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Teeth can be fixed but it’s not as easily and readily available for individuals as you may think. Fake teeth cost individuals anywhere from 2-3k per tooth 🦷 up to 20-100k to get a whole new set of perfect white teeth. Depends on where you live as well as the technology readily available. It’s not as cheap as most people would think. My mom got fake teeth and it costs a lot more money to put in fake teeth that they have to chisel down in order to have “permanently “. If you want just teeth to sit on top of existing teeth almost like a blanket it is a bit cheaper but not by much. Dental implants are almost as much as getting a new pair of boobs. Also the recovery time for this implant is anywhere from 3-6 months sometimes longer depending on the individual. So at the end of the day , yes the procedure is readily available but it’s not as cheap as you’d think it is.
People care so much about teeth because believe it or not thats the first thing you will see as soon as they open their mouth to smile , eat , drink , laugh , etc. It’s not so much of a big deal to me because I’ve had bad teeth before and I know it’s expensive and takes a long time to fix & heal. My fiance doesent have perfect teeth and I still love him as he is. How much are you willing to handle for the one that you love?
That was my point, they aren't cheap, so judging someone for not being able to fix them right away sounds kinda shallow. Shit can happen to anyone really. Now, if the person just didn't care about their teeth, not even to fix them that is different. It's just as bad as being obese and not caring to lose weight.
Preach ^^ people always get mad at me bc I tell them it’s not that I hate bigger people it’s the ones that complain about their weight and then just sit on their butts.
Dental hygiene is huge for me, so if your teeth are falling out well thats a good indication that your not taking care of your mouth, and I’m not talking about getting teeth knocked out. If you don’t brush regularly and I can tell your not taking the time to do it, the last thing I want to do is put my mouth on yours!
So if someone your age has cavities since they were 15 and know some of the fillings fell and they can't afford to repair that for the moment then your conclusion is that they do not brush their teeth now?
Someone losing a cavity and someone not brushing their teeth are two different things.
The point was, how can you tell? If i get a cavity at 15 and at 30 the filling falls and i can't afford it for a few weeks for example, according to ylu it means i don't take care of myself now, when in fact it is a mistake i did in my teens
Well call me shallow but if your teeth are yellow and fuzzy looking then I’m going to get the impression you don’t take care of your mouth. And side note, you can’t tell if someone has a cavity really, unless they’re teeth are rotting, which in that case is another sign your not taking care of your teeth!
I could care less if you got a cavity at 15, I had cavities when I was younger to, I also just went to the dentist and have a small cavity and I’m a regular brusher and flosser.
You can tell they have a cavity because there is a hole in their teeth... especially if it is the front teeth, it is obvious. Also, did you understand i was talking about your filling falling off? Of course you can tell it happens, your tooth is not whole.
Yah in the front yes, which is pretty uncommon. And not reason to be snarky, my best friend is a dental hygienist so I have a little firatvhand information on this.
You still didn't adress my point
Clearly you don’t understand English!! Good day!
You don't. I asked if it is ok to judge someone's dental hygene and diet if they had an okder filling that fell off. You didn't talk about it. Stop trying to put me into the wrong to avoid an answer.
Because they are not aesthetically pleasing.
Personally, I have misaligned teeth because of the simple fact that my braces kept breaking constantly. I had them for like a year and very little changed about how my teeth are. So I have some gaps.
Anyway, it depends on what is defined as 'bad teeth'. If they are really yellow or black, it's obviously a sign that they are not being taken care properly of. However, a slightly coloured is very natural. That's like the only argument for it seeming not healthy.
Whether there's a gap between teeth has nothing to do with health in most cases, and thus is purely for aesthetics.
My point is that at the moment you meet them they may nit have the money to fix them.
I know a few people that just don't care, but some may not affort it.
True, true
It is unappealing physical trait and It is just as shallow to dismiss as any other unappealing physical trait. I don't see why would it be considered more shallow than dismissing: :baldness , short height, weight, facial structure , etc.. If you accept that some physical traits are acceptable turn offs them they all are.
no, it is moreshallow, because I said THEY MAY JUST NOT AFFORD IT WHEN YOU MEET THEM, teeth are easier to fix than an ugly face and almost everyone needs to have some work done at some point in their lives. I mean, if I met someone and they had bad teeth and I found out that is because they just don't care about cleaning and fixing them yeah, that would be a dealbreaker because their teeth would just get worse. But if they are saving money for fixing them it would be a bit shallow of me to reject them for it.
When you just met them they are not going to know your plans and that factor may already have disqualified from getting a number. If they do get to know ones reasons then one would be put into basic loser schmuck that can't afford dental care category. Which transforms a physical factor into a financial one which few people would consider shallow.
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Because all physical preferences are essentially shallow, yet people are attracted to what they’re attracted to and that’s ok. If someone doesn’t find a person aesthetically pleasing why should they have to pretend to just because? We can’t be attracted to everyone and we shouldn’t feel pressured to just because someone who doesn’t meet ones “criteria” feels hurt.
I’m a person who likes good teeth, I had braces at 27-29 to correct minor cosmetic issues because it’s just something I personally feel strongly about and find attractive in others. However, many men won’t like wide noses, or brunettes, or tattoos or super short women so automatically I’m out of their radar and there is nothing wrong with that
I'm missing teeth, I can't afford to fix them as I was quoted 14,000 for the treatment I would need so I'm stuck with bad teeth. If I had 14,000 teeth still wouldn't be top of the list because of getting a deposit on a house or boat to live on
You can fix your frony teeth first and then the rest
I don't mind slightly misaligned teeth. I had one twisted tooth and it used to bother me a lot even tho no one else around me cared about it.. but I still got braces and got it fixed. Ever since I got braces I notice teeth A LOT. Misalignment doesn't bother me as much, what bothers me is that a lot of people are super careless about dental hygiene. That's what ticks me off.
It is the fact she didn't fix them. Especially with the technology available. If she is in treatment that is different.
I do NOT want this (photo below). Hahaha!
I feel I can do better/deserve better.
Nothing against those that are toothless.
Just not my thing.
God bless them.
Not my type.
Haha!
I said : what if they do not afford it at the moment?
Soooorrryyyy. I would have to be like super impressed with her. Like 10 out of 10 in every way except the teeth. It would be hard to overlook.
That's icky.
@monkeynutts yep. haha!
It depends on the person. With some people missing or bad teeth is very noticeable while with others it is not. I would also would rather have teeth pulled than have a mouth full of bad teeth, at least it shows you have been to the dentist and are doing something about it. Walking around with a bunch of rotting teeth is not a good look.
If teeth are a little crooked I don't think it's that big of a turn off.
However bad breath and rotting teeth could be avoided if the person just practices proper dental hygiene.
Cuz since MOST of the people have good teeth they dont expect people to have bad teeth. Whaddya expect? People are judgmental and shallow and calling other people shallow is shallow itself
i don'tthink you understand why i said that is shallow. Also, i am not strictly talking about missing teeth, but about teeth problems in general. Most people get a teeth problem at some point in their lives. I was talking about a situation when the person may not afford to fix the issue at the moment, not that they will leave it like that. That is why I said it sounds shallow. I wouldn't date someone who has fucked up teeth and doesn't care to fix them either. But if a guy I was talking to was trying to fix them it would be shallow for me to reject him for that.
Bad teeth are not a turn off for me.
Gross mouth hygiene is.
Cuz no one wants to Kiss a dirty looking mouth that looks like a hillbilly , having bad teeth pretty much means u have bad hygiene and probably dont brush your teeth as much as u should or u dont go to a dentist , it's a turn off
Cause we're so enamored with perfection. Ya know, straight and white teeth, chiseled jaw on men, long hair on women, shortish on men, broad shoulders on men, 6 packs on men
I mean that's what we're brought up to believe is the quintessential stuff. That we HAVE to HAVE PERFECTION
just comes down to personal hygiene. my boyfriend has god awful teeth due to a an a**hole smashing his jaw into the pavement as a kid. but he brushes those suckers like crazy and flosses religiously. i don't care at all
Subconsciously it's a sign of poor health and hygiene, even if it isn't.
I don’t think they meant crooked teeth- I think they meant that some people seem like they don’t brush their teeth- and if they do and it’s still gross (I don’t think they’re tryna be mean but) do you really think you’d wanna kiss that :/
Because realistically people look at other people the surround themselves with (be it friends or mates) as accessories. I know it's sad but this is why so few people have good relationships is they view their partners as a reflection of them rather than someone who cares about them. So what you see on the surface (and teeth are huge in this area) Is paramount.
Tell me i'm wrong.
i imagine becuase a smile is a big part of attraction. so if someone has bad teeth their smile may be less attractive
Well you know life isn't fair. You just gotta make sure you have enough positive qualities to overcome your bad ones. Everyone would love to be perfect but life doesn't work that way.
Dental health is just a reflexion of finacial state, middle class is struggling with that...
Because if I'm kissing the girl and she has bad teeth, it's not going to be very hygienic and she could spread bacteria onto me as well: something I'd like to avoid.
I think dental health is a reflection of overall health. If a person isn't managing that well, chances are there are other things being mismanaged also.
^^^THIS^^^
Some people are naturally predisposed to cavities. Some get their first cavity at 50 others have like 10 fillings at 20
That is simply not true. What is true however, is that the two root causes of cavities can be corrected; sugar consumption and Vitamin D deficiency
It is true, i know people who did everything right about their hygene and simply got cavities because they had braces on and couldn't clean properly. Also, most kids and teens eat sweets but not everyone had lots of cavities.
Any refined carbs can cause cavities, not just sweets. Bread is one of them. Also, people who wore braces for a long period of time have higher chances of getting cavities than those who didn't. People in the past didn't have as good hygene as we have now and not everyone was toothless by the age of 50. Genetics definitely play a role into it. just as some people are more likely to get diabetes some are more likely to get cavities
Ok so let's look at your response here:
You've said it yourself some people do everything right; brush floss etc. and they still get cavities.. I agree, this is correct, so we know that isn't the root cause. If it were, these people wouldn't get them.
Refined carbs cause cavities; again, this is also correct. Carbs are sugar! Nobody equates carb consumption to sugar, but that's exactly how it breaks down in your body. See my first response; too much sugar.
Genetics do NOT play a role in it. If this were true cavities would be consistent amongst generations and that is simply not true. The difference in generations is to your point; hygiene is much better now, but look at what isn't; people spend much more time indoors now, so they aren't getting near the amount of natural Vitamin D they require, and secondly is our food sources. There is next to no Vitamin D and tons of processed sugar.
Sure, you can compare Diabetes to this; the commonality is TOO MUCH SUGAR. Diabetes is not genetic. If it was, a diabetic's ancestors would have had the same condition, which is simply not true. Diabetes, like dental health is much worse now because people aren't managing their lives well. They assume they're doing everything right and are outraged when something goes wrong. The fact is, the majority of people have no idea how to live a healthy life, because nobody ever taught them. This includes dental health.
The reality is, they do it to themselves
Dude, you don't u. derstand anything. If lots of family memberse have diabetes, you are more likely to have it than someone from a family witha different genetic background. If you live healthy though you may not get it or manage not to develop the worst type of it. Same with cavities. Some people have a weaker teeth structure and are at a higher risk of getting them. Sure, with proper care they can be prevented, but it is. easier for thise people to get them.
And if to you somone eating grains and potatoes is living an unhealthy lifestyle then you may have to get reconsider some things. And not everything with carbs causes cavities. Fiber high foods are unlikely to do so. Also, you need carbs to survive, so giving them up so that you don't get cavities is not good for your health
You asked a question and I answered based off of the things I've read and seen throughout my life. You don't have to agree with me my intention wasn't to change your mind. You are free to go ahead and research wherever you like to figure out whatever you want.
Greens and potatoes don't cause an unhealthy lifestyle per se but the body breaks down to sugar. Yes you do need carbs to survive but in the Western world we consume way too much. So you can give up about 90% of your carb intake and live a healthier lifestyle.
And I think you should rethink your opinion; giving up things to live a healthier lifestyle which includes not getting cavities, is the right thing to do.
I can assure you if you do your own research you'll see everyone with poor dental health is vitamin D deficient and consumes too much sugar.
And let's face it if we go back to your initial question someone that doesn't look after themselves properly isn't really turning anyone on
Good luck.
first off i don't live in america
secondly, I wore braces which made my teeth hard to clean properly
thirdly, my diet was a regular teen diet, with all kinds of foods including sweets. You don't know anything about my diet or lifestyle now. The fact that I had a bad diet as a teen should influence someone the opinion other people have about me now? Even if I had them filled, I wouldn't like someone to criticise me for it if i couldn't afford it for a while. Bad teeth aren't fixable with diet, that is the problem, once you have them you can't do shit about them other than go to a dentist. So all that advice about eating healthy so that people won't judge you for itis useless for the current issue someone may have. Ifyou can't give them money to get themfixed then you aren'thelping by saying stuff like that.
Also, you're just 17, what extended life experience do you have? And what is your point at this moment? that is ok tojudge someone for having bad teeth because they may have had a point in their when they didn't have a proper diet. But I assure you, genetics play a role into it, whether you like it or not. Maybe you should look into it.
I wish you have told me you had had an age bias. Too bad because you're going to miss out on a lot of good information with this preconceived notion.
Good luck
Lol, you talk like you are a 60 year old dentist, not some 17 year old guy...
And you basically ignored some of my points. What is the purpose of judging someone based on their teeth? If you get a cavity at 16 your tooth will just get worse over time. Does that mean that you have a bad diet if you're 40 and have bad teeth or that at some point in your life something didn't go well and your teeth were affected?
Look, you asked a question and I answered. No amount of rationalization is going to make me agree with you. Clearly what you been doing up until now and everything you've been told to do doesn't work for you. Therefore if you want different results you need to try different things.
Logically if you push it in your body you're going to get shit out. Change your diet and you will see drastic results.
You don't have to like my answer... that's ok.
This is an age thing this isn't a gender thing this isn't a country thing. With respect now you're trying to rationalize behaviors that have led you to this. You need to do different things
A dentist will tell you to clean your teeth and will never mention vitamin D because they weren't taught that. That's not part of a dental schools curriculum.
Why does one person get cavities at 10 and another at 60? Nobody knows. The common denominator is too much sugar and vitamin D deficiency. That's it.
As I've said numerous times now if you don't like my answer you're free to go and do your own research. My recommendation would be to stop leaving your well-being in the hands of others.
Good luck
dude, you don't get my point, i understood yours but you didn't get what is said. No amount of fixing your diet will fix your teeth. if you get a cavity your tooth is permanently damaged, DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT? if you fucked up your teeth in your teens should people judge you at 30? you may have a perfect diet at 30, it won't do shit to repair your teeth, your tooth is not the same anymore, you need feeelings for the rest of your life for that tooth.
And you still fail to accept that genetics play a role. Some people are more likely to get osteoporosis than others even though they have the same diet. Same happens with teeth.
I understand your point and I respectfully disagree. Your diet makes ALL the difference in the world.
Again, you don't have to take my word. I don't expect you to. I do suggest you do your own research and use yourself as a guinea pig. Get your own results.
No, you don't get my point... you ignored everything i said and you say the same stuff over and over again, even if i told you why it may be irrelevant.
you don't have to get it though, it is a fact that you can't regrow tooth structure and that your genetics play a role.
I think you're wrong. That simple.
I've always puzzled over this. I couldn't give any less of a fuck if someones teeth aren't perfectly straight or pristine white. Don't even notice unless it's really bad. Some peoples idea of "bad teeth" just looks fine to me
Depends on why they lost their teeth i guess, if it’s an accident that’s one thing if it’s from neglect of hygiene or drug use then I’d be judgmental about it
Lol, some people have genetically weak teeth so they get cavities easier. Plus, some people wore braces and couldn't clean them properly. I had braces when i was a teen and my family has bad teeth too and i have lots fillings now. If someone were to judge me for it i would think they are shallow. I mean I was a teen then, my doctor didn't inform me properly about cleaning my teeth properly with braces and about diet.
Cavities aren’t the same as a ton of teeth missing 😂
It can lead to missing teeth... you gave no idea. Things can turn wrong once you get a cavity
There's a big difference between someone who has crooked teeth, and someone who is missing teeth.
Well, bad teeth signify bad genes or a possible disease. It’s scientific really. When looking for the best mate you look for the most healthy partner. Bad teeth=bad health
Well, that's me screwed. My Yorkshire genes will be setting in soon I guess.
its just common that a nice smile (straight teeth) is more attractive than bad smiles.
As long as the teeth are clean daily, I don’t give a shit
You're right and I agree with what you said, also there can be other reasons that can prevent you from visiting a dentist. And with teeth there is always hassle throughout life
Even if it’s fixable - doesn’t make it more attractive...
Unfortunately that's just how the world is, shallow.
The first 3 things everyone sees first; eyes, your smile, and your body/posture.
Nah, at first i look at their eyes, then whole face, then body.
Because most of the time it’s a sign of bad hygiene
I just couldn’t date someone with bad teeth.
But in most case you can't figure out how bad one's teeth is, will you check it on your own?
It can indicate poor health.
I've never really put stock into it.
Cause we don't like British people
To me seems like there unclean.
cuz they look scary
How are my teeth?
You're very shallow
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