Do you agree that men have a wider range of what they find attractive compared to women?

[Anonymous]

Or do you think it's far fetched?

[Xoxocutekitty]

I think it depends on your age and maturity.

Young inexperienced men will typically try to shag anything (gradually leveling up) that let's them just to gain self esteem and sense of 'accomplishment' in a sexualized world.

Young inexperienced women are typically very picky with looks and money because of indoctrinated purity culture and desire for social status that comes with having an attractive mate.

I think as both genders mature, they start to focus on building relationships and Quality companionship over sexual/relational 'achievement.'

Men stop viewing women as beauty points and women stop chasing the top 5% of men (fuckboys).

It takes time, experience, and a willingness to foot the effort for something real.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Yeah. We can't control what is attractive to us but we can date people who ain't attractive to us. When i spend so much time with a person i like despite his unattractive looks i may fall in love with this person. I call this stockholm syndrom effect. It helps me to force myself to love people with nice personality although they are unattractive to me.

[Asker]

This isn't a Disney movie. It's real life

[hi_it_is_me123]

Yes i know?

[hi_it_is_me123]

I think you are the one who think that it is a disney movir

[hi_it_is_me123]

Women care more about looks in my experience

[Asker]

Oh believe me i know they do. Im black pilled and know this. This is why prostitution needs to become legal in the U. S

[hi_it_is_me123]

My problem with prostitution is that the state dont control it enough. So corruption in the sex industry just become legal like in germany.

[hi_it_is_me123]

You are black pilled? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[hi_it_is_me123]

Omg this is like a cult at this point.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Prostitution is not legal in U. S?

[Asker]

It can be regulated like anything else. And yes. There's something called the black pill philosophy and i believe it & its a belief that's part of my life

[hi_it_is_me123]

Are you white? If you have difficulties with dating, go to Asian countries. White men are Hardcore fetishisized in Asian/African countries in my experience.

[hi_it_is_me123]

My former male classmate was treated like a celebrity in his vocation in china due to his British roots

[Asker]

No Hispanic. But i don't even want relationships or love anymore. I actually am very nihilistic when it comes to love and relationships. I have opinions about it that most people would find offensive

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

It's actually proven to be the other way around. No really check a documentary on netflix called "Explained". Talks about a lot of things and one of them is attraction and they talk about this.

[Asker]

There's a men's rights documentary talking about the gynocentric society we live in with studies and data to back it up. It's actually been proven

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

That women have a broader spectrum if what they find attractive? Yes, because they are not as attracted to looks as we are. They also are, but men are more visual that is a fact.

[Asker]

They're also more hypergamous. That's a fact too

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Again a reason why the spectrum of what they find attractive is bigger.

[Asker]

You smell that? I smell bullshit lying around somewhere man

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Feel free to disagree with me.

[Asker]

Will do. Conversation over

[Soremain]

Do you think your clever or why you ask the question :D

[Asker]

I'm clever enough to use the proper grammar

[Soremain]

Damn I must have been drunk.. I don't even remember making this comment.. And I always know the difference between "your" and "you're", because I'm NOT native English speaker. But you weren't clever enough to end your sentence properly. Were you drunk too? :P

[Asker]

Yes i was drunk too. You got me 👍

[Anonymous]

I think it’s the opposite.

Men only find a small minority of women (with a certain phenotype) as attractive.

Generally the difference, between an unattractive male and an unattractive female is that - the unattractive male can work to make himself more valuable as he gets a better paying job and grows older.

Unattractive women can hardly do anything about their appearance outside of exercising, diet, skin bleaching, and surgery etc.

I think it’s easier to be and unattractive male than it is a unattractive women

[Asker]

Hahahaha good joke. April fools was 6 months ago

[Opinion Owner]

I'm serious

[Asker]

I laughed really hard at this

[Subarugirl]

No I would agree, a lot guys just want to get their dicks wet and then complain when women have higher standards. You see it happen all the time, tinder is a great example of that.

[Asker]

One could argue its being desperate while others argue its just being atteacted to a variety compared to women

[Subarugirl]

I didn't say desperate, I said that men have lower standards about who they are willing to sleep with on average.

[Asker]

Is that a good thing or bad thing?

[Asker]

Wonen can have these really high standards. Not saying they can't. That's just life and a lot of men have to deal with it and adapt

[Subarugirl]

neither, just how it is.

[Asker]

You're allowed to have those standards like other women can. But can women stop saying that men are shallow and only care about looks because that's simply not true

[Subarugirl]

No it's not true, but you meet enough men who are like that and people start to generalize.

[Asker]

Are you saying that I've met a lot of women that have high standards that i start to think most women have these high standards?

[Subarugirl]

no, I speaking from personal experience. Biologically and evolutionary it makes sense that women are more specific about choosing a mate, just like it makes sense that men are less so

[Asker]

Okay. Because of this, i have nihilstic view of love and relationships. It's true that love is nothing more than a chemical reaction that compels to breed and reproduce to keep the human species surviving

[Subarugirl]

I totally agree

[Hangry06]

That is right. But they will always have favourites

[WhiteSteve]

[Phoenix98]

I would say yes overall I think that's probably true.

[Anonymous]

I would smash the vast majority of those women, but they would all end up wanting the same 1-3 guys if you did the opposite for them.

[Anonymous]

My guess is it's the opposite. Guys tend to really agree with each other on who the hottest chicks are. Girls can have some VERY differing views as to who the hottest guys are. I think women tend to have more differentiated "types."

[Babygirl_S]

Men aren't as choosy when it comes to flings and are very picky when it comes to marriage.

[Asker]

Can we stop saying that men are picky and shallow then because that's obviously not true

[Babygirl_S]

Many date the women with bad personalities just because they look good to THEM. No woman would date a man if has a bad personality just because he looks good.

[Asker]

I disagree. That's a misconception that women have to make themselves feel better or think men are more shallow. Men are more accepting of flaws and can look past imperfections. Women can't

[Asker]

Thats just the way it is

[Anonymous]

I don't know. A lot of my friends that are girls will gaga over anyting with a dick.

[NathanDavis]

this is not about genders, doesn't matter

[TheAfrikan]

We have a wider range.

[CantGetItUp]

Absolutely, it’s been statistically proven.

[Sualina]

Whats with all this stupid questions lol...

[Asker]

How is it a dumb question?