I think there is a middle ground that most men and women are comfortable with. I do not like to cover up completely, but I don't want to look like a hooker either. I like to show a little cleavage or wear a peek-a-boo top with my shoulders or back exposed with some black leggings or pair of jeans. I do wear shorts were my ass cheeks are hanging out, because that is trashy in my opinion. Short shorts are okay, but not that short. If I am wearing a dress or skirt, nothing higher than mid-thigh. My boyfriend has never complained or told me to cover up and I never wear anything that would I would not wear in front of my grandparents... well, aside from in the bedroom, that is.
My clothes are neither modest nor provocative.
I dress very casually, think jeans + T-shirt. But I still like looking feminine, so my t-shirt won't be choking my neck, it will be cut lower. My profile pic shows roughly how low I prefer it.
I'm not "sexy" per se, don't have that wow flare, so dressing provocatively would make me feel awkward.
As for guys, it really depends on the person. What's true is that guys like LOOKING at girls that dress provocatively, but many will not consider such a woman as girlfriend material.
I dress modestly, and I feel most attractive when I do. I like my body, I'm short and slim and have nice curves for being a small girl, but I have no desire to show it off. Like, I wear leggings and jeans, but all my shirts are usually the looser style ones that don't show off a lot of chest, and I'm usually always wearing a hoodie anyways. I never wear short shorts.. I will wear dresses, not provocative looking ones. I dress provocative for only my man ;3
My girls very classy when she's out and about kinda like this
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But when she's all mine hmm maybe like this hehe
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If you dress provocatively, the attention you get will likely be for your body. If you dress modestly, the attention will be for what is inside.
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Modest/provocative are the same thing in my mind when I'm looking at a girl. If she's stacked body wise, she can be fully clothed and still turn me on without showing any skin. SAME can be said for a girl wearing a 2 piece, I mean yeah she might be dressed provocatively but if she doesn't have the body to go with it so she might ass well be dressed modestly in my mind LOL
I chose B since more times than not those girls are showing off a body AND NOOO I'M NOT SOME shallow idiot who says
Looks>personality or provocatively>modestly
because I like a balance of both. But I am a eye man I must admit
Meh.
I usually show a lot of skin.
I wouldn't call it provocative though, and I definitely wouldn't call it "modest".
I dress "comfortably" and whatever I think is "cute".
Some people may say that I dress provocatively, but I never get any shit for it..(Sometimes)
I HATE girls that dress like "hey look at me" "check me out" they are attention seekers. and they say they do it for themselves but that's bullshit. I believe its partly to look pretty and feel sexy. but any HONEST woman knows they spend 2 hrs on themselves to turn heads if not they are totally lying. u can do it in a more modest way. funny thing about it on a side note. then when some guys do look at them the're like '" what the hell are you looking at" go figure
i think most guy like it when a girl dresses modestly!!!
Somewhere in the middle. I don't mind short shorts or yoga pants, but anything more revealing than that is too slutty for me. I find it extremely cute when girls wear yoga pants and a sweater, but thas just me.
My friend and I had a conversation about the phrase "modest is the hottest". We both agreed that someone who dresses provocatively is hot, but being modest is the most beautiful. Don't go for being hot, go for being beautiful.
Depends on my mood. Some days, sweats and t shirt, other days, jeans/pants and a shirt or corset. If summertime, dresses that show some leg, but cover my breasts. If fancy restaurant, dress clothes. In private, racy.
I like girls who dress modestly. Tight jeans and tight faux leather pants always gets me going. lol :)
Well it's nice to look at a half naked chick, so long as it isn't 'my' half naked chick flaunting her bits in public every second of the day.
I prefer a girl who dresses somewhat modestly in public but when we're in the bedroom I'd like her to dress in really sexy/revealing outfits.
I prefer to SEE a girl dressed provocatively.
I PREFER a girl dressed modestly.
Modestly. Although, provocatively is better in the right time and place.
Guys like both. Freak in the sheets and lady in the streets, usually.
Modestly. And if I'm dating the girl, then I'd only want her to dress provocatively for me.
As a girl I think provocatively and modestly is ok. The trick is to keep it classy not trashy.
I like it when my GF where's sexy things when we are in the house. Outside its modest because she sys I should only see her beauty
I like modestly better.
Provocatively is usually a turn off.
I've heard modestly because they are either awkward around a girl who dresses provocatively or think that she's a slut.
Modestly to go outside and provocatively only for me :)
Depends on their intention. If they're single and looking then I would love if they dress provocatively.
Otherwise if they're taken or not looking, then I'd rather have them dress modestly.
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