Can a girl be sexy with a not so pretty face?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[ohshee]

I love this question.
When I meet somebody I look deep into your eyes because I want to know who they truly are. I want to know how beautiful their heart is I want to know if they're carrying giving person I want to know if they're happy I want to know if they're smart I want to know if they are wise I'll let you know if they are good lover I'll let you know if they are sexy lover I want to know if they are confident if they can smile. For me that's who the person truly is is that person on the inside that's where sexy comes from I don't care what you look like on the outside if you don't have sexy on the inside you don't have sexy at all if you have all the above on the inside you are hot you are sexy and the outside is just an extra bonus I can tell you right now did you are a very hot sexy girl I don't care what you say I can feel your energy and you are hot and sexy that's all there is to it. If you watch people you can see can you come here and you can feel when a person is peaking a person because of what they look like and nine out of 10 times it never works out because they think that's who that person is after while they did find out it's the person on the inside that counts so in saying all the above I can tell you right now. First of all I'm an empath and I feel the energy in motion I felt your words and I would probably pick you over most girls just because of the energy and emotion I felt with your words I gave it to you are beautiful you was not looking in the right places

[talover]

Yes but the answer is a bit more complicated than the question. I understand that this answer is completely subjective and doesn't represent all men. I am speaking (typing) as a man who gauges and has a pretty good understanding of what other men find sexy. Okay, here goes.

Yes, a woman can be sexy without being pretty or cute. She can have the full package from the neck down and men will go gaga for her. There are sexual features that can far outweigh the attraction to ones face. On the flip side, a woman can be very pretty and not have a great body, and still, many men will find her sexy. For example, there is a category of porn that exists called BBW (Big, Beautiful, Woman) and it's very popular. Many of those Pornstars are very pretty but overweight.

To further explore this particular category of BBW's, and take it outside of the world of porn, one example of this in the real world is that many men find their woman very sexy even after some of the effects of child birth to all their children, which may include, added weight, losing their breasts firmness due to breastfeeding and stretching, stretch marks in the tummy area, and so on, and so on. They'll go gaga for them too.

And lastly, you can be very pretty but fall flat in the sexual features that men look for, namely, boobs and butts. It's pretty much guaranteed you'll still find a line of men saying those woman are sexy. What men find sexy, can't be determined by a simple question nor can it be contained in a single answer.

So, if your asking out of insecurity, don't worry. You'll find a man (or many) who will find you sexy. Cheers to you, Anonymous!

[ankita666]

Sexiness is not only to do with a pretty face or a well contoured body. Though there are no excuses not t exercise and maintain a good healthy body. Sexiness is all in mind. Intelligence is also very very sexy (Sapiosexual) . But only intellectual men and women will understand its worth. Boys nowadays only chase vaginas and a hot body unfortunately !

[Bklynbadboy12]

I agree with you 100%

[tequilaclub]

Sexy is not about how you look , it’s about how you feel ! Anyone can be sexy by the behave and body language you show !

[Shizunk]

Every normal face is someone's "type". With a pretty face the chance is, there will be a lot more of those someones. So picking a partner who likes you is an option. Unless the face really deformed or something, which is statistically almost no one, there are people out there who will like it.
I personally prefer real faces with little to no embellishments and I hate visible makeup. But pretty much all the "ugly" women I see online who are desperate that men dont want them, are those who gave up on beauty altogether. Make an effort, and you will probably find someone who is into your kind of face.

[CuriousJC]

Like I said before people are real judgy when it comes to people's appearances. As for me, I don't really give a damn what the woman looks like. I focus on a woman's inner beauty, not the outsider. When you get your heart broken more than fifty times over in different love relationships, it eventually becomes a part of your emotional immune system allowing you to accept anyone as your boyfriend or girlfriend as long as he or she is willing to love you back regardless if she's beautiful or ugly on the outside. That woman could burn skin or have a deformities, Down syndrome, or facial appearances is out of a horror movie like Freddy Krueger Leatherface or Jason Voorhees and I would still find her attractive and willing to understand the real her if she's willing to do the same for me.

[livin_hi_808]

Absolutely! I've found myself attracted to #buttafaces a few times. They may have the common example, ugly face but amazing personality or an awesome figure, which I like many different ones depending on the girl.

Another question is can a girl be ugly even though she's sexy? Which in my opinion is HELL YEAH. But it's all in a person's confidence. To achieve such confidence one must accept things about themselves. Doesn't have to like them and if they don't should change the things they don't like if it would be a healthy life change and not to get likes or to be liked.

[FunkyMonkee]

I've met a few! When I was working at Cedar Point back in `78, the lead at one of the games (Pick-A-Duck), had a SMOKING HOT body but, when she turned around and you got to see her face, RUN FOR THE HILLS!!! That spinning girl in the Steve Martin move (was it, "L. A. Story"?) reminded me of her A LOT!! Turns out, she was actually dating the lead at a game a few stalls down at the Bust A Dish. He always got pissed at me for calling it that!! It was actually the Break A Plate. I don't remember his name but he was a bit of a bossy asshole and he was from Bowling Green. I guess it was a year or so before I got there it was the place where you threw footballs through car tires and he ran that game, too..

[Novacane]

I would say yes, I feel like "sexy" is not just about looks but more about the body as well compared to being "pretty" which is usually mostly focused on face looks and not the body. But women can have an average face and have an amazing body and still be considered sexy.

[BlueWalker]

Yes. Because personality is a thing and has merit 'n stuff. Vanity isn't everything. A person's personality can be equally as sexy as they way they look. Even more so, I'd say. Just like how a beautiful woman who is a horrible person and/or has a bad personality can be a turnoff. A good lookin' face ain't gonna' fix that.

[hahahmm]

If she has a good personality she will actually be more attractive than a woman who has perfect looks and poor personality... in the long run. But a lot of really young guys don't get this.

[exitseven]

It doesn't make much sense but it is often true.

[hahahmm]

@exitseven It's because if he wants more than just sex it matters. And also because our perception of a person's looks involves their personality irl. When just looking at a picture of a stranger it works differently.

[exitseven]

I recently came across a picture of an old girlfriend. She is just siting in the back of my car wearing my old football jersey. When we dated that picture used to really cause a reaction with me. Now I looked at it and wonder what I saw in her in the first place.

[hahahmm]

@exitseven Yup. Although the reverse can happen too. A woman I dumped for being boring and fugly when I was 20s, actually looked like a solid 9 when I saw her picture a few years later. ha ha.

[Phoenix98]

She can be yeah.

A person can have attributes that make them sexy or have traits that are sexy.

Such as an accent or the way they talk, how they dress, actions, attitude or personality, how they carry themselves, etc.

All those things can be things that are sexy to the right person.

Then of course regarding looks just because you may not find your face attractive or sexy doesn’t mean someone else won’t.

[t-8900]

I talked to a girl in massage school. She didn't have a noteworthy face but she wasn't ugly just not my type. After getting to know her though and after she showed me kindness I REALLY started catching feelz and that overcame her physical appearance to me. She had a nice body though, a little more petite then some would have liked.

[Juan_Curious]

Sexyness is in the expression of that face, not in the face itself nor in the body. I have met incredibly sexy women with average face and average body, but their character and the way they expressed it made them more attractive than any other woman in the room.

[talhahoonme]

Face is not attractive until we have a deep connection. When we make connection, we go above physical attraction and reach a level where we discuss about ideas, big changes and intellectual conversations. Physical attraction is no different than “lust”. However, “mental attraction” is the eternal love that we will experience even after life (I believe).

[exitseven]

She could have a nice body and a sexy personality. I knew a girl that had a really messed up face but a really nice body and after a while her face looked better to me.

[humpbackjack]

Sexy can be in how you walk talk how you carry yourself it can be in your eyes there’s so many things about a woman that can be sexy her face would just add to it not really take away from it

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

In short - no.

'Pretty' really means 'average' (which is in fact good looking considering how many people have warped faces.

Your face warps from aggression or some bad habit - and sexiness, by definition, is - good habits/healthy living which then shows in your appearance.

What you asked sound like - can I stuff my stomach with food but then still be hungry and enjoy eating? No, not unless you want to be a really fat cow.

[Bklynbadboy12]

This is a great question. I see a lot of people confusing beauty with being sexy and there really two different things beauty is the way a woman looks being sexy is the way she carries herself the was she walk and talk the way she moves its a state of mind

[MirAbdulRehman]

Form my perspective, "Pretty" and "Sexy" are the most wrongly understud words. These 2 have nothing in common. One of these terms refer as feeling and the other one referred as an Urge to either provoke or enforce.

In short No, it doesn't matter if your pretty or not.
If your pretty then the sexy part will come over in time but if your just amming for the sexy part then it realy doesn't matter.

[RolandCuthbert]

Of course. For women things are different. You can have a beautiful face and get away without being in great shape. Or vice versa.

For men. . well. . . if we do not have confidence it doesn't matter how we look.

[BCA6010]

If you have a shred of respect for someone, you look at them in the face when you address them. So a girl may have a "hot body," but it'll be largely wasted without an equally pretty face.

[Lionman95]

Yes because for me the smile or laughter is what's the most important.
If I like the sound and way she smiles I don't care if she has or had acne or something like that.

[HawkPerception]

I met one of the least attractive girls I've seen at a bar, but she was also one of the sexiest I've seen. It was the way she moved, talked and dressed.