Are You Comfortable/Confident Going Out Shirtless?

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Rob17792 · Accepted Answer

about two months ago I just finished working out weight lifting and I was about to get my shirt on when the woman from some delivery food app rang my buzzer so I could come down and get my food. needless to say I didn't have my shirt on and when she saw me she came out of the car then "realized" she forgot my drink only to go back in her car by the drivers side and laid her body almost completely down on the front seat reaching for my drink and other food which was on the passengers seat to show me her ass and thighs and her figure then to come out of the drivers seat and bend down before me like she was giving me a blowjob but didn't while looking up at me. (nothing happened between me and her I didn't cheat on demi)
Another time I was in therapy with the second woman I love (before I met demi) and I was scrolling through my phone pic gallery and tilted my phone a certain way to show Andrea the pictures of myself without my shirt on. She was on the phone and pretended like she wasn't looking. A few minutes later when she gets off the phone she said she had to make a photocopy of something and walks by her door and "conviently" drops the paper she had to photocopy only to bend over showing me her ass and thighs in full face view.

Person234 · Accepted Answer

I have a fit body, I’m tall and toned definitely but unless I’m at the beach it just feels. Imodest? Don’t get me wrong I dress in tight well fitted clothes but I think when it comes to being shirtless in random places for guys it comes off as kind of arrogant or creepy even almost and I don’t want to be perceived that way. It’s not really talked about but there is a stigma about men showing their bodies too. For example in America it’s typically frowned upon to wear spandex or underwear while swimming even though this would be more comfortable as we usually wear it under our swimsuits anyways. It’s kind of like how on Instagram we typically only see guys post shirtless pics at the beach with their girlfriend or friends unless they are a model. So in short I’m confident but I feel arrogant or immodest being shirtless if I’m not at a pool.

bobalife · Accepted Answer

Recently when I was at a beach, all I wore was a cute see through top and bra with a skirt, even then wherever I go, I grabbed way too much attention than what I’m comfortable with. So, I wouldn’t mind with where or whom. But it makes me too shy or creepers on my look out.

leahzrc · Accepted Answer

never wanted to but not because i am not confident, i just like to wear a shirt

GoodManDave · Answer

No. But I live in a neighborhood full of 80-year-old dudes who have no sense of modesty. Like they got moobs down to their knees, and they're walkin' around like they're male models, pasty gross man boobs swingin' like pendulums. Like all the gyms I've been to (except the last one), there will be these walrusey lookin' dudes just walkin' around naked, long conversations, fartin' around everyone... no towels... they don't care.

I don't want to subject anyone to my body, at least until I'm buff, if that ever happens. I hope that if I don't get buff, as I age, that I maintain some composure especially if I'm gross. Now if I'm buff at 80, or at least thin, and look ok, then maybe.

DaisyAimi · Answer

Yes ☺️ Depends on what i am wearing though. Im a dancer (lots of working out) so i don't really have a lot of insecurities if it comes to my body. Next to that i honestly learnt to not give a f** how others see you, and that really helps me save up a lot of energy.

GomDum54 · Answer

Depends on the where for the most part. I’m not going hiking shirtless (asking for a sunburn if you do) but if I’m going to the beach then yeah I can go shirtless. Overall I would say no in just a public setting just because I’m comfortable wearing a shirt. Especially when I workout because I sweat a lot and a shirt holds onto your sweat.

PaganWarrior · Answer

I used too, but since gaining weight due to meds etc.. Not anymore. I've only worn a bikini top once here in the UK, and it definitely caught attention to men driving by D: it was a super hot day, though, while walking to my grandmother's, so I took my top off and had that underneath, with my army pants on and boots.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yeah, I have a chubby body but I go out to throw the garbage out, now I usually wait to I get my shirt on then I will go up tomorrow to take the garbage to the top of the road now If I had a White Beater, I would wear that in place of a T-shirt.

Paige90 · Answer

I am totally comfortable going without a shirt and bra whenever and wherever legal.

devilish-cutie · Answer

Yes, funny enough i may be javing a top in piblic but would feel more self concipus having one in eg. Gym or indoor places

ElvenMr · Answer

I used to swim a lot, so i don't mind going shirtless. And i'm used to shirtless/swimsuit girls around me as a consequence of that.
Currently i'm not 100% comfortable going shirtless, but i could still. However only in appropiate places, like near water.. and not driving a car or walking on a busy street.

Love the gay photo by the way lol.

ImSparkly · Answer

Yup. I run in a sport top and boy short bottoms spring to fall. Nobody’s forcing you to stare.  I’ve been topless enough other times where it’s really NBD for me.

StephenCF · Answer

I used to do it on hot days as a teen, but no, not anymore. I’m not self-conscious about it, I just feel like onlookers will think I’m being a show-off as I don’t really see shirtless guys roaming around anymore like I used to 🤷🏻‍♂️

Mystic_Nova · Answer

Not really, I burn easy and I'd much rather wear a crop top, than just a sports bra, that's just my opinion.  I'm not that sensitive about my body, I just dont see the need to.

AustColombiangirl · Answer

Come summertime in a few months all I wear mainly is either a bikini or sports bra if have to cover up its with a loose tank top

katiesmuff · Answer

I've never been one to worry about what someone else thought and being shirtless is nothing uncommon for me.

TruthBringer · Answer

People expect me to go shirtless since I got an aesthetic body. But yet, I do... only in places such as the gym or at the beach

elizamichale1 · Answer

Ohh i am very very comfy n confident to go shirtless but then they say i should wear a bra...

winterfox10 · Answer

I"m to heavy to go shirtless at the moment haha. I'm a fairly confident guy in general though. If I were in better shape, going shirtless wouldn't be an issue for me at all.

MelindaT510 · Answer

Absolutely!. Though it is frowned upon in most places.

Prettysammie · Answer

In a sports bra or swimsuit. People tell me I’ve taken those off at parties but I can’t remember

SphynxUK · Answer

No, because I’m allergic to light. And no, I wouldn’t go out in winter shirtless, would you?

Tobi_Lerone · Answer

I'm not. My body looks not really good so yeah... currently working on it to get some muscles and maybe look better in future 😅

Unit1 · Answer

Yeah, why wouldn't i? i do prefer however protection over my body even if it's something as useless as cloth.  but when its hot, i care more about wanting the thermals to go down.

Mossberg500 · Answer

I wouldn't say I'd feel, confident, I don't mind. I do carry about 15 lbs over my healthy BMI. Don't have rolls or tits or nothing so that's good. If I ate (and drank) better, i'd be in excellent shape considering my job may as well be the gym.

Amanduh24 · Answer

With a swimsuit or sports bra yeah, but might get a little cold lol

NopeWhatTime · Answer

I'll wear crop tops during the summer, but I never go out completely shirtless

talulahbee · Answer

Yup. Tho I think anyone should tbh. Too much placed on how a person looks, just be free and do what u want as long as it doesn't hurt anyone.

SirRexington · Answer

Not anymore. My stomach has gotten uh, a bit round. And no matter what I do I can't seem to lose much fat.

bluetoblack99 · Answer

Depends on your physique and age. I still got visible abs but I feel embarrassed at my age to walk around shirtless

Adam1978 · Answer

With todays media hate about hairy men bodies, no I spare them the view.

el_Te_de_la_Rosa · Answer

Now? Nope. If I regain my abs (not body fat), then yes.

Gagname · Answer

Yes - but only when my girlfriend does too (jk... Lol)

HanzoShimada · Answer

A little bit. I'm more on the scrawny/average build so I don't mind going outside shirtless but I do sometimes bwounderbwhat other people are thinking bwhen they see me.

t-8900 · Answer

one word: "Bugs" Answer: NO! lol

jshm2 · Answer

It's just a quicker way of getting skin cancer, I suppose.

Dr_Sausa · Answer

Everybody wants to see Dr. Sausa's rock hard pectorals.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Double negative... neither of those things come from shirtlessness to me or anyone who'd have to see me

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

I can but it won't be the pleasent view for others I guess since not that sculpted not bloated but yes I need to shape up a bit

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Nope I'm getting older and kinda frumpy looking and no one wants to see that shit. So I put on a shirt it's common courtesy

Torari · Answer

Not at the moment. Lost a lot of muscle following a spinal injury half a year ago so I'm looking a bit scrawny.  Slowly recovering though, i'll be back in shirtless condition by next summer.

pigoat · Answer

I feel more comfortable with my shirt off around women than around men Weird huh

DavidFox · Answer

Lol living in Florida, I have to be confident :). Beach days are no shirt days.

codyccc · Answer

Ya but i the kind of person who would have a colonoscopy in one of those teaching surgery rooms with the bleachers

Wizzbang · Answer

Yeah I feel confident enough to go shirtless. If I was more unfit or skinnier/fatter I would be self conscious of it, but that's me personally

mich15smith · Answer

no, my body is gross and I would die of skin cancer

Trooper205 · Answer

Absolutely! If my chest and abs were well tanned like my arms, I'd be even more confident.

SaraSmithishere · Answer

With just a sports bra on? Yeah, I am, but I don't like the attention that comes with it.

Wise4myage · Answer

Definitely in the summer and almost year round when I am indoors.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

Definitely more comfortable than I have any right to be.

COMMODOREII · Answer

You know me already on this one lol. Just gotta make sure i got sunscreen. Lol

tactical · Answer

I may not have the best body or a six pack, but I don’t care, if I wanna be shirtless, especially at the beach or to just go grab the mail, I’m gonna do it.

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

I'm fine with it. I've seen some people have the "wow" look on their face post bypass.

Creamernick1 · Answer

I am quite hairy and was made fun of for it since puberty and that hasent worn off yet I guess, so nope

Yanamaa · Answer

No I’m insecure with my body. I’m working on it but as of right now no, but I still love myself but I want changes

ohshee · Answer

Yes very i have no problems takingnmy shirtbor anything else off

Titlover2001 · Answer

No I’m not. I’m to fat know one would want to see that

ConfusedGuy96 · Answer

I'm fine at the beach but i wouldn't go out shirtless like in the middle of the street.

WhiteGlaze · Answer

Yuh I fucking walk around naked at night in my yard. Shit, piss. Open fenced area. Im shirtless during the day for sure.

mrgspoter · Answer

Yes it's much more comfy and I don't care way should I?

djoc6787 · Answer

Yes confident, but i lost my abs and i just have a normal tummy lol

Wiley420 · Answer

I look very fit for my age and have a well defined chest

aieeazumui · Answer

Definitely NO since I am really very hairy on my body 🙁

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