Hi, I have very low self esteem. All of it comes from people always telling me I am not pretty or that I should kill myself. And I have contemplate it for a while but decided not too. I came across my all time favorite singer/rapper/dancer/model her name is HyunA, and since I am 20 was actually thinking of getting surgery to look like her. I think she is so gorgeous and would love to look like her. I need opinions please.
I agree with others here, it's not a good idea to try to emulate someone's looks, having surgery does not solve the problem. I also remember seeing pictures of a western guy who tried to have surgery to look 'more korean', it was a scary sight.
And.. just a side note and personal observations. I don't know how Hyuna is in real life, but as a person who studies korean language and who has studied the culture as well as been to the country three times (including a 3-month stint studying korean there), I've learned that the entertainment industry there is all about image, who is more 'pretty' than the other, equally and immediately followed by who is more 'famous' than the other. They compete fiercely and try to make others jealous and look bad in comparison. This is not only the entertainment industry there but in society too, the way some of them act can be extremely shallow to the point of exploiting nearly everything in order to get ahead (speaking of my personal experience with some koreans, not all!) K-pop stars have usually had multiple surgeries to look like they do and who knows what else goes on behind the scenes (I've my own speculations but prefer not to elaborate..) I've done some modeling in my country before, and the moment I stepped into the 'modeling field' I began to meet people who only care about looks, who only want to get ahead. I don't want to generalize, and maybe what I wanted to point out is, if I met a K-pop star like Hyuna I'd be very interested to see what kind of personality she has. I know this sounds like a cliché, but if a woman of her appearance didn't have an interesting personality, I would lose interest immediately, the looks wouldn't matter to me anymore. You can only 'achieve' so much by being pretty. If there is no personality, the looks don't matter.
What would looking like her accomplish for yourself? Why try walking in the shadow of someone you admire instead of looking at what she values and use that to lift yourself up. Don't walk behind your role models, walk parallel, it you understand what I mean.
She models. Plenty of people like you, think she is perfect, but plenty of others will probably critic her voice, look, everything in the book. She found herself a type of confidence where she can put herself out in the limelight and still come out headstrong.
There is a pot for every lid and a lid for every pot. A pot that is bent to look like a similar pot will be seen from a mile away as a broken pot.
Couple of things: - Nothing against plastic surgery but if you have low self esteem, a nose job won't fix that. You'll always be unhappy with your appearance if the problem is internal and not a single physical feature, and plastic surgery won't solve that. - Don't get plastic surgery to look like somebody else. If you choose to get it, enhance your own beauty. Don't emulate someone else's. No one can be like Hyuna as much as Hyuna can. Especially since you're completely different races, the result will be weird/unachievable - Totally subjective but I'm familiar with the kpop world and I always thought Hyuna was the least attractive. She always looked like a mom that tried hard to fit in with the kids and her face is not that attractive to me :P But again, subjective
I'm sorry you feel that way about yourself. It makes me feel sad that people are so moved by others outside themselves. She may be attractive but who cares? A lot of guys really want more than just the hottest or prettiest girl with little else. They want everything! Companionship, respect, affection and physical touch... Plus if that is your pic you are an attractive young woman.
It doesn't look like you are Korean; so, don't get surgery to make yourself look Asian. You don't look ugly and you are attractive. It just seems like you have a lot of sadness in your eyes. Besides, K-pop is very misleading. Everyone looks good in K-pop, and K-pop makes it seem that all Asians are very "pretty" including men.
If that's you in the dp you're definitely prettier than this girl. Her (Hyuna) mouth is too small and her nose is a little big for her face, but you're honestly really pretty, and I'm not lying. Don't listen to what people say about you all that matters is what you think about yourself.
Changing you to be her isn't going to solve the problem. The problem is you giving people too much power over your self esteem. That isn't going to change with a new face.
no idea about how you look like but im sure if you use the same makeup and care of yourself you will also look so pretty. the most important thing is to be confident sweety :)
thank you sweetie :) im telling you the truth you are really so pretty and so stunning . i love your hair and your face. you have no reason to be insecuire you are more beautiful than this girl honestly trust me :)
WTF! why? yes she's beautiful, but so are you. if there is a guy you like, then just go ask him out. and if he rejects you, than its his loss, not yours.
Chill your fine maybe you should try new style for yourself. If you find one that you like and that suits you then it'll probably boost your self esteem.
if u realy want that surgery for you and you only, not for others and u are realy sure you should get it, just remember that there is not turning back from that
That's worse to want to look like someone else, your better off using this negative energy into something positive like going to the gym, and working on yourself.
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