my dad is 56 and looks at 18 year old girls... he may love you and never cheat on you but when looking at those girls he wishes he was young again and with younger girls... also its always awesome for the guy when he's older like in his 50's and he's able to have sex with a girl who is 18
I keep thinking I'll reach an age when lust will no longer be a distraction, but I turn 60 soon, and a curve of hip or leg or a flash of skin is still a serious traffic hazard for me. It doesn't seem to matter how much sex I'm getting, it's a constant visual magnetic attraction that must be hard-wired deep in my brain somewhere. I do try and be tactful and not leer, but it's not easy.
Men are hardwired to get excited by looking at nubile females in child bearing condition (does not mean he wants to leave you to go with them). The female equivalent is females finding strong and successful males attractive (does not mean you will leave him to go with them). Don't let it bother you.
Instead of fighting against it, join in... (I don't mean look at young girls) haha.. I just mean, spice it up a bit, get kinky like.. give him a surprise in your undies when he comes home, or you show him where to put his hand, stuff like that, men (of all ages) love that stuff.. (I mean the majority, not all of them) ... Never mind the fact he looks at women.. so what? If he loves you, I don't think it should make a difference.. Cause you know he loves you..
You are probably very beautiful and your husband is probably still really attracted to you. But there is something very beautiful about youthful bodies and faces. And be honest with yourself, you've probably had a thought or two about some of the young men coming out of Hollywood these days. I wouldn't worry about it.
I don't know but I think that if his bahavior is hurtful you need to sit him down and have a serious conversation. If he really loves you then hurting you would be the last thing he would want to do. I mean how would be feel if you were constantly lusting after younger hot men?
I feel the same way. Why hurt your wife or girlfriend and make them wonder if they are attractive to you?! Be respectful and pay attention to THEM! Don't act like a horny teenager and jerk off to p*rn online. That's not cool.
all guys do that. I say it's normal. it's like when you're dating a guy and he watches porn sometimes. it wouldn't bother me.
he's watched porn/looked at pictures of 18-22yr olds since he was 14 or whatever, just because he gets older doesn't mean his choice in good reliable porn changes.
Young girls are just pretty is all. I look at 20 something girls to but I would never date one. I also look at a lot of girls that are in their 40's and 50's. I was so in love with a woman who is 50 or so years old that I was just sick over it I'm 43.
I am not ur husband, but you should know that we are generally of two emotions, hunger and horny. It has no bearing on his feelings for you, he is merely enjoying the sight of young beautiful hotties on line. He may even jerk off to the pictures etc.. but inthe end he needs the affection of you his wife and companion.
Women are the fairer sex and men are the horny sex. Men are horny for hot young women, especially in the peak reproductive years. Media feeds into this natural desire by offering up scads of images of perfect-looking young women. Older women are not as attractive or fertile. So chances are he is looking and depositing these mental images of young girls into his “spank bank,” all men masturbate. You can be the most beautiful woman in the world and your man would still do this and desire lots of other women because this is how men are wired. If you lived in a society that allowed concubines and more than one wife, you husband would probably have picked some of those girls he looks at to be a wife or concubine. My advice to you is to not worry about his looking. You can’t stop it. All you can ask is that he do it in a way that doesn’t embarrass and disrespect you in public.
i highly doubt he purposley means to look at women in those ages, its just what the industry is right now and its what there is everywhere it will always be younger ladies because that's what people want. when looking at p*rn it will usually be young adult to mid adult women unless he searches for the more mature ladies wich is already too much work for a man..
Everyone has their preference and certian things that turn them on when it comes to p*rn. I'm not gonna lie, I love my boyfriend to death but I still look at certain types of p*rn. Don't take it personal, if your really worried then just talk to him about it.
has it ever occurred that he's perfectly happy with you? maybe it's not about what you do or don't have to offer. maybe he's just wanting something a little bit different, but respects you enough to NOT CHEAT ON YOU. the way I see it, it comes down to this: would you rather he indulges in some self-gratification while viewing (legal) younger women, or going out and attempting to initiate contact? perhaps you should try discussing it with him. it's a good place to start.
Men are so visual that they love porn. yes men of course are attracted to youthful looking women. But he's married and it would be an offense to your part of he looks and browse for girls in the internet, porn or not., for quite a while now that he devotes less and less to you and your family. I think you should discuss that with him, and not jump into conclusions. Hope you won't see him masturbate in front of the computer...
I am not ur husband, but you should know that we are generally of two emotions, hunger and horny. It has no bearing on his feelings for you, he is merely enjoying the sight of young beautiful hotties on line. He may even jerk off to the pictures etc.. but inthe end he needs the affection of you his wife and companion.
Hope this helps.
Don't overthink it
Accept the fact that healthy, sexually active men are designed by natural selection to be sexually excited by females whom they identify as healthy, sexually mature and receptive.
To expect a man not to avail himself of a ready source of sexual excitement, particularly one that doesn't involve undesireable physical or emotional involvement, is like expecting a tiger not to hunt or a fish not to swim.
Have you looked at some of the women in porns these days? Not only do they air brush the porn after, the girls get anal bleaching done, breast implants, ect.
It's the equivilent of putting a cake in front of someone with a sweet tooth and saying "Don't think about eating the cake, and if you get hungry, you are sooooooooooooooo dead"
He can touch himself, and that is why he touchs himself, if he isn't touching them, be happy he is touching you.
My husband won't spend the money on implants for me, but other women having them are fine. Why? Why can't I look as good as the other women he looks at?! It hurts a lot. I deserve to look and feel good about myself and not have it rubbed in my face when I catch him looking at better looking women with huge perky boobs. I really resent him for not loving me enough to spend money on making me feel good.
Being completely honest, he loves you and he will always love you and will always find you attractive, but no matter how much attention you pay to your body and your physical appearance, you're not 20 anymore. That's perfectly fine too because your relationship has a depth to it that people my age can't comprehend, and you're both the better for it.
He has urges, just remember has sleeping with you, would hurt if you went to the gym more and spiced it up in the bed room. and even surprised him in the shower. Its all genes and we are very visual. If you aren't happy about it then sit with him and ask him why he looks at it and if there's anything you can do to get is mind off of it. Despite Porn is on 90% of all computers or more. Just a lot more 18-22 year old on it because that's what hot in society now.
I'm younger so I can't really answer from the older part of the spectrum but I can make an educated guess. Almost all porn is comprised of 18-25 year old women due to their stamina, need for money, and young appearance. It has been statistically proven that older people are attracted to the embodiment of youth. I wouldn't think you have anything to worry about in terms of separation.
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my dad is 56 and looks at 18 year old girls... he may love you and never cheat on you but when looking at those girls he wishes he was young again and with younger girls... also its always awesome for the guy when he's older like in his 50's and he's able to have sex with a girl who is 18
Its like ur me... my dad is also 56 lol and I am pretty sure he looks :P
I keep thinking I'll reach an age when lust will no longer be a distraction, but I turn 60 soon, and a curve of hip or leg or a flash of skin is still a serious traffic hazard for me. It doesn't seem to matter how much sex I'm getting, it's a constant visual magnetic attraction that must be hard-wired deep in my brain somewhere. I do try and be tactful and not leer, but it's not easy.
Men are hardwired to get excited by looking at nubile females in child bearing condition (does not mean he wants to leave you to go with them). The female equivalent is females finding strong and successful males attractive (does not mean you will leave him to go with them). Don't let it bother you.
Instead of fighting against it, join in... (I don't mean look at young girls) haha.. I just mean, spice it up a bit, get kinky like.. give him a surprise in your undies when he comes home, or you show him where to put his hand, stuff like that, men (of all ages) love that stuff.. (I mean the majority, not all of them) ... Never mind the fact he looks at women.. so what? If he loves you, I don't think it should make a difference.. Cause you know he loves you..
You are probably very beautiful and your husband is probably still really attracted to you. But there is something very beautiful about youthful bodies and faces. And be honest with yourself, you've probably had a thought or two about some of the young men coming out of Hollywood these days. I wouldn't worry about it.
I don't know but I think that if his bahavior is hurtful you need to sit him down and have a serious conversation. If he really loves you then hurting you would be the last thing he would want to do. I mean how would be feel if you were constantly lusting after younger hot men?
I feel the same way. Why hurt your wife or girlfriend and make them wonder if they are attractive to you?! Be respectful and pay attention to THEM! Don't act like a horny teenager and jerk off to p*rn online. That's not cool.
all guys do that. I say it's normal. it's like when you're dating a guy and he watches porn sometimes. it wouldn't bother me.
he's watched porn/looked at pictures of 18-22yr olds since he was 14 or whatever, just because he gets older doesn't mean his choice in good reliable porn changes.
Young girls are just pretty is all. I look at 20 something girls to but I would never date one. I also look at a lot of girls that are in their 40's and 50's. I was so in love with a woman who is 50 or so years old that I was just sick over it I'm 43.
I am not ur husband, but you should know that we are generally of two emotions, hunger and horny. It has no bearing on his feelings for you, he is merely enjoying the sight of young beautiful hotties on line. He may even jerk off to the pictures etc.. but inthe end he needs the affection of you his wife and companion.
Hope this helps.
Don't overthink it.
Women are the fairer sex and men are the horny sex. Men are horny for hot young women, especially in the peak reproductive years. Media feeds into this natural desire by offering up scads of images of perfect-looking young women. Older women are not as attractive or fertile. So chances are he is looking and depositing these mental images of young girls into his “spank bank,” all men masturbate. You can be the most beautiful woman in the world and your man would still do this and desire lots of other women because this is how men are wired. If you lived in a society that allowed concubines and more than one wife, you husband would probably have picked some of those girls he looks at to be a wife or concubine. My advice to you is to not worry about his looking. You can’t stop it. All you can ask is that he do it in a way that doesn’t embarrass and disrespect you in public.
i highly doubt he purposley means to look at women in those ages, its just what the industry is right now and its what there is everywhere it will always be younger ladies because that's what people want. when looking at p*rn it will usually be young adult to mid adult women unless he searches for the more mature ladies wich is already too much work for a man..
Everyone has their preference and certian things that turn them on when it comes to p*rn. I'm not gonna lie, I love my boyfriend to death but I still look at certain types of p*rn. Don't take it personal, if your really worried then just talk to him about it.
has it ever occurred that he's perfectly happy with you? maybe it's not about what you do or don't have to offer. maybe he's just wanting something a little bit different, but respects you enough to NOT CHEAT ON YOU. the way I see it, it comes down to this: would you rather he indulges in some self-gratification while viewing (legal) younger women, or going out and attempting to initiate contact? perhaps you should try discussing it with him. it's a good place to start.
Men are so visual that they love porn. yes men of course are attracted to youthful looking women. But he's married and it would be an offense to your part of he looks and browse for girls in the internet, porn or not., for quite a while now that he devotes less and less to you and your family. I think you should discuss that with him, and not jump into conclusions. Hope you won't see him masturbate in front of the computer...
I am not ur husband, but you should know that we are generally of two emotions, hunger and horny. It has no bearing on his feelings for you, he is merely enjoying the sight of young beautiful hotties on line. He may even jerk off to the pictures etc.. but inthe end he needs the affection of you his wife and companion.
Hope this helps.
Don't overthink it
Accept the fact that healthy, sexually active men are designed by natural selection to be sexually excited by females whom they identify as healthy, sexually mature and receptive.
To expect a man not to avail himself of a ready source of sexual excitement, particularly one that doesn't involve undesireable physical or emotional involvement, is like expecting a tiger not to hunt or a fish not to swim.
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I disagree you can control yourself if you want to
Have you looked at some of the women in porns these days? Not only do they air brush the porn after, the girls get anal bleaching done, breast implants, ect.
It's the equivilent of putting a cake in front of someone with a sweet tooth and saying "Don't think about eating the cake, and if you get hungry, you are sooooooooooooooo dead"
He can touch himself, and that is why he touchs himself, if he isn't touching them, be happy he is touching you.
My husband won't spend the money on implants for me, but other women having them are fine. Why? Why can't I look as good as the other women he looks at?! It hurts a lot. I deserve to look and feel good about myself and not have it rubbed in my face when I catch him looking at better looking women with huge perky boobs. I really resent him for not loving me enough to spend money on making me feel good.
Being completely honest, he loves you and he will always love you and will always find you attractive, but no matter how much attention you pay to your body and your physical appearance, you're not 20 anymore. That's perfectly fine too because your relationship has a depth to it that people my age can't comprehend, and you're both the better for it.
He has urges, just remember has sleeping with you, would hurt if you went to the gym more and spiced it up in the bed room. and even surprised him in the shower. Its all genes and we are very visual. If you aren't happy about it then sit with him and ask him why he looks at it and if there's anything you can do to get is mind off of it. Despite Porn is on 90% of all computers or more. Just a lot more 18-22 year old on it because that's what hot in society now.
I'm younger so I can't really answer from the older part of the spectrum but I can make an educated guess. Almost all porn is comprised of 18-25 year old women due to their stamina, need for money, and young appearance. It has been statistically proven that older people are attracted to the embodiment of youth. I wouldn't think you have anything to worry about in terms of separation.
Would you rather him look at pictures of other 55-year-old women?
Hahahahahhaha X-D
Thats wrong who ever he is looking at if it ain't chu then saay something
No he has a point! 20, 30, 55...its the same results... its PORN afterall.. she is not bothered by how young they are, she is bothered by porn itself
Well....guess you have to be secure in yourself and your relationship. its just eye candy.