Polls: Family & Friends

Have you ever been in this situation, where your friend you've known for years all of a sudden gets into a relationship and forgets about you?

If so, what did you do? How did you handle the situation? What is your relationship with them like now? Would you ever accept them back into your life?

(I'm currently going through this with a girl I was friends with for 6 years to a guy she's known for a year and now engaged to. I once told her that I deserve better and if things don't change, then I'm dumping her as a friend. She even once said to my mother, "I can only focus on one thing at once. I only have time for work and my partner". Do you think I'm attending her wedding next month? Heck no! I declined and blocked her).

I would love to name my baby boy in the future Ty or ideally Tychus so that Ty would be a cute nickname for him (of course if I get lucky, find the perfect husband material that will produce me a strong healthy baby boy hehe).

I do come from a country where we are still strongly used to our specific kinds of names, but I don't care what others here around me think. I like this name.

What do you think of it? :)

I'm hurting right now and very upset. My suspicious were confirmed just 2 days ago when my husband left his FB messenger open. It was messages between him and my SIL (sister-in-law). He admitted to her that he always loved his ex girlfriend Olivia from his much younger years. They met as 9 year-olds playmates, then dated for a short time in their Sophomore year of HS, she broke up the next year and met someone else.

The woman is married but still has him on his FB contact list as friends. He admitted to my SIL that he still loves her more than me. He loves me but I'm not really his first option. He would've wanted to have kids with her. He also said it was true what he once told me while drunk when we were just dating. Then this was the hurting part for me, the SIL asked if he would leave me if Olivia were to get divorced now and she reciprocated his feelings and he reply was a ''Yes, unfortunately I would leave (my name) but that'll never happen. I have to accept being in Olivia's forever friendzone''.

Flashback to the time we were just boyfriend and girlfriend:

We were drinking and while making love, he called me by her name. He literally said ''Oh Olivia, I love you... yeah''. Then tried to fix it right away when I got upset immediately. He called it a stupid drunken mistake and how we would never get drunk like that ever again and even reconfirmed me a bunch of times that he got over her already. I stupidly believed him.

Is this fair? We have a 7 year-old son and he's still obsessing over her? He never got over her and just got with me as second best.

I told her there was no need for her to know about the plans i had for tonight untill i knew for sure it was happening. There was a big chance it wasn't gonna happen and yet because i thought i could trust my hairdresser she blabbed to my mum, then mum kept making comments claiming i was over reacting and he couldn't possibly like me? She even tried to make out i was making it up And no such person existed and she made other comments too like they were digs. She tells me Not to keep secret s but what does she expect when she interfers.. She knows this guy and most of our family know him (i dont think she knows who the guy is tho) but im not an idiot i do my research as much a si can. All i wanted was a drink in the pub we'd already been to, nothing else. Yet it appears from Them im Not allowed this at all? she's always been like this interfering in my business and getting too involved. Even with my brother she's like. "yes go out with this girl when the kids are at school and dont introduce them to her" etc like he's a child and not a grown man

Some people (both men and women) suffer from that.

Give it a rating. On a 1-10 how devastated would you say is finding out you'll never be able to father or carry and give birth to your own child.