Is it "trashy" (or some other negative connotation) for a womans nipples to be seen through her shirt?

[Anonymous]

I'll start off saying I hate wearing bras. They're uncomfortable, they restrict my movement and circulation in my body. And in the long run, going braless make breasts less saggy.

I sometimes wear a bralette - no wire- but they aren't always comfortable. I've also worn nipple pasties but in hot weather they don't always stick very well.

I want to just say screw it and just let my nipples poke through my shirt but I know it often has bad connotation. I'm not doing it to be provacative, I just want to be comfortable. What would you think if you saw a woman wearing a tshirt with her nipples outline being seen?

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Also I feel I should mention that I'm a D/DD cup and i dont actually have a ton of issues going braless, other than nipples it doesn't look that much different than with a bra.

I don't care about if people think it looks good or not. I just don't want to get harassed.

[keiferr]

My girlfriends highly educated (masters in math) and 28, she lives in a big city and goes braless frequently. It's not a big deal. We live in a progressive culture, don't listen to these oppressive men saying that it's trashy, those are the same type of guys that will try to have sex with 10 different women a month but then call you a whore for having sex with 3 different guys a year. Bras are shown to cause breast cancer and indeed you're correct, saggy breasts. It's ridiculous how many people here will claim that middle eastern women wearing a hijab is oppressive yet will talk shit about a woman not wearing a bra. They do it for the same reason as the middle eastern, because that's just culturally how they were raised, they were raised to think that if their shoulders or even face or legs show, then they're being trashy, no different than how in north America (I assume you're from) that you will be seen as trashy for showing nipples through shirt or not wearing bra. Go braless and let your nipples poke through if that's how you're most comfortable. It makes me sad that humanity has to be so hard on eachother especially for reasons as ridiculous as this. The only people that will be talking shit or thinking negatively about you doing this are people stuck in archaic ways who don't have the mental capacity to see that everyone has a body and that it shouldn't be something you need to feel ashamed about or cover up completely all the time. P. s, bras were invented in the world war so service women fighting for their country to keep their breasts out of the way of their guns and so they could be more agile. Then the big corporations came out with ads saying that it's sexy to wear a bra and that you should cover up and brainwashed women into thinking that it's necessary to wear them all the time.

[Asker]

I agree with you but what does your girlfriend being well educated have to do with her boobs?

[keiferr]

I was just trying to get the point across that she's not just some dumb girl that just doesn't wear a bra.

[keiferr]

Literally everyone who commented saying it's trashy has underdeveloped brains that can't think for themselves.

[girlcooties]

bc his girlfriend is knowledgeable not to give a shit about something as small as nipples showing through her shirt..

[hahahmm]

No. And there used to be a style where women would wear huge fake nipples sewn into their clothes (before my time but saw it in old movies/tv shows). Now I hear they use small fakes in some movies.

What IS trashy is wearing clothes that don’t fit. Clothes with stretch marks, buttons about to pop.

[smajy]

In the end no study ever confirmed no bras make breasts less saggy because all boobies need some kind of support, because the weight stretches the skin. I prefer bralettes, it gives a little support and they're super cute, just shop some that are really comfortable. Anyways if you want to go braless do your thing

[Asker]

Breasts become excessively saggy bevause the chest muscles aren't used to holding their weight. There have been studies where qomen started going braless and noticed a lift in their nipples over time

[girlcooties]

bc his girlfriend is knowledgeable not to give a shit about something as small as nipples showing through her shirt..

[AmandaLee292]

75% of the time I don’t wear one either... tape girl... tape lol

[Asker]

Uhm ouch

[ZanyInternetName]

1) If bras restrict your movement I want to know what kind of movements you do.

2) If bras restrict your circulation you have serious medical issues far beyond wearing bras. Your trousers would also restrict your circulation, even more so, I'd presume.

3) Going braless makes the breasts less saggy? Source, please.

[Asker]

Bruh you wrap yourself in wire and tell me how comfortably you move. And you can Google multiple studies. The chest muscles are not used to holding the weight of your breasts because your bra does all the work.

[ZanyInternetName]

Oh, I happen to have experience with such things. I noticed no major reduction in blood flow or movement.

Unless you show me studies I'll say it's unsupported. The burden of proof is on you.

[Asker]

Or you can do a simple google search. Im not gonna take the time to give ypyou u links. I have more important stuff to do. And I've noticed personal changes in my own body.

[ZanyInternetName]

1) That's anecdotal.

2) I don't need a link, jus a proper citation.

[Asker]

You're an adult. Do your own research if you're so concerned

[ZanyInternetName]

I'm not concerned with it. I'm just gonna not believe you. That's all.

[Asker]

You wanna be ignorant, thats on you

[girlcooties]

have you never had a rubber band wrapped around your wrist or something?

[ZanyInternetName]

I've had a rubber band around my wrist before. In fact, I have that all the time.

[machismo69]

There is a general perception that if a woman goes braless and her nipples poke through her shirt, it isn't mostly considered anything positive. But when I read through your question, I strongly wouldn't have anything negative to think about because your intentions are purely genuine and straight.

[Bear41]

Guys usually do not care if your nipples are showing. It is usually girls that are mean and nasty, because you are more secure in your body than they are.

[Asker]

Unfortunately I think that has some truth

[Bear41]

It does I seen it first hand. I had friends that were strippers. One of them like you hated wearing bras off work, sometimes she would wear corsets, and her and I hung out all the time. I would hear wowan behind her back saying crap so I being my protective self would give them crap for being insecure about themselves.

[performerwannabe]

It's trashy only if you do it for attention. Girl, bras feel horrible. There's nothing wrong with not wearing them! How come guys' nipples can poke through their shirts and it's completely acceptable but our nipples are out of line?

[someone2]

OK to me I won't think in a negative way about you as it's your personal freedom , but we are not the same as others would be harassing you or thinking in a bad way in both ways do what makes you feel comfortable and the harassment guys would harass you even if you wear a bra

[Asker]

I think people assume either trampy or a hippie. Lol

[someone2]

Just let them think what they want the good one will respect you even if you don't wear anything at all and the bad one will think about your body even if you are wearing a lot of layers over you

[KillNowDieLater]

Well for heads up if you are working you might wanna cover those nipples up I mean at ur workplace I know it may be some pervs n asshole men looking n waiting to say some sexual shit towards you your a woman with juicy tits no wearing a bra what man not gonna look tho but at work that’s really sexual harassment case tho

[Asker]

I go braless at work quite a bit, no one has noticed

[KillNowDieLater]

Pm me

[Asker]

Why?

[KillNowDieLater]

Cause I wanna talk if not that’s cool

[Asker]

What about?

[KillNowDieLater]

About anything
Friends n stuff

[Account]

I do not care if it is. If I do not feel like wearing a bra, I won't wear one. It's simple. People should either get used to it or they should simply look away.

[BatmansWife]

Do what you want. I don't think it's "trashy." Society sees it as trashy and that women should wear bras. But bras are uncomfortable at times and it's hard to find one that's comfortable.

[MrMilti]

If it doesn't bother you, that some men will definitely notice it and take one... maybe two... okay, lets just say "multiple" looks at them, go ahead 😉

[BigDaddy75]

No its not trashy at all and if you feel more comfortable without a bra the go for it F@€k what other people say who are they to say whats trashy or not and why are they focusing on your nipples anyways do what feels comfortable 👍👍😉😉😉😉😉

[Daniel96B]

Do whatever you feel comfortable with. But you should definitely expect a lot of men staring at ur boobies.

[DaManTj]

It's not trashy, it's sexy in my opinion. But at the end of the day wear what you feel comfortable and confident in, it's nobody else's business :-)

[Asker]

My boyfriend tries encouraging me to just do it but I think he just finds it sexy too, which is nice but is not my goal.

[DaManTj]

Which is why I said you should wear what you feel comfortable in, but you should know that if your nipples show through your top, then people will notice, especially guys :-)

[Asker]

I just don't want men to harass me about it

[DaManTj]

Of course not. If they do, then just walk away

[Asker]

Right because a man has never followed a woman to harass her?

[DaManTj]

That's stalking and should be reported to the police, You should be able to wear what you like when you like. Maybe carry an item of clothing that will cover your modesty if you feel that someone is perving on you

[Asker]

This is diving into a whole other topic but avpiding harassment isn't as simple as youd think

[DaManTj]

It is simple, dress sexy when you're with your man, and dress more conservatively when in public, you will not get harassed then. Im sure :-)

[Asker]

No really. A woman could be wearing a garbagr bag and still get sexually harassed.

[sonfking]

Am not a girl but it is not a most you were a bra you could put on a tub

[Asker]

Um what?

[sonfking]

It's even confortable than bra I guess

[Asker]

What are you talking about?

[sonfking]

A tube

[sonfking]

A handless bra

[Asker]

Handless? Like the stick on? They're crap and uncomfy

[sonfking]

But they are elastics?

[Asker]

I've tried several kinds

[sonfking]

Then try using Small towel / handcachife to cover your nipples

[Asker]

Thats so impractical

[hansukota]

Sadly there are people who feel that its bad. but from my view I feel you should do what you feel comfortable.

[mark2580]

I wish you were my girlfriend I would pump them and suck on them 24/7 so they would stick out even further

[Decentguy]

if she tried to hide it, and she couldn't, then its ok

[Asker]

Nah, like i hate bras, so ill wear a tshirt without a bra reguardless of whether or not my nipple outline can be seen

[hellacray]

If you're in an area with not much people I think it's fine.

[Rick912]

Not trashy - but very sexy. It shows that the woman is confident; I like that.

[Asker]

Maybe she isn't attractive but still braless

[Rick912]

Women can make themselves attractive if they take the time.

[Asker]

Ok but i feel like moat men only feel its ok when the woman is attractive. If she isn't then its disgusting for her not to wear a bra.

[Rick912]

I can see that very well may be the case. Nonetheless, hope that does stop women from going braless just because they are not a 10 or average 5.

[Dallsimo]

Poking nipples are extremely sexy!! Even more if they're hard, long and big! ;)

[girlcooties]

No it’s one gives a shit you fucking weirdo. The whole point is she’s nervous about getting harassed.. because she wants to be comfortable and not provocative.

[Dallsimo]

It's her choice to stay inside her own built psychological jail... and it's yours to act like a frustrated person! Lol

[Hotscorpio3]

If I saw ass woman with DD braless and I could see her nipples I honestly would be staring.

[Asker]

I just dont want to be harassed. Like just let me live and leave me alone

[Hotscorpio3]

Do you get bothered because you go braless?

[Asker]

So far I've always worn something to cover my nipples in thin shirts. I've gotten harassed even when im covered, im afraid of the harassment escalating

[Hotscorpio3]

Harassed how?

[Asker]

Cat called, followed down the street, physically assaulted once

[Hotscorpio3]

I'm sorry that's happening to you. Guys can be idiots around a beautiful woman.

[Hotscorpio3]

What happened when you got assaulted?

[Hotscorpio3]

Pm if you'd like.

[Asker]

Not really something i want to share

[Hotscorpio3]

Oh ok

[Hotscorpio3]

Has it ever helped you out?

[Asker]

Helped me? Tf?

[Hotscorpio3]

The way you dress, has it helped you out of trouble or get you something you wanted?

[Asker]

I mean other than dress appropriately for a job interview, no

[Hotscorpio3]

So you haven't taken advantage of you can control guys with your big tits?

[Asker]

No, I haven't

[Hotscorpio3]

I'm sure your a very beautiful, it's something you can do if you want to.

[mrhappydance]

it mostly makes women uncomfortable, guys either don't care, or like it.

[Delroy1995]

If your talking about your nipples printing out no guy would care

[That2kKid21]

I would think it's trashy. But I guess that doesn't matter, long as you're fine with it.

[pattehburger]

No. Not unless you're insecure with women's bodies.

[Band_freak]

I wouldn't even notice...

[VEROcious]

Ehh. Wear nipple covers. And enjoy the tits.🍻

[Asker]

Like I said, the covers dont stick well in hot weather

[VEROcious]

Wear an undershirt. Guys often do that to avoid nipple visibility.

[Asker]

I do when its cool out. But sometimes its too hot for that

[es20490446e]

It's highly sexy, way more than being topless.

[jacquesvol]

It is not, in my opinion

[Scarecrow13]

I wouldn't care. Do what is comfortable for you.

[Anonymous]

Yeah kinda shows that you're too lazy to wear a bra

[Asker]

How to bras equate to lazyness?

[Dinnye001]

I don't care about it.

[BeWithMe]

Dress how ever you want!

[Astoriana]

Yes, it is.

[Asker]

Care to elaborate? Did you read my whole description?

[Astoriana]

It’s still trashy.

[Asker]

Ok. But can you please answer why?

[Astoriana]

Because society is afraid of nipples.

[Asker]

I guess thats a fair statement.

[Astoriana]

I also think that it looks bad, especially if you’re over a B cup, to go around with your boobs hanging down by your knees.

[Asker]

I dont give a rats ass about whether find it aesthetically pleasing. I just dont want to get harassed.

[Astoriana]

You probably will be. Just look at the men already salivating.

[Asker]

I've only had one respose that was its trashy but it doesn't matter, do what you want. And one that said it was sexy. Thays not exactly a ton of men salvating. The rest of the responses are just kinda "do what you want"

[Astoriana]

“I think it’s sexy” has come up a few times.

[Asker]

I've only gotten that comment once on this question so far

[jacquesvol]

Asker don't your nipples ever point through textile?

[Asker]

@jacquesvol

The more textured a fabric is the less can be seen. The smoother and thinner the fabric, the more obvious.

[jacquesvol]

A fabric with a print on it will show less

[Asker]

@jacquesvol

Not really.

[Anonymous]

Trashy.

[Asker]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

Because, men like breasts. Men dont have breasts. I’m an attractive women and I get men staring at me everyday, so I don’t think I would torture myself wearing revealing clothing or shirts that reveal my nipples. I believe the attention would be worse.

[Asker]

So how does your insecurity equate to it making someone else trashy?

[Opinion Owner]

Also, women shouldn’t be wailing around their private parts

[Asker]

Theyre covered

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever nipples should be covered. Byebye

[Asker]

They are covered my clothes. Just not a bra. How is that trashy?

[Opinion Owner]

You could still see them

[Asker]

... so?

[CT_CD]

Trashy

[disasterdrills]

its sexy

[jimmy2667]

Let them free 😁😀

[billyboy000000]

Show your tits baby