Can a girl be sexy with a not so pretty face?

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talover · Accepted Answer

Yes but the answer is a bit more complicated than the question. I understand that this answer is completely subjective and doesn't represent all men. I am speaking (typing) as a man who gauges and has a pretty good understanding of what other men find sexy. Okay, here goes.

Yes, a woman can be sexy without being pretty or cute. She can have the full package from the neck down and men will go gaga for her. There are sexual features that can far outweigh the attraction to ones face. On the flip side, a woman can be very pretty and not have a great body, and still, many men will find her sexy. For example, there is a category of porn that exists called BBW (Big, Beautiful, Woman) and it's very popular. Many of those Pornstars are very pretty but overweight.

To further explore this particular category of BBW's, and take it outside of the world of porn, one example of this in the real world is that many men find their woman very sexy even after some of the effects of child birth to all their children, which may include, added weight, losing their breasts firmness due to breastfeeding and stretching, stretch marks in the tummy area, and so on, and so on. They'll go gaga for them too.

And lastly, you can be very pretty but fall flat in the sexual features that men look for, namely, boobs and butts. It's pretty much guaranteed you'll still find a line of men saying those woman are sexy. What men find sexy, can't be determined by a simple question nor can it be contained in a single answer.

So, if your asking out of insecurity, don't worry. You'll find a man (or many) who will find you sexy. Cheers to you, Anonymous!

ohshee · Accepted Answer

I love this question.
When I meet somebody I look deep into your eyes because I want to know who they truly are. I want to know how beautiful their heart is I want to know if they're carrying giving person I want to know if they're happy I want to know if they're smart I want to know if they are wise I'll let you know if they are good lover I'll let you know if they are sexy lover I want to know if they are confident if they can smile. For me that's who the person truly is is that person on the inside that's where sexy comes from I don't care what you look like on the outside if you don't have sexy on the inside you don't have sexy at all if you have all the above on the inside you are hot you are sexy and the outside is just an extra bonus I can tell you right now did you are a very hot sexy girl I don't care what you say I can feel your energy and you are hot and sexy that's all there is to it. If you watch people you can see can you come here and you can feel when a person is peaking a person because of what they look like and nine out of 10 times it never works out because they think that's who that person is after while they did find out it's the person on the inside that counts so in saying all the above I can tell you right now. First of all I'm an empath and I feel the energy in motion I felt your words and I would probably pick you over most girls just because of the energy and emotion I felt with your words I gave it to you are beautiful you was not looking in the right places

ankita666 · Accepted Answer

Sexiness is not only to do with a pretty face or a well contoured body. Though there are no excuses not t exercise and maintain a good healthy body. Sexiness is all in mind. Intelligence is also very very sexy (Sapiosexual) . But only intellectual men and women will understand its worth. Boys nowadays only chase vaginas and a hot body unfortunately !

tequilaclub · Accepted Answer

Sexy is not about how you look , it’s about how you feel ! Anyone can be sexy by the behave and body language you show !

Shizunk · Answer

Every normal face is someone's "type". With a pretty face the chance is, there will be a lot more of those someones. So picking a partner who likes you is an option. Unless the face really deformed or something, which is statistically almost no one, there are people out there who will like it.
I personally prefer real faces with little to no embellishments and I hate visible makeup. But pretty much all the "ugly" women I see online who are desperate that men dont want them, are those who gave up on beauty altogether. Make an effort, and you will probably find someone who is into your kind of face.

CuriousJC · Answer

Like I said before people are real judgy when it comes to people's appearances. As for me, I don't really give a damn what the woman looks like. I focus on a woman's inner beauty, not the outsider. When you get your heart broken more than fifty times over in different love relationships, it eventually becomes a part of your emotional immune system allowing you to accept anyone as your boyfriend or girlfriend as long as he or she is willing to love you back regardless if she's beautiful or ugly on the outside. That woman could burn skin or have a deformities, Down syndrome, or facial appearances is out of a horror movie like Freddy Krueger Leatherface or Jason Voorhees and I would still find her attractive and willing to understand the real her if she's willing to do the same for me.

livin_hi_808 · Answer

Absolutely! I've found myself attracted to #buttafaces a few times. They may have the common example, ugly face but amazing personality or an awesome figure, which I like many different ones depending on the girl.

Another question is can a girl be ugly even though she's sexy? Which in my opinion is HELL YEAH. But it's all in a person's confidence. To achieve such confidence one must accept things about themselves. Doesn't have to like them and if they don't should change the things they don't like if it would be a healthy life change and not to get likes or to be liked.

Can a girl be sexy with a not so pretty face?

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I've met a few! When I was working at Cedar Point back in `78, the lead at one of the games (Pick-A-Duck), had a SMOKING HOT body but, when she turned around and you got to see her face, RUN FOR THE HILLS!!! That spinning girl in the Steve Martin move (was it, "L. A. Story"?) reminded me of her A LOT!! Turns out, she was actually dating the lead at a game a few stalls down at the Bust A Dish. He always got pissed at me for calling it that!! It was actually the Break A Plate. I don't remember his name but he was a bit of a bossy asshole and he was from Bowling Green. I guess it was a year or so before I got there it was the place where you threw footballs through car tires and he ran that game, too..

Novacane · Answer

I would say yes, I feel like "sexy" is not just about looks but more about the body as well compared to being "pretty" which is usually mostly focused on face looks and not the body. But women can have an average face and have an amazing body and still be considered sexy.

BlueWalker · Answer

Yes. Because personality is a thing and has merit 'n stuff. Vanity isn't everything. A person's personality can be equally as sexy as they way they look. Even more so, I'd say. Just like how a beautiful woman who is a horrible person and/or has a bad personality can be a turnoff. A good lookin' face ain't gonna' fix that.

hahahmm · Answer

If she has a good personality she will actually be more attractive than a woman who has perfect looks and poor personality... in the long run. But a lot of really young guys don't get this.

Phoenix98 · Answer

She can be yeah.

A person can have attributes that make them sexy or have traits that are sexy.

Such as an accent or the way they talk, how they dress, actions, attitude or personality, how they carry themselves, etc.

All those things can be things that are sexy to the right person.

Then of course regarding looks just because you may not find your face attractive or sexy doesn’t mean someone else won’t.

t-8900 · Answer

I talked to a girl in massage school. She didn't have a noteworthy face but she wasn't ugly just not my type. After getting to know her though and after she showed me kindness I REALLY started catching feelz and that overcame her physical appearance to me. She had a nice body though, a little more petite then some would have liked.

Juan_Curious · Answer

Sexyness is in the expression of that face, not in the face itself nor in the body. I have met incredibly sexy women with average face and average body, but their character and the way they expressed it made them more attractive than any other woman in the room.

talhahoonme · Answer

Face is not attractive until we have a deep connection. When we make connection, we go above physical attraction and reach a level where we discuss about ideas, big changes and intellectual conversations. Physical attraction is no different than “lust”. However, “mental attraction” is the eternal love that we will experience even after life (I believe).

exitseven · Answer

She could have a nice body and a sexy personality. I knew a girl that had a really messed up face but a really nice body and after a while her face looked better to me.

humpbackjack · Answer

Sexy can be in how you walk talk how you carry yourself it can be in your eyes there’s so many things about a woman that can be sexy her face would just add to it not really take away from it

ThatNoUVAtYourEyes · Answer

In short - no.

'Pretty' really means 'average' (which is in fact good looking considering how many people have warped faces.

Your face warps from aggression or some bad habit - and sexiness, by definition, is - good habits/healthy living which then shows in your appearance.

What you asked sound like - can I stuff my stomach with food but then still be hungry and enjoy eating? No, not unless you want to be a really fat cow.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

This is a great question. I see a lot of people confusing beauty with being sexy and there really two different things beauty is the way a woman looks being sexy is the way she carries herself the was she walk and talk the way she moves its a state of mind

HawkPerception · Answer

I met one of the least attractive girls I've seen at a bar, but she was also one of the sexiest I've seen. It was the way she moved, talked and dressed.

MirAbdulRehman · Answer

Form my perspective, "Pretty" and "Sexy" are the most wrongly understud words. These 2 have nothing in common. One of these terms refer as feeling and the other one referred as an Urge to either provoke or enforce.

In short No, it doesn't matter if your pretty or not.
If your pretty then the sexy part will come over in time but if your just amming for the sexy part then it realy doesn't matter.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

Of course. For women things are different. You can have a beautiful face and get away without being in great shape. Or vice versa.

For men. . well. . . if we do not have confidence it doesn't matter how we look.

BCA6010 · Answer

If you have a shred of respect for someone, you look at them in the face when you address them. So a girl may have a "hot body," but it'll be largely wasted without an equally pretty face.

Lionman95 · Answer

Yes because for me the smile or laughter is what's the most important.  If I like the sound and way she smiles I don't care if she has or had acne or something like that.

TwinkleLily5 · Answer

She can have a really hot body, I think men like a nice looking body lol

NYlatefun · Answer

Absolutely! Sexyness is more about her attitude, not so much her face, even her body.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yes but it’s also hugely subjective on both sexy and pretty face.

modeve · Answer

Face is a part of body, not the whole one. A sexy body reflects mostly down the shoulders body attraction.

Daniela1982 · Answer

When she has a hot body who looks at the face? If she is ugly just stick a bag over her face.

neuroendocrinology · Answer

Absolutely, Sex appeal/ Sexual Energy Radiates from some magical location within the Soul

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, I think a girls personality can make a big difference.

Bricealan · Answer

Of course she can. Look around and see the girls are not REALLY PRETTY. and see which ones are 'sexy' and why?

jshm2 · Answer

That's called "butterface" deary.  Come on, does the school grapevine no longer exist?

Stevefiveo · Answer

A good body and personality can make a girl sexy also.

wittymilf · Answer

Hmm… I’ve been called ‘butter face”. Quite often 😂😂

litty · Answer

The scene from Scary Movie 2

MCheetah · Answer

You're asking if a Butterface can exist or not? Obviously they can.

caz_johnstone · Answer

I don have a pretty face but men still see to like me... have no idea why do seriously.

nawtee_me · Answer

Sexy is not a look... Two girls can be wearing the same outfit and one may be sexy and the other trashy. Sexy is a matter of confidence and attitude not looks...

gag2021 · Answer

Everyone has a different scale for looks. To me, a girl or woman can look gorgeous, like a model, but she can have a very ugly personality. To me, ones like that are not pretty.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

yes! Sexiness is a lot of different factors; not just physically beautiful face.

Den1971 · Answer

Hell yes you can and my lifetime I didn't see some girls with some bad ass fucking bodies but their faces got to go

KeithLane · Answer

Some women just ooze sexuality. I can't explain it, they may not be so pretty or have a nice body. It just comes out of them somehow. You can sense it.

noohair · Answer

My experience is that women will pick one feature on their face that they don't like and think that the one feature makes them ugly, Guys don't think that way.

karaspara · Answer

Yes of course you want the body pretty face is a bonus

Priv9696 · Answer

Nothing beats a pretty face. A body can easily be improved with gym/plastic surgery

Paul09 · Answer

When you take care of your body and health, yes it usually shows how hard they work on themselves. Just that makes them physically sexy.

Григорий · Answer

Her body can be sexy, she won’t be overall. Her body can be hot but she won’t be hot.  Sexiness and hotness are a entire thing for me, you need to check all boxes.

Shihab91 · Answer

Expect 99% to hit on her for sex only, BUT her face can always be pretty for some people always be confident

Drzen · Answer

Yup average face but kind personality and good body would be enough

Syrian_survivor · Answer

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bulletbob555 · Answer

Sure can. Attitude and mind set help a lot too in that situation

andy530 · Answer

Yes sexiness is a way of being not necessarily how one looks

EaterPeter · Answer

Absolutely. She can have pretty face too without her thinking she have pretty face.

MDollarBill · Answer

I think women rate pretty faces of higher importance, overall than guys do. A banging body is way more important to most guys.

Fauxhawk93 · Answer

Socially I don't think so. A girls face is equal to a man's hairline, both determine the fate of reproduction. It's very arbitrary but important.

fred_durst · Answer

yes , i always find girl wearing niqab is hot it give "being mysterious" vibe

Youdumbeotch · Answer

The face is everything, it’s what makes one beautiful.

Better_off_here · Answer

if she has a personality that drives me wild she can.

888theGreat · Answer

I have seen perfect bodies with a horse head above shoulders

Grubhub · Answer

Yes because phat booties are beautiful and beauty is the eye of the beholder

Staglioni · Answer

Beautiful is different to everyone, and I find a woman's sexiness comes more from her energy than anything specifically physical.

Kusuke · Answer

I think the body is more important cuz if you like the body you will eventually find the face attractive

SuperDupper10 · Answer

I don't see why not. I have see otherwise ugly women get very pretty. It can be done, besides its what inside that most important.

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