If you're fat then eat less, or better, and move more. If you're not, then quit stressing and just be happy with what ya got, cuz you can't really do anything about it anyway. Just find a guy that likes you just the way you are - it doesn't matter what strangers on the internet like - it's simply irrelevant to anything in your life.
And anyway, guys are WAY more interested in your level of attraction and desire for them. The rest is secondary. Your thighs don't even register on the importance chart.
@Anon-ymous1 yeah, because muscular is fat. One who goes blind in spring, sees only greenery all around. https://s33.postimg.cc/9dupec8hr/z6yil5c.png Whatever makes you feel better about yourself dude.
Fr though, I don’t understand why everyone these days has to shame skinny women and men who prefer skinny women in order to express their own preference for heavier women. It’s just a dick move, and it only creates even more unrest and spawns even more insecurity. Slim women are told they shouldn’t be desirable and that if anyone does desire them then there’s something wrong with that person. The same thing happens to heavy women, but doing the opposite doesn’t help anyone. Two wrongs don’t make a right.
@CarpetDenim Internet is full of opinions. You can spend all day and wouldn't run out of the different views. You'll instantly forget a lot of them because they don't make any sense. But a few of them will get your attention and you'll feel tempted to react for a very good reason.
And nobody shames skinny women in real life. Playing victim for being skinny happens only on the Internet because they're used to the attention they get and they want more. They're enjoying an unfair advantage in the modelling industry. They are massively paid for being skinny. They don't mind a bit for shaming healthy women by calling them fat.
Anorexia is a problem and we should help them. But being skinny is a choice. And yes, there's a difference between being slim and being skinny. (Just like there's a difference between being curvy and fat)
"And nobody shames skinny women in real life" I disagree. I have a friend who's fretfully self-conscious because she was shamed for being skinny so much.
BellaIsQueen - Maybe she took 'advices' like "you should eat enough/ you're getting kinda weak/ this article is loose" the wrong way and she's thinking that they are 'shaming' her. People are so dumb. They take offence in everything even if the person is saying for their own betterment.
@CarpetDenim same goes for you. I have never made fun of slim girls who count as healthy. And there's a thing called a little humour. I am not perfect myself. I have a lot of issues and I see so many comments on such issues. Sometimes I react, sometimes I upvote them for their effort. Because I can differentiate between humour, advice, opinion and blasphemy. But I'll still stand on my opinion. Skinny (NOT slim) girls are really unattractive and they have such a short life. I hope god gives them food if they are so poor. But if they are skinny by choice, kudos to them for choosing a horrible lifestyle. Don't get offended if guys like the girls who eat healthy and work their ass off.
Just because a few people did that, it doesn't change the fact. Are you new to the society and conversations? When anyone claims anything, it should be taken generally.
For example someone says : nobody like to have sex with children. That's a fact. You cannot turn it into fellacy by claiming that you know a pedophile.
If that example was too explicit, let's say, in a science book, you read that we breathe about 16 times a minute. You cannot call it wrong just because you have cold.
Slender, but I don’t really like the picture you used for thick. I have thick thighs but I have the same body shape as the slender chick and everything else on me looks like the slender chick. My thighs are just gross.
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Ohhh. I should hire a team for me who finds perfect pictures lol. I seems to choose them wrong ones xD
because lol... the thick ones wanna show that 'ya, we got love for thick too' ... but the slender is business as usual, ya we know guys like the dainty slim girl lol...
Well, I also couldn't find a picture with the same type of thing with pros and cons. I truthfully love both. I've yet to really get the chance to cuddle with a woman that much so i don't really know about the leg pillow part.
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