Changing hair colour to get attention from men? That's something fresh.
Men who gawk at blondes or tan chicks because they want to have sex with them. NSA, ONS etc. That doesn't make them boyfriend materials lol (even when I have a girlfriend, I too gawk at beautiful attractive people - ginger, brunette, black, blonde hair) (its human nature)
relationship works by mutual respect and attraction. (and many other things)
by the way even if you did get a relationship because you changed your hair colour (congrats if that happens), eventually your hair colour fades to ginger and your skin turnovers (so not tan) - will your relationship maintain (sure you can go hair and body salon to makeover again) - I don't know (god knows) but if the guy likes you for who you are inside and out; and you feel the same, keep him.
The second look is worse, in my opinion. I love redheads! And like I said to you before, I don't think anyone dislikes you for your hair and skin. You need to look more approachable and down to Earth, and start accepting more realistic, less perfect men. That's all.
In all honesty, I would embrace the hair color given to me. I see nothing wrong with dying your hair, but it is the reason that bothers me. To Be More Attractive. False advertisement, I say. Be you, show all of you. Redheads are not as common as the rest, that is just an extra special trait. You're special, that color is a part of you, shiny as orange and bright as a flame would.
Maybe just try straightening your red hair. That would be a change, and maybe you’d even get more attention that way.
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That is something that would definitely suck about being a redhead. The inability to tan naturally and always burning so bad not yo mention red hair doesn't look near as beautiful as blonde especially natural platinum blonde and nowhere near as shiny and silky and redheads don't tend to have the beautiful bright piercing light blue eyes we do. Usually redheads have green or brown eyes. I have natural pure platinum blonde hair that is longer than I am tall and the bluest brightest eyes. My skin was quite pale and burned pretty easy when I was real young before I was able to get a nice tan. However I can very well and now have a very nice very golden natural tan from being outdoors and in the sun a lot. I'm so tan now that I don't sunburn even when outdoors all day in the summer. My tan lasts through winter too. My hair has always been naturally pure platinum blonde and stays pure platinum blonde year round. All my hair including my eyelashes eyebrows and pussyhair is pure platinum blonde. My pussy, nipples and tits are very light pink. My eyes have always been the brightest lightest bluest blue. So yes even the blondest bluest eyes of us blondes tend to tan naturally very well while redheads are unable to tan naturally at all no matter how much they're outside and in the sun and just burn badly despite the fact red hair is darker and that they have darker eyes. Just another reason I'm glad to be a blue eyed blonde.
So you can become a generic mundane BMW as opposed to your current status on par with a Bentley, the best of the best
N. b. My first girlfriend was a pale skinned redhead, she was great in every way and I kick myself for not at least trying to put a ring on her finger before she moved
Surely, you're kidding? Redheads are a rarity, and far more unique than bleached blondes, who are a dime a dozen. Leave the bleached heads for the guys who want girls with dyed hair, because that's not real. You stay real. The reason you're not attracting more guys isn't your hair color - it's something about your insecure vibe. If you're going to change anything, change that!!!
Are you crazy dye the red hair. You are so rare as a red head and are lusted over more so than blonds will ever be. Get a fake tan change makeup but please do not dye the Red Hair. Bleached blonds are a dime a dozen a red head like I said is truly a rare find.
Kate Winslet looked better as a redhead then a blonde. Sophie Turner looked better as a redhead then a blonde. Kate Walsh looked better as a redhead then a blonde. Bryce Dallas Howard is the only redhead I know who pulled off blonde well.
In my humble opinion there are waayyy too many bleached, bubble blondes walking into walls as it is. That current picture of you struck me as one of the most beautiful redheads I have ever laid eyes on and if I were 20 years younger, you'd be in my sights. If you have to change who you are to please someone else, they are not worth one strand of that beautiful red headed love. Believe me, I speak from experience.
You do you, I'll never demand something from you, but I hope you reconsider.
To me, the description of the current you is more appealing than going full bimbo. I know I'm not your immediate surrounding, so who fucking cares about my opinion.
Don't change how you look just to attract guys. The right man for you isn't going to care about your hair color or whether your skin is tanned. If you're happy being a redhead then stay a redhead.
It sounds like a good idea that you wanna experiment with your hair but spray tan sounds nasty, if anything go for a real tan.
I promise you that red hair and pale skin are NOT your problem, and changing those thing will not be the solution.
NOOOOO
Stay the way you are!
THAT'S what will get you noticed.
Not being another boring Instagram bottle blonde bimbo.
u I know you're quite probably trolling but this still had me in pain while reading it...
Honestly. Don’t ever try and change who you are just to try and satisfy other people.
You’ll drive yourself crazy and people can tell when you’re being fake.
Also you look good by the way
A lot of guys (myself included) find redheads attractive. You can dye your hair but only do that if its something YOU actually want to do.
Hell no. Do not bleach your hair and get some spray tan, that's trashy. Why would you want to go from looking like a queen to looking like a generic tramp?
No, please don't... redheads are hot and blondes are dumb.
Keep your red hair. It is more unique and interesting.
Hell no. Pale redheads are the most attractive girls. Sounds like you have serious self-esteem issues.
The pale redhead sounds better to me, but you say not to the guys around you so do what makes you happy
Where do you get this weird idea that men don't like pale redheads?
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