I really do LOVE when I am told that... really makes you feel good and lifts your spirits. But don't be telling every girl that - make sure you are sincere and don't drop it around like it is nothing... it is a meaningful thing to say to someone.
If you are more playful or don't really know a girl THAT well, tell her she is cute. Don't say OMG you are beautiful...that a bit too much. so is saying she is sexy at first.
Start with more subtle comments...
On the side, this one time I was talking to a guy and rattling on looking up into his eyes (he was talllll) and all of a sudden he was like "you're so cute" and pulled me in for a hug. At first I was like what? weren't you listening to what I was saying...? but after that I was intrigued and kinda like him lol idk. but make sure you are confident and the right person to do this. but it was HOTT
Also tell her she is good at anything she is..well, good at! I loved when I was in high school when a guy would say I was a good artist in art class.
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Beautiful is good, adorable is good if you're in a steady relationship with her (don't ask for the reasoning, it's long and complicated). Sexy and pretty are flattering but make you sound like you want to get us into bed and not have a relationship with us. Beauty comes from the inside out, but sexiness is purely our curves. It's also good if you say how good the color of our shirt looks with our skin or how you like our belt or something. It shows that you're paying attention to our personal expression and style and not just our bodies.
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Beautiful is definitely number one. It just makes my heart gush and I really believe it myself when a guy says it to me. It's just the key to unlock my heart when a guy says it and means it. It's the ultimate compliment in my opinion. Girls and women today live in a society where the standard of beauty comes from stick-thin Brazilian runway models, a next to impossible role model.
I would stay away from sexy and hot, because then she might think you only see her as a sexual object. And no girl wants to be objectified.
Pretty works great as well.
And you can always mix it up. You're so beautiful. Your hair is so beautiful. Your eyes are so beautiful. Just compliment different features so it's not just you saying overall she's beautiful. What specifically about her makes her beautiful?
Good luck.Yes we do if it's geninue. It makes me blush everytime. Compliment wise, I would say the obvious like telling a girl she's cute, pretty, sexy can be a compliment depending on how it is said, telling her that she has beautiful smile is nice. But non-physical compliments are nice as well like telling her that she's smart or confident.
Like pretty much everyone else said, yes we do love hearing that when it's genuine. I know it's more endearing to hear it from someone close to me as opposed to some random guy.
My favorites from my boyfriend are when he calls me beautiful, adorable, and precious, because he says it as if it's so overwhelmingly true that he just can't keep it in. I love that sincerity :]Beautiful, sexy and hot are flattering but Being called beautiful is much more romantic and sweet it makes you seem like you care about us more sexy and hot make it sound like it's just gonna last a few weeks or days, beautiful makes us think you really care
I believe I have a quote for you that goes something like 'all women are beautiful, and they LOVE being told so.'
I would avoid using sexy unless you're actually in bed with the girl, but beautiful, cute, adorable, precious or anything along those lines work in any situation. You just need to make sure you don't overdo it, because then you start to sound insincere. :P
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