Is being a tomboy a major turnoff?

[bekahleigh23]

I walk like a boy, wear cowboy boots and wranglers all the time, I keep my wallet in my back pocket, don't carry a pocket book, I have a thick southern accent, I'm always outside and covered in mud or somethin. I'm loud and I don't think before I speak and I'm the opposite of shy.

I don't dress like a dyke or nothin. I wear a little makeup and my clothes fit well, they aren't real loose.

but is all that a majorrrr turn off for a guy?

[XLGirL]

Yeah look you may want to sex it up a bit skin tight jeans and a tight cami / singlet have your hair down or make an effort with it get your eyebrows shaped and get someone to teach you to put on some eye make up and keep a strawberry gloss handy...

once in a while for special occasions wear a dress! something very feminine and sexy so they can at least see you out of the usual.

theres nothing wrong with you being fine with the way you are but if you would like more attention from men in the hopes of finding that someone special you may have to change it up a bit.

I love to ride dirt bikes camp and fish, I get dirty too and I wear the boyish looking clothes (that you can still look like a girl) but I girly it up a bit when I go for drinks or dinners...

Good luck xx

[Stacyzee]

You're one of the guys. Boys wouldn't actually want to date you, they'd probably only want to be your friend.

[superdudeman]

Lets go and do the opposite imagine Arnold Schwarzenegger in a dress.. what do you think.. does that work for you?

Now change that to johnny depp... he might be able to pull that off a bit better.. but still.

Now lets take Natalie portman, it doesn't matter if she's wearing a garbage bag and she's covered in horse manure.. Men are still going to want to sleep with her.

Now lets shave her head, put on a fake beard, are men going to still want to sleep with her?

Probably. But I'm goign to tell you right now, we would rather have her with hair, and not have that fake beard on.

[bekahleigh23]

I don't know what you just said lol.

[bubbleboy]

My ex was a complete tomboy but it wasn't a turnoff at all. She played video games, loved football, loves cars, is an outdoor type of person, and hangs with her friends who are mainly guys often (they do stupid sh*t, like setting up cans and shooting them down with a nailgun, w/e). Shit happened, but you know I'd say she was the best I've ever been with since it was so fun.

Depends on the guy, really. Some guys would just see you as a friend while others may see you as something more since they can really relate to you.

[hallowman]

na your a pretty girl...u could act a little more womanly but your a pretty girl...ul find a guy don't worry

[Littletad]

Wearing boots and wranglers constitutes a tomboy? I thought tomboys are girls who dress like boys and such.

[mlrock]

Not at all. In some ways I like tomboys, it makes me feel more comfortable with the girl.

[Anonymous]

I actually have a huge crush on a tomboy type of woman at my job so no it isn't a turnoff.

[aloneinlove143]

This is like the 5th question I've seen on this.

I think its sexy!

[snackeyg]

Yep. For me it is at least. lol at dyke

[worthless]

Marry me? :)

[GagaBerry]

I'm a girl, I think that's hot.

[WeaponZero]

No way. Its great.

[Alpha93]

sounds good to me :)