything, you're just using him for your satisfaction.
Obviously it's not a good idea, but seems like you don't really care, and that's why you made him do it :/

[Asker]

You don't even know the reasoning behind it and you're just making assumptions.

[AleDeEurope]

I don't care if they're just assumptions or the reasoning behind it, you're still just using him for your own benefit, don't act like you aren't when you even admit it on the comments.

[Asker]

Well you're commenting against my mother's punishment. I just get to choose a chore of mine for him to do in the first place, so yes, obviously the point is to benefit me, and I already previously stated that in the original question. *Sigh* You really should make an effort to care for reasoning or assumptions. The phrase "I killed someone" sounds bad, until you find out the full story where it was in defense of his child.

[AleDeEurope]

If you care so much about reasoning, why don't you reason about that punishment and see how that helps your brother. Come on, tell me. At that age, when a kid is still learning, the punishments have to make him learn something, not just make him be used for someone's own benefit.
Come on, is it so difficult to understand? For fucks sake -_-

[Asker]

Well I said it before in the other comments, knowing how to massage a girl's feet is not a bad thing. Second of all, you have no idea what he is being punished for, but just logically, if this is a punishment, it will probably teach him to, you know, not do whatever he is getting punished for, no? Just on a normal standard, like when you give a kid a timeout, etc. That's usually what they do in general, it just also benefits me, and you have no idea why that is the reason either, but you're trying to be a little-know-it-all ass and assume you know everything. Just a life lesson for you buddy, never assume.

[AleDeEurope]

But you're assuming that he's gonna take something positive about this punishment xD Hahaha way to go girl, using your brother and trying to deny it. No wonder this is the type of punishments he gets.

[Asker]

Not much of an assumption there, but then of course that automatically places the yang to your yin of that statement, i. e. you're assuming he's going to take something negative from this, which defeats your entire comment in the first place.
Go ahead bub, I'll keep talking circles around you for days. At least everyone else had like a point, you're just being an ass and you're not making any fair point.

[LaikaFreefall]

I wanna say yes, but I'm not really sure why you're benefiting from his punishment... where do you come in? Did he wrong you some how? Or did you mom just pass the punishment buck off to you? Like, how did that happen?

[Asker]

A multitude of things, one of which involved framing me.
Thus why I chose one of my chores to pass to him.
Thus why he is now currently massaging my feet.

[LaikaFreefall]

Okay. Sounds good to me! Make him suffer :P

[Asker]

Ahahahahahah well how long should I do that for?
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1877452-how-long-should-i-make-my-brother-massage-my-feet

[crazyperson19]

I would say yes, make him message your feet. And your calves

[Asker]

Lol I'll keep it at just the feet for now. :P

[crazyperson19]

Lol ok Hey can you messege me please

[Asker]

Why?

[crazyperson19]

Nvm. I guess you r a guy on that end. Nasty perv

[Asker]

Wtf? No? Just because I asked why?

[Intraluminal]

He's at a kind of crucial point in his sexual identity at 13. I'd be worried that he might develop a fetish. Have him do something else, like clean your room or something.

[Asker]

I don't really care about that, I wouldn't let him do anything sexual of course. If he liked massaging my feet, I wouldn't even be on here, that's a free gift to me. Lol. He does not like it though.

[Intraluminal]

I'm not saying he likes it NOW, and I never meant that you would allow him to do anything sexual. My concern is that at 13, boys are "in heat" all the time. As a woman, you give off pheromones with your sweat. He might become aroused whether you are aware of it or not, and he might become fixcated. Do you understand the difference I'm trying to make?

[Intraluminal]

Have you ever seen a female cat that hasn't been "fixed" that was in heat? 13 year old boys are like that.

[Asker]

And I'm saying I don't really care about that, my feet hurt. Lol. I'll put a pillow on his lap. If he enjoys massaging my feet then good for him.

[Intraluminal]

Do you want your brother to grow up to be a pervert because you didn't care?

[Asker]

Having a fetish doesn't make you a pervert. >.>

[hazoplmeught]

what @Intraluminal said was right

[Asker]

@hazoplmeught And I already replied to him about it.

[Anonymous]

I don't know what happened but remember that you can always give him a simple job and just do a good deed :) but it seems legit just not for one hour.

[Asker]

a little late. He's been doing it for 2 hours actually. Oops. XD

[Opinion Owner]

LOL.

[Asker]

*shrugs* Oh well for him. XD

[usernameisnttaken]

No. That's gross. Invest in a foot massager. His punishment will end eventually anyway

[Asker]

It's better by hand though in my opinion. And it's like a permanent added chore while I work.

[usernameisnttaken]

Yeah but it's still your brother. I wouldn't do it if I was him lol

[Asker]

It'd be a chore enforced by my mother, so he has to do it. XD

[usernameisnttaken]

He doesn't HAVE to. I'm sure there would be more punishments to come if he doesn't but they'd be worth it if I was him. I wouldn't touch my sisters feet

[Asker]

Lol she'd make him sit in his room with nothing until he did it. Just man up and brave it. XD

[usernameisnttaken]

Lmao fuck that! I'll sit in my room quietly then! Hell, maybe he'll take a nap! Or read a book, even its a school book! I'd rather read a science book than massage my sisters feet

[Asker]

Once again, man up and brave it. XD. It's just feet. Gross, but feet. Better to have a life massaging then to be a hermit and not. Lol.
Besides, if he put up that much resistance I would go pester him personally.

[usernameisnttaken]

Nope nope nope! Would rather be a hermit than touch stinky nasty feet!!
If you do pester him don't be surprised if he leaves things in your shoes... or cuts off your feet lol

[Asker]

Oh he's already giving me one tonight. Lol.

[usernameisnttaken]

He broke down. so disappointed in him lol

[Asker]

It wasn't hard. Lol

[astrOnaut01]

He will end up with a foot fetish, and possibly incest fantasies.

[Asker]

Foot fetish is fine as long as my feet are massaged, if he's gunna get "incest fantasies" from this he'd get incest fantasies about me anyways.

[astrOnaut01]

That's quite selfish, if you ask me.

[Asker]

How so?

[astrOnaut01]

You're sculpting his sexuality for your own benefit.

[Asker]

Technically, I'm just choosing his punishment which is sculpting it.

[Asker]

If it even sculpts it.

[astrOnaut01]

What does sculpting his sexuality have to do with chores?

You're messed up, if you're not a troll.

[Asker]

It's just massaging feet, jesus. If he develops a fetish for some reason off it, what of it? He gets a fetish, like how everyone gets a fetish. The skill to massage a girl's feet is not going to be a negative impact on his life, I promise you. XD

[astrOnaut01]

You're weird, man. That's all I can say at this point.

[Asker]

Okay, let's be real here. Say he enjoys massaging my feet and he wants to do it for other girls, what's that going to do for him? Tons of girls like getting their feet massaged. XD. Like, that would probably help him out in life more than anything.

[astrOnaut01]

Alright, let's be real.

As someone said in the comments, your brother is at the stage where he is indiscriminately kinky. He is going to be receptive to weird shit.

You're giving him weird shit to be into. He will probably be into incest and feet. I've no doubt in my mind that he will creep into your room while you're sleeping and jack off on your feet. I shit you not here, this will most likely happen, and it will get worse from there.

To be honest, I have a thing for feet and it's shit. It's not something you want your brother to have. I'm not a creep about it at all but everyone stereotypes me as such, so it's like a dark secret. Lucky for me, I didn't get incest fantasies, so it's not as bad as your brother is gonna be lol.

I know you think it's a win-win situation, but it's not.

[Asker]

I already said it, if he's going to have incest fantasies, whether I make him massage my feet or not he'll already have it. And I have a lock on my door anyways.
But hey, if you wanted to take my brother's place massaging my feet, you should have just said so. ;)

[astrOnaut01]

He might not already have it. He'll be more likely to get it anyhow. Also, you think a lock on your door is going to stop a 13 year old teenager, frothing at the penis, from getting his fix? Good luck

And no thanks, lol.

[Asker]

Yea pretty much, it's a locked door. Also I'm a light sleeper.

[MarieRogers45]

Does he still massage your feet? Does he massage your feet with socks or without them? If it was my brother i would make him smell my socks and my feet too if what he did was really bad but that’s just me LOL

[KrakenAttackin]

This is a really fucked up punishment your mother assigned. Let me guess, your mom is a "single mom".

[Idjrjdjdiend]

Is he still giving u them or how long did he have to do them

[glamgamergal]

Id hate someone for that

[Asker]

Lol it's just smelly feet.

[glamgamergal]

Thats how it seems to you

[Asker]

Then how does it seem to you?

[glamgamergal]

Like a trap
I wouldn't do that to someone but thats just me

[Asker]

A trap? What?

[glamgamergal]

Ignore what im saying
Ciao

[Asker]

What?

[glamgamergal]

Nothing

[Nadim171]

Can I do it instead of him😂

[Maxhhuijgz57]

Hopefully they are smelly

[apple24]

I rather not!

[Asker]

You... you don't have to?