What does "you're not unattractive" mean exactly?

[Anonymous]

my friends with benefits broke things off saying she wasn't attracted enough to me anymore. Im pretty damn sure I'm not close to ugly (see my pic and post history)

I asked what she meant by that and she just said "your not bad looking but I just don't think your my type" does this just mean she doesn't like my personality or should I take this as a sign to keep improving my aperance? maybe she just meant I'm only like slightly above average looking or something?

[Nmalinova]

Nah! This is a typical way of saying: I am bored of the arrangement we have... maybe it is because she found someone better looking, maybe the intimacy got a little bland , but I don't think it has anything to do with personality, otherwise you would alreay been having disagreements and fights leading up to this situation and you'd know

[Asker]

she did a 180 pretty suddenly so I've pretty much just assumed she just found someone better looking 😑

[Nmalinova]

Hmm maybe or maybe she was just scared of telling you... but hey, I am sure there are plenty better fish in the sea :-)

[alice55]

It just mean that she isn't attracted to you even though she doesn't find you ugly.
I think it's about the face, maybe she prefer blond? Or guys with other face shape? Something like that.

[Chanel1981]

It's only her personal opinion, I wouldn't put too much weight on it.

[ItsOnlyThePast]

Sounds like it was a personality thing

[cutemz]

Meaning that you are not ugly but average I guess

[Anonymous]

You are bad at sex.