Do guys find hip dips unattractive, do they prefer round hips more?

[NoNamexx]

Lots of guys say they don’t even notice hip dips on a girl but I don't know I feel like it’s bullshit lol and even if they do notice, they say it doesn’t matter whatsoever. What are your thoughts? by the way these photos aren’t how every hip dips look like or how every non-hip dip girl looks like. They’re just examples.

Without hip dips is more attractive (round)

Hip dips are more attractive

Both are equally beautiful/doesn’t matter/what’s the difference?

Updates

+1 y

It’s actually sad to see that men are that picky just because of a girls bone structure, judging by the results so far.

[MCheetah]

I legitimately didn't even know what a "hip dip" was before this question. And I also didn't even know a "thigh gap" was a thing until last year. Personally, judging on the pictures, I prefer round, curvy hips. The "hip dip" pics look like a disfigurement, to be honest.

Also, OP, you sound like a major cunt in the update and response comments. Don't ask a question on here, and then get mad, bitchy, petty, and immature because people don't automatically agree with you. It's not a good look and you come off like an entitled asshole not used to getting your way.

[NoNamexx]

I didn’t mean to come off as an asshole, sorry if I offended you. Regardless, it’s not right to body shame people and call it a disfigurement. Most women have those, not as noticeable but still.

[MCheetah]

Well, for one, I'm not sure if most men even know what this is. Are you sure this isn't a personal insecurity you're projecting onto everyone else? Seriously; how many men know what a "hip dip" is? And two, as others pointed out (and you dismissed them in doing so), women body-shame *all the time!* They body shame men for being less than six feet tall as being 'short losers' (https://imgur. com/a/8TJan), they body-shame unattractive men, by calling them incels, and they body-shame other women too, for everything under the sun. Most men either don't care or would have sex with the "body-shamed" woman either way, so men are not the ones doing that most of the time, if ever.

[NoNamexx]

It’s a well known insecurity amongst women, most men tend to not know what they are but some do and I was just curious. The majority of women have hip dips so it’s not just personal. And yes there are bitches out there who body shame anyone but just because someone has body shamed you before doesn’t mean you get to start shaming others you know? I was referring to the amount of men on here that were being rude. Not those who just state their preferences

[Chocolateskin]

Saying it's a disfigurement is offensive.

[TiaraGlitzNeon]

So just because *OTHER* women body shame *SOME* men, it gives you the right to body shame *ALL* women who have hip dips and call them disfigured, assuming all women with hip dips are these judgy bitches just because some women are? The ignorance in your comment is astounding. You're being far more bitchy and petty than OP is, and it's laughable that your dumb comment got the "MHO" status.

[ViccaStorme]

You must give your blessing to tell balding men that they look disfigured, then! Since you think it’s okay to talk to all women like this because some women talk to men like this, that must make it okay to talk to all men like this, too. Congratulations, you’ve made the world a worse place, and when you start to see random women on the internet telling men that they look disfigured when they start going bald, know THAT’S the impact that you left on this world. That’s the good that you food for men. Congratulations.

[Jaximus-Lion]

Guys don't notice? 🤣🤣🤣 Because they don't have a clue, and they would be super excited if they saw hips any where
For me any hips are sexy hips and if i have to choose a favorite it would be hip dips and i don't want to explain why :P

[allaboutmeman]

Bro, you ask for an honest opinion yet, when you get one men are picky? you asked their preference, not if they wouldn't date someone because of it. Also, there is a muscle you can grow that gets rid of your hip dips. Don't ask for advice from the internet if you're not ready to hear opinions that you don't consider ideal.

[NoNamexx]

Sorry if you misunderstood my update but I was talking about the men who would totally shame a women for having them, not because they prefer them. No need to be rude about it, chill bro

[TiaraGlitzNeon]

It's because some men in here are being crude about it, and shaming women with hip dips. Not the men who have "preferences".

[hi_it_is_me123]

Guys dont care about this. In my experience women are more focused on looks than men. Nothing wrong with it. Everyone can have physical preferences but i personally dont know many guys who care much about woman's look. Maybe i am just surrounded by non shallow guys.

[hi_it_is_me123]

By the way dont take guys on gag serious. In real life they are not that shallow

[hi_it_is_me123]

I also agree with you at many points

[KerubysiO]

I totally agree

[jshm2]

You're confused.

Finding something attractive and it being a relationship dealmaker, are two different things, kid.

Personally I am not a ass man/hips man, the derriere and pelvis of a woman, therefore, isn't my area of focus.

But women with smaller hips tend to struggle to give birth: according to most cultures. The "dips" will make that more problematic as the shape of the fallopian tubes will alter. Not an obs or gyno specialist, but you don't seem too clued up on the matter either.

[Zealashton]

well, its instictive to go with more healthier body. all the time,
i would not worry if you have a health body with hip dips, hip dips, are like. the last thing that will damge a healthy body lols, what i find really unatricative, is fat people, unhealthy people, wemon that do not climb the lader of growth. i want to work out, i want to be healthy, dress in nice stuff, eat nice food. but i want my woman to join me on this climb, i dont want them to fallow no, i want to find someone to climb with. sadly i do not see such wemon. sadly, my life is shit soo i can't climb the ladder of growth.

[pervertedjester]

I had to google this. I don't think I've ever thought about it or registered it in my mind until now. But I guess looking back I've seen a lot of dips. (Huh, learnt something new today.) Either way though... As long as the Booty is there, I don't care.

[bolverk]

Until this ask I'd never heard of 'hip dips'.

Guy will focus of the ratio between hips and the waist, we are looking for the waist to be.7 -.8 of the measurement of the hips.

The waist–hip ratio or waist-to-hip ratio (WHR) is the dimensionless ratio of the circumference of the waist to that of the hips. This is calculated as waist measurement divided by hip measurement (W⁄H). For example, a person with a 30″ waist and 38″ hips (or a 75cm waist and 95cm hips) has WHR of about 0.79.

The WHR has been used as an indicator or measure of health, fertility, and the risk of developing serious health conditions. WHR correlates with perceptions of physical attractiveness.

[Gravit1]

Could I be attracted to woman with or without hip dips? Certainly, as this does not affect pheromones. That being said, do I find them visually appealing? Depends. The Woman in the second picture has very distinct profile. I think the clothes she picked don't go well with her build and that makes it look visually unappealing. She could have worn something more suitable for her. I think a lower waisted pants would have looked better. Visually high waisted pants look odd. This is just based off pictures. In real life if I were pheromonally attracted to woman such as her, I would notice it less, though I'd still think low waisted pants would look better. However, none of that would account for her spiritual state, which matters immensely more.

[Nottoxic]

I'd like to comment on your edit. I don't think it's sad that both women and men on this app have a personal preference and have expressed it when asked. If you asked this expecting people to say they preferred hip dips in order to validate yourself, then I think you should take some time to work on your own insecurities rather than attacking people for having an opinion.

[NoNamexx]

Never attacked anyone, maybe you didn’t understand my comment. I was talking about those who were being pushy with their preference invalidated women who don’t have round hips. It’s fine to not like hip dips but you don’t have to shame women for having them. Because many comments on here did have men saying rude shit. And that’s what I was addressing.

[TiaraGlitzNeon]

There's a huge difference between having a personal preference, vs bullying and shaming someone for possessing a certain feature.

[Nottoxic]

Hi, I made this comment a while back and just stumbled upon it again with the recent reply that was made. Really don’t like what I said, and would like to apologise. I look like an ass, and truly believe that it was an out-of-character statement. It was rude, mean and completely not my place to say. Don’t think that it represents who I am as a person, and I don’t know what I was thinking when I typed it. Many of the comments on the post were shaming in nature, which really sucks. Have a good day.

[Shruxee]

I don’t mind either way, really not something that I think about at all. When you say it’s sad that guys are judging women based on bone structure though, think about the amount of women who judge men on height (that’s also to do with bone structure). These things go both ways and aren’t one-sided judgements.

[NoNamexx]

You do realize men also judge women by height too? They all prefer shorter women... but no one really talks about that, and it’s funny how everytime I girl points out an insecurity of the majority of woman, men just LOVE to bring up the topic of their height. Personally I don’t judge by height, I know many do but regardless both genders judge height. No hate by the way just my opinion.

[Shruxee]

That’s fair enough and you’re right. I was only pointing out that it’s also to do with bone structure, to make the point that this isn’t just a guy, nor just a girl problem. The last sentence of my comment literally says that these things go BOTH ways and that these judgements are always one-sided, implying that they shouldn’t be like that. I don’t like these massive generalisations, hence why I picked up on the update you made. It’s fine to have an opinion, don’t worry, no offence taken 😊

[KerubysiO]

Wait, wait, wait. I read your update and so I have to tell you something. The fact that so many guys prefer hip dips doesn't mean that a girl without them won't get attention. It is like when you giirls say you like musclear man, you prefer them but if a man has no muscles its ok

[offendedsorbet]

I hate how hip dips are seen as unattractive. This is just my body I can't help that my upper hip is wider than my lower 😫

[nathanp97]

It really doesn't matter to me, but to address your update: women judge men based on height and even what their face looks like, which is bone structure, so I fail to see the issue with the men who don't like hip dips.

[NoNamexx]

You’re the 3rd man who says this, why is it that men get triggered when women have insecurities that they LOVE a to bring up height? And I fail to see your argument since men prefer shorter girls anyway yet women don’t complain about men preferring that. Plus I don’t give a shit about height so good job generalizing. This isn’t hate at all but it’s annoying that y’all have to bring up height over everything, when many men care about height more than women do.

[nathanp97]

Everyone has different ideas on what they find attractive. There is nothing wrong with that. You are saying it is sad that some guys done like hip dips, yet height or not im sure there are guys you don't find attractive. Maybe you wouldn't date a guy 20 years older than you, and that is still a preference, because like your hip dip he can't change is age. The reason men bring it up, is because women act as if it is wrong that men have preferences, yet have preferences themselves. Height is just one that most women seem to be more finicky about than men. For example, plenty of women wouldn't date a man even if he is taller if she ends up being taller while wearing heels. Most men don't have an issues dating a women at least the same size or shorter, and many would be willing to date a women a least a little taller than them, but that doesn't mater because having a type is fine, all it does is limit your own dating pool, just don't judge men as being bad for having a type and they won't bring up height or other things to show women being hypocrites. And you kinda have to generalize when given little information, it is no different than how you are judging me for the little information I gave you on single comment.

[NoNamexx]

If dating someone legal is considered a preference, I’m actually concerned, I’m 17 so no I would rather not be in an illegal relationship? At least where I’m from 17 year olds are minors... that isn’t preference, that’s called not wanting to catch a case 😂

I’ve never personally seen any man date a girl taller than them, so I’m sure most men are picky about height as well. Never said there was anything wrong with preferences but a tiny preference like that is super shallow. Hip dips shouldn’t matter and the majority of people think that, it’s fine to not like them but being rude about it - which a lot of people on here were - is not okay.

[nathanp97]

Your profile says 18. Little things. Lots won't date someone who has a bad looking haircut, and some how you surprised that people don't like hip dips. And yes, being rude about it is wrong, but you have to understand that many of these men have had the same experience of women doing it to them in some shape or form.

[NoNamexx]

Yes because I signed up with the wrong birthday and they won’t let me fix it. And no offence but okay just because let’s say a man shamed me, I’m not gonna go around generalizing all men for being body shamers. I’m not gonna go be rude to all men just because I had a bad experience with one? I’m surprised because the majority of men I’ve talked to don’t even know what hip dips are or don’t even notice them until pointed out. Half the men here in the comments discovered what they were just from this question so yes I’m surprised.

[nathanp97]

The difference is they have the anonymity of the internet. They likely won't do it in person. Also I new of hip dips, but I actually thought they were some weird body appearance trend type thing. Anyways I personally don't have a preference, nor do I understand why this was ever something people needed to talk about all the sudden, because I'm pretty sure some women had this before the 2000s😂

[TiaraGlitzNeon]

The astounding amount of y'all who don't know the difference between having a preference vs shaming someone...

[burlen]

OP: "It’s actually sad to see that men are that picky just because of a girls bone structure, judging by the results so far."

Same could be said women are that picky. They won’t date a short guy, a guy without a car or job.

[NoNamexx]

Read my comments on other men saying the exact thing, I’m done typing out the same shit 🙄. Men don’t date taller women either quit bringing up height when y’all are picky with it as well.

[tae_ie]

All y'all luck fucker without hip dips, y'all are so lucky



please don’t come for me it’s a joke

[ohshee]

I like both and if that you your Hot I don't think I would worry about anything if I was you thsk you for teaching me something

[Kaneki05]

I see no difference... at all so... don't care i suppose.

[Gooblegobble]

I really don't notice. I'm interested in who the girl is and if I like that, I'll be happy with whatever hips she has, usually. Looks are important, but unless you're unusually gross, a beautiful personality is far more important.

[loveslongnails]

I TRULY, absolutely don't care about that. There are a lot of other features that are wayyyyy more important for my liking when it comes to a girl's attractiveness.

[backdoorman]

Don't be too judgmental about guys being picky about bone structure. Women are just as picky about the physical features they care about in men, (height, etc.).

[NoNamexx]

I like how everytime a girl asks about something about their own appearance, men automatically have to fire back with the “height” thing. It’s funny because men prefer girls shorter than them too... sooooo I don’t understand why guys keep bashing girls for liking taller guys. Personally, I don’t care. But the majority of both genders care so.

[fonduegirl]

Not sure about guys but it turns me on in a heartbeat

[omniscientman]

I honestly didn't even notice them until my girlfriend said she's insecure about hers. I can say with great confidence that it has almost no bearing on my attraction to anyone. I can assure you that I am more attracted to my girlfriend's body than anyone else I've ever met. Also, Jessica Alba has them, and she's pretty hot. Emilia Clarke does too if I remember right. I would have a hard time imagining more attractive people than those three

[Kurαȷ]

Both aren't very attractive.
Thin thighs and hips without hip dips are the most attractive.

Also, it's fat not "bone structure".
That woman in your example obviously has fat on her thighs but not the hips, that's why her upper thighs stick out.

[hi_it_is_me123]

You mean the second example with hip dips? It is bone structure. You can get rid of all fat on this area you will still have these hip dips. You can look up what hip dips are actually. If it would be just fat, then everyone just would remove the fat

[Kurαȷ]

@hi_it_is_me123

It's not bone structure.
Yes, high waist is bone structure, but those lumps on the top of her thighs are nothing more than fat.

You see any such lumps on Bella Hadid who has even higher waist? Or any fashion model for that matter?
No you don't, because this is not what "bone structure" does.
There is no bone where the lump is...

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[sadgirlfromtx]

i agree with the bone structure part. if it weren't for everyone's different fat distribution, we would all either have hip dips or none at all.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Oh ok but bella hadid still have hip dips but it is not thst noticeable

[NoNamexx]

They were example pictures... every woman is gonna either have hip dips or round hips. If you think both are unattractive then what kinda woman do you want 😂😂

[Kurαȷ]

This one:
Is that supposed to be round? If so then I want "round".

[NoNamexx]

First of all, the model I put in the photo has super thin thighs, so I don’t know why you’re being so rude about it, and it’s all muscle because she’s a model. Not to mention she’s 30. So... she doesn’t have hip dips hence why it looks like here thighs are more full. Regardless, girl in the photo you put is a skinny girl with hip dips, it’s almost impossible to be extremely skinny with round hips.

[Kurαȷ]

So these entirely straight legs without any sort of observable dips are "hip dips"?
If so then please give me "hip dips" all time, every time.

[NoNamexx]

Yes those would be hip dips, of course hers are probably more visible if she didn’t pose like that or if she turned to the side.

[Kurαȷ]

Then I retract my statement.
Hip dips are way more attractive than round hips.
Round hips simply look chunky to me.

[angeliquedevereux2]

I love how I'm a pencil with dip dips reading this :)

[Kurαȷ]

@angeliquedevereux2

Funny how that works, eh?
Apparently it's about "bone structure" but then everyone who is skinny has "hip dips", according to OP.

[Everyoneisplastic]

The reason I like round hips more is because I like it when she has some rump balancing out her thighs.

[Jamie05rhs]

I feel like "hip dips" is a concept that someone made up because they had WAY too much time on their hands.

[JDavid25]

Hip dips are basically the thighs tryna make up for the lack if hips.. 😂😂.. I prefer rounder hips but ladies with the hip dips make them look good..

[Adventurer23]

I prefer either French onion or jalapeño hip dip.

[Reaperbot666]

I like both roughly equally so won't stop me from being with a girl if I like her otherwise.

[magpi_]

I didn't know what hip dips were before this question. I like that look a lot more than round hips. It looks more athletic. It used to be the standard in the 80s when fitness was all the rage.

[Valnac]

I didn’t realize that was a thing.
After seeing it, it makes the girls with them more unique.

[Xoirwinkan]

I think its uncommon, haven't seen it in real life.

[NoNamexx]

It’s really really common, hence why it’s an insecurity. It’s not too common to have them show that much but the majority of women have them.

[angeliquedevereux2]

I've got three friends with them buddy

[Iron_Man]

I don’t think I’m a fan of dip you dip we dip baby dip dip dip

[najekim]

Doesn't really matter to me. Equal opportunity lover. ;)

[Whtevernever]

I have never given this a moments thought one way or another, and I don't think I will start now.

[bklynbadboy1]

Shit I love both but I have to admit it hip dip made me stare just a little longer its sexy

[Guy0nGaG]

We don't notice nor do we care. by the way Marilyn Monroe had hip dips.

[JohnO45]

I guess round looks better but not a big deal, both look good.

[Paulychicago10]

I prefer the round, but beggers can't be choosers. Both look fine

[berserk945]

I said ilI like round, but it doesn't mean its a deal breaker! If i find her attractive then I find her attractive.

[viraak18]

Im more of no hip dip person, but depends, I wouldn't mind me some hip dip from time to time

[gandolph3]

I picked A, but have enjoyed the company of several Bs

[mélancolie]

the first girl has hip dips too...

[NoNamexx]

... where? They’re round af

[mélancolie]

she has slight ones, not that visible in the left pic though

[chriscdi]

they can both be attractive

[Squirts93]

All hips look great when you sit on my face.

[bamesjond0069]

As long as you're as thin as the pics we will be happy.

[NoNamexx]

As if you could ever get a model with that type of shallowness. Skinny, curvy, fat whatever, all women are beautiful don’t be so picky.

[bamesjond0069]

No. Not all women are beautiful and neither are all men. Thats just a fact.

[NoNamexx]

Nope everyone is beautiful in their own way except people like you who decide what’s beautiful and what isn’t.

[bamesjond0069]

Well have fun with a beautiful 300lb man when he sweats out his rolls. Since you find that so beautiful. Smh.

[NoNamexx]

Well have fun being alone since you’re so shallow

[bamesjond0069]

Its not shallow. Someone who doesn't take care of themselves is also a major personality defect. Like idgaf if they look like a model but if they can't maintain a good weight it means they have self control issues or just dont care about themselves. Neither is attractive.

[NoNamexx]

Uh huh but you were talking about how thin the woman is in the photo, being thin doesn’t automatically qualify as healthy and I hope you know that eating disorders exist.

[bamesjond0069]

Being thin doesn't always mean healthy. Being fat always means unhealthy. 🤷‍♂️

[NoNamexx]

Okay? But why’d you have to say “as long as you’re thin like the pics” why couldn’t you have said “as long as they’re healthy I’m happy” instead?

And not necessarily. Some people call skinny people fat still, even if they’re healthy. If you mean obesity, yes but there are conditions where women can’t lose or gain weight due to a disorder.

[bamesjond0069]

Thats nonsense. If that were true there would be at least a few fat prisoners in nazi concentration camps. None were.

[John_Doesnt]

Gotta have that booty.

[OddBeMe]

Not sure wtf you’re talking about honestly.

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

I personally don’t mind either way.

[TonyMetal___86]

Perfer without hip dips...

[Swimmerdude2013]

Tbh i love a girl with hips.

[pizzalovershouse]

Photos are fine to me

[Wise4myage]

I voted for B, but honestly, I like both.

[clampfan101]

I’m guessing A, but nothing extreme.

[TallAnon]

I don't see it, what are we looking at?

[andy530]

Honestly I find them equally as attractive

[REDHOTLINE]

Of course vote A.. round hips are the best

[iFarted]

Equally attractive!!!

[mrgspoter]

Not sure there's enough info actually

[wankiam]

i really dont mind

[jakey70]

I absolutely LOVE hips!!

[DudeDiligence]

What are hip dips?

[hellacray]

IDC.

[Yaaten]

What's a "hip dip"?