Do you think girls should have abs or at least a really flat stomach to wear a crop top?

I’ve been hearing a lot of different opinions about this lately, so I thought I’d ask it on here as well.
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My opinion on this is that people should be able to wear what they want wear, no matter how their body looks, without being judged

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  • People are going to judge it is just what we do. Health is a huge factor when it comes to attraction or expressions of beauty, belly size can be a sign of health. It is natural to see healthy as beautiful. But, yes, people can wear whatever they want within the limits of law. You know, like no public nudity or anything.

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  • I agree with your opinion.
    However, people are predisposed to judgment.
    We judge on beauty (pageants). We judge on talent (America/Britain/Australia's got talent). We judge on ability (sports). We judge on capability (school/jobs).
    We can't get away from it.

    Personally, I like a flatish stomach if a girl is wearing any type of clothing that is going to show off her mid section.
    I do not find it attractive if her stomach is hanging over the edge of her jeans, shorts, yoga pants, or bikini bottoms.
    I'm not going to make fun of her, but I'm also not going to go out of my way to talk to her either.

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  • Unfortunately there's always going to be someone that judges you no matter what you look like or what you're wearing, so why care? Why let others be a factor in what you decide to put on your skin? If someone wants to wear that crop top or bikini ( or for men, wear swim trucks without having to also wear a loose t-shirt), they should. Anyone that thinks otherwise should probably consider that there are people who find Beyonce, Priyanka Chopra, and Margot Robbie unattractive, so there's probably someone that won't like something about *thier* physical appearance. Should they cover up? No, because that would be ridiculous. Some people just need a new mindset.

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What Guys Said 58

  • I think it's rather tyrannical to tell people they are unable to have their own opinions because of... feelings. In our society, if you're an adult, you do what you do (legally), and you deal with what people think of it. You can deal with it by changing your behavior, engaging them, or ignoring them. But trying to silence people because you don't like what they have to say? That's just unreal.

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  • Freedom of expression, you can wear what ever you want if you have the confidence do so. No matter who you are people with judge you regardless so there is no point in worrying about it

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  • Perfection is the enemy of the good. A girl doesn't need to have a perfect body, to wear a crop top. It looks good.

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  • Abs on girls is kind of weird and I don't think it should be really flat it should just be not soggy and hanging out and sloppy looking like its gonna fall right off of you but I would say the same for guys who wear tanks or go around shirtless there now that I've offended everyone its balanced out so don't piss your self

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  • Anyone should be able to wear what they want, but people are always going to judge. You can't help it, your mind instantly makes judgments about people.

    Personally, I only find crop tops to be attractive on fit people (not necessarily abs, but just not flabby).

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  • I find abs really hot on a girl, but of course it's not a must have.

    If i were a girl, i would wear crop tops as long as i still feel good doing so.

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  • Girls look good in general only if they have at least a six pack in my opinion

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  • NO , but have the fore site to look in the mirror before leaving home, And judge is it ok. Sadly some lasses are a size 16 and the top looks like a 12 , not pretty...

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  • Yes, I do think they should have a flat stomach or abs. No one wants to see a lump of fat hanging out of someone in the street. Even if it's in their peripheral vision...

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  • Girls should be attractive, or be prepared to die alone.

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  • No. That's not a prerequisite as long as she knows what she looks good in.

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  • To be honest, not all kinds of clothes are suitable for any kind of body shape. Personally, I prefer the soft flat stomach without abs, its more feminine in my opinion.

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  • Look... a flat stomach is nice.. abs too much... and a little meat over there is PERFECTLY fine

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  • No only slightly visible but no abs on girls that’s a turn off too much muscle on female makes them look too manly I guess

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  • I think it looks a bit odd on women who have a gut. And I'm a guy who has dated girls of all body types.

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  • No they should be able to wear whatever they like. No one should have to dress for what other people think.

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  • I prefer a flattish stomach. I'd really rather live my life not seeing an obese woman wearing yoga pants and a crop top

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  • It is not necessary, but at least you need to look good and most importantly confident

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  • Yes, I do. Everything is not for everyone. But ultimately it's best to dress modestly and quietly.

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  • Not really, but if someone is really fat then I will judge them. Just being honest here.

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  • IDC. The only time someone shouldn't wear something is like a fat person wearing minimum clothing

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  • Well people should be able to wear what they want but the thing is people dress to impress too so flat stomach

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  • If anyone's abs are visible they look more attractive. But in case of a girl, a little belly fat doesn't matter.

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  • Naaahh.. I'd be nice or ltes say too good to be true that she has natural big breast (most guys hate fakes) and abs

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  • Why guys found girls attractive because they are cute and kind of soft I would never fall for a girl who's with abs

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  • No they dont need that to wear a crop top. It would look perfect on a hot girl like you

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  • You can wear it no matter what but it won't really look good unless you're not overweight.

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  • Not necessarily but fat may look bad if someone wears a crop top with it

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  • Well I suppose the issue is really "should people take into account their bodies when wearing clothes? " and yes I think that is an applaudable endeavor. For example, I don't want to go to the beach and see a 50+ year old man with a beer-belly in a speedo, however, I wouldn't care if some super ripped body builder wore the same speedo. It was made for guys like that and is marketed towards them so I don't think it's too unreasonable to ask that someone at least think twice before wearing something. Now people shouldn't be ashamed or judged for wearing something not marketed to them, but they should try and be courteous to others in what they wear

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  • No absolutely not. I don't want to see girls with abs. So disgusting :(

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What Girls Said 39

  • I think everyone should be able to wear whatever they want. However I don't think everything looks good on everyone, I wouldn't like an image of an obese woman with a crop top, but I'd just look away without judging. Also I don't think you need to have a flat belly to wear a crop top, a bit of fat is natural and doesn't look bad at all

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  • I have a similar opinion but people judge even if they don't want to.
    I think this lady still looks good with the crop top and she doesn't have extra flat stomach either.
    1.bp.blogspot.com/.../DSC_0774.jpg

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  • People should be able to dress however they like. That bring said I personally dress for the body type I have. If it doesn't look good on my body type I won't wear it. Thats mine opinion but people should wear whatever makes them happy in their own skin.

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  • I think girls should have whoever they are and it's guy or person doesn't accept that then they need to go because they're Shiloh and don't care about you they're just doing with the idea of something that doesn't exist and you don't need to go to those standards

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  • I mean no one has to be anything to wear anything. They can wear whatever. If they wanna show off their fat rolls, sure, may not be the most attractive thing but whats it to anyone else? Whether the fats showing off in a crop or tucked away beneath a hoodie, its there, so it doesn't really make a difference.

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  • Yes I do. I don't understand why people think we want to see your fat rolls 😒 downvote away girls but I refuse to sign up for this "fat is beautiful too" trend.

    @suitandtie definitely disagrees with me on this

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  • For whatever body type one has, as long as one has the confidence to rock it, they don't need to resort to such rules that the norm has.

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  • I personally wouldn't feel comfortable wearing one if I was chubbier, but if other girls are comfortable with their bodies and want to wear one that's up to them and they shouldn't be shamed for it.

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  • it's a little more attractive if they wear a flat stomach, but they should be able to wear whatever! i have a big tummy and wear crop tops because i still look cute in them so idc

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  • People can drape whatever cloth they want on their flesh prisons. Life's too short to care about other people's style choices.

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  • Wear what you want, when you want. Its your body. You bought those clothes. Wear them. Fuck what anyone thinks.

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  • Be confident and comfortable in what you wear I say. Haters will hate on whatever they can.

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  • No, if they wanna wear a crop top let them
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    ~ Bloodrayne Absinthe Nevermore

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  • I always see super fat girls with a billion stretch marks wearing crop tops and booty shorts. It’s not a pleasant sight, but they can wear whatever they like, i guess.

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  • It probably won't look very good if she doesn't, but honestly I can't be bothered with what other people decide to wear.

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  • Mm I dont really notice that much if people do but I think I wouldn't be confident enough to unless my stomach was flat

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  • I don't really pay attention on clothes so go ahead wear what you want

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  • Why should it matter? As long as nothing is exposed, where whatever you want!!!

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  • People should be able to wear whatever they want, that’s why there’s no laws on fashion :)

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  • i think people should wear whatever compliments their body type!!💗 but it really doesn’t matter in my opinion

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  • They should have stomachs.. Cause otherwise it would look weird..

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  • I think if she can pull if off no pun intended then go ahead.

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  • I think that any girl can wear a crop top if she wants to it doesn't matter what size she is...

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  • Of course, only then it's aesthitically pleasing

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  • I agree with your update

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  • Nah. Let the girls wear what they want.

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  • It don't matter lol

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  • Yeah

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  • Ye i wish i had abs lol

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  • I think everyone can wear what they want and what they feel comfortable with

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