Hey everyone, sorry to add what is probably the zillionth fat girl question to the topics but I'm a little confused. I'm not really fat, just bigger in frame. To correct this, I try to work out everyday and I have a healthy eating style. But nothing truly seems to be working. What bugs me the most is the fact that I live in a very skinny area, I'm normally proportioned but I feel so huge compared to everyone else. The guys obviously view me as too big as well because.well.lets just say that they are always asking about my friends and try to get me to hook them up with my cousins.(they really could be models) Is there anyway for me to get a little more attention from guys? I can't really work out anymore than I am and I eat healthier than pretty much all of the girls I know so I ain't gettin' any skinnier because there is no way I'm willing to go anorexic.
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I think you just need to make as many guy friends as you can. When people look for possible dates they usually base their selection initially on how someone looks, but not when looking for friends. By approaching people as a friend you're given the opportunity to try and attract the person with your personality.
There was a girl I had an art class with in my sophomore year of high school who I was initially completely repulsed by for just, weird, unexplainable reasons. I think it was just her mannerisms. Anyway, I disliked art class already, and having assigned seats right across from her was a nightmare, I hated coming to class. Eventually as I got to know her better my opinion changed. Now I think she's beautiful.
It happens, I can't say how often, but it does.