Are You Comfortable/Confident Going Out Shirtless?

[bannacookies]

Yes.

Nope.

[Rob17792]

about two months ago I just finished working out weight lifting and I was about to get my shirt on when the woman from some delivery food app rang my buzzer so I could come down and get my food. needless to say I didn't have my shirt on and when she saw me she came out of the car then "realized" she forgot my drink only to go back in her car by the drivers side and laid her body almost completely down on the front seat reaching for my drink and other food which was on the passengers seat to show me her ass and thighs and her figure then to come out of the drivers seat and bend down before me like she was giving me a blowjob but didn't while looking up at me. (nothing happened between me and her I didn't cheat on demi)
Another time I was in therapy with the second woman I love (before I met demi) and I was scrolling through my phone pic gallery and tilted my phone a certain way to show Andrea the pictures of myself without my shirt on. She was on the phone and pretended like she wasn't looking. A few minutes later when she gets off the phone she said she had to make a photocopy of something and walks by her door and "conviently" drops the paper she had to photocopy only to bend over showing me her ass and thighs in full face view.

[Rob17792]

I tell demi she looks fucking hot in a bikini and she has a really hot fucking body. because she does. she's really hot looking her body is really fucking hot!!! and her freckles are really beautiful as well. I told her this on numerous occasions

[Person234]

I have a fit body, I’m tall and toned definitely but unless I’m at the beach it just feels. Imodest? Don’t get me wrong I dress in tight well fitted clothes but I think when it comes to being shirtless in random places for guys it comes off as kind of arrogant or creepy even almost and I don’t want to be perceived that way. It’s not really talked about but there is a stigma about men showing their bodies too. For example in America it’s typically frowned upon to wear spandex or underwear while swimming even though this would be more comfortable as we usually wear it under our swimsuits anyways. It’s kind of like how on Instagram we typically only see guys post shirtless pics at the beach with their girlfriend or friends unless they are a model. So in short I’m confident but I feel arrogant or immodest being shirtless if I’m not at a pool.

[sizzle0909]

Hit me up

[bobalife]

Recently when I was at a beach, all I wore was a cute see through top and bra with a skirt, even then wherever I go, I grabbed way too much attention than what I’m comfortable with. So, I wouldn’t mind with where or whom. But it makes me too shy or creepers on my look out.

[soe11]

Yes your absolutely right, my girlfriend is pretty much confident what she choose to wear regardless what people think, some time she go out 4 groceries shopping and resorts restaurant just bikini top and booty shorts and party night out sheer top without bra on.

[leahzrc]

never wanted to but not because i am not confident, i just like to wear a shirt

[GoodManDave]

No. But I live in a neighborhood full of 80-year-old dudes who have no sense of modesty. Like they got moobs down to their knees, and they're walkin' around like they're male models, pasty gross man boobs swingin' like pendulums. Like all the gyms I've been to (except the last one), there will be these walrusey lookin' dudes just walkin' around naked, long conversations, fartin' around everyone... no towels... they don't care.

I don't want to subject anyone to my body, at least until I'm buff, if that ever happens. I hope that if I don't get buff, as I age, that I maintain some composure especially if I'm gross. Now if I'm buff at 80, or at least thin, and look ok, then maybe.

[DaisyAimi]

Yes ☺️ Depends on what i am wearing though. Im a dancer (lots of working out) so i don't really have a lot of insecurities if it comes to my body. Next to that i honestly learnt to not give a f** how others see you, and that really helps me save up a lot of energy.

[Gagname]

What a sexy attitude & body you have @DaisyAimi!

[GomDum54]

Depends on the where for the most part. I’m not going hiking shirtless (asking for a sunburn if you do) but if I’m going to the beach then yeah I can go shirtless. Overall I would say no in just a public setting just because I’m comfortable wearing a shirt. Especially when I workout because I sweat a lot and a shirt holds onto your sweat.

[PaganWarrior]

I used too, but since gaining weight due to meds etc.. Not anymore. I've only worn a bikini top once here in the UK, and it definitely caught attention to men driving by D: it was a super hot day, though, while walking to my grandmother's, so I took my top off and had that underneath, with my army pants on and boots.

[Gagname]

You’ve “only worn a bikini top once” in the UK? I don’t understand—certainly there’s no big deal about wearing a bikini top (?)

[PaganWarrior]

No, but we just don't do it over here since it's hardly ever heatwave material is what I meant. It mostly cold and raining etc.

[Gagname]

Oh ok, are you making a distinction—saying you’ve only worn a “bikini top” once, but maybe have worn a bikini many times?

[PaganWarrior]

No. Only worn one once. Literally.

[Gagname]

Oh wow, really? That’s sorta unbelievable to me... there's gotta be hot days and looks in the UK, and beaches along the coast where women where bikinis there.

[PaganWarrior]

Nope. There are beaches, but we don't use them often because of our weather.

[Gagname]

*hot days and pools

[PaganWarrior]

There are hot days too, but they don't last longer than a week. It's hot right now, but most of us don't walk around in bikinis.

[PaganWarrior]

Indoor pools.

[Gagname]

Ok, but women still are wearing bikinis there, right? ... what I’m saying is—are you maybe NOT-representative of the typical UK woman when you say you’ve only worn a bikini once?

[PaganWarrior]

Obviously not.

[Gagname]

Ok thanks

[PaganWarrior]

No worries.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah, I have a chubby body but I go out to throw the garbage out, now I usually wait to I get my shirt on then I will go up tomorrow to take the garbage to the top of the road now If I had a White Beater, I would wear that in place of a T-shirt.

[Paige90]

I am totally comfortable going without a shirt and bra whenever and wherever legal.

[Gagname]

So sexy

[devilish-cutie]

Yes, funny enough i may be javing a top in piblic but would feel more self concipus having one in eg. Gym or indoor places

[ElvenMr]

I used to swim a lot, so i don't mind going shirtless. And i'm used to shirtless/swimsuit girls around me as a consequence of that.
Currently i'm not 100% comfortable going shirtless, but i could still. However only in appropiate places, like near water.. and not driving a car or walking on a busy street.



Love the gay photo by the way lol.

[ImSparkly]

Yup. I run in a sport top and boy short bottoms spring to fall. Nobody’s forcing you to stare.


I’ve been topless enough other times where it’s really NBD for me.

[ImSparkly]

It all doesn’t matter much when your a flat A cup. Wearing anything up top is more about modesty than support or function.

[Gagname]

That’s ok @imsparkly, a sports top + small breasts (perkiness) = so hot 

[StephenCF]

I used to do it on hot days as a teen, but no, not anymore. I’m not self-conscious about it, I just feel like onlookers will think I’m being a show-off as I don’t really see shirtless guys roaming around anymore like I used to 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Mystic_Nova]

Not really, I burn easy and I'd much rather wear a crop top, than just a sports bra, that's just my opinion.

I'm not that sensitive about my body, I just dont see the need to.

[AustColombiangirl]

Come summertime in a few months all I wear mainly is either a bikini or sports bra if have to cover up its with a loose tank top

[Gagname]

Summertime Down Under... is that you in your pic? If so, you’ll be rocking your bikini & sports bra!

[AustColombiangirl]

@Gagname yes

[katiesmuff]

I've never been one to worry about what someone else thought and being shirtless is nothing uncommon for me.

[TruthBringer]

People expect me to go shirtless since I got an aesthetic body. But yet, I do... only in places such as the gym or at the beach

[elizamichale1]

Ohh i am very very comfy n confident to go shirtless but then they say i should wear a bra...

[Red_Arrow]

I certainly never told you that. 😂

[elizamichale1]

@Red_Arrow hehe u definitely didn't honey

[winterfox10]

I"m to heavy to go shirtless at the moment haha. I'm a fairly confident guy in general though. If I were in better shape, going shirtless wouldn't be an issue for me at all.

[MelindaT510]

Absolutely!. Though it is frowned upon in most places.

[SphynxUK]

No, because I’m allergic to light.
And no, I wouldn’t go out in winter shirtless, would you?

[Tobi_Lerone]

I'm not. My body looks not really good so yeah... currently working on it to get some muscles and maybe look better in future 😅

[Unit1]

Yeah, why wouldn't i?
i do prefer however protection over my body even if it's something as useless as cloth.

but when its hot, i care more about wanting the thermals to go down.