Is this just a coincidence?

[Anonymous]

So for the past week or so, me and this one person I’ve been trying to avoid have been wearing the same colored clothes. He usually always wears all black but this week, he’s been wearing different colored clothes. On Monday, we both wore a striped shirt, Tuesday was a blue shirt. That’s when it was kind of weird to me because the color was really distinct yet we both wore it. On Wednesday, I decided to wear a white shirt, and low and behold, he was too. Thursday I wore a black shirt, assuming he was gonna wear another color, but he also wore a black shirt that day… now it’s Friday and i don’t know what to think…What does this mean?

[PrettyPriya]

This is nothing more than a coincidence. Unless he sees you getting ready or you coordinate this with him, that is all it is.

A big coincidence? Sure. That is very strange to match someone without coordinating it. Now, should you be concerned he somehow is spying on you in order to do this, call the police.

[Asker]

Right! Thank you. Just a bit of an update, we also wore the same colors today again…I’m not sure how I feel about that. We both wore grey but I don’t believe that it’s anything serious. How would he spy on me if I don’t have my phone on me until I leave my house? There could be other ways but if I’m being honest, he doesn’t feel like a normal person to me, like we’re connected I guess. I’m not so into all of that type of stuff but this time, im starting to believe it.

[ChocolatePink]

Don't you know? He is your husbando. You both should really get it going. Soon or later you will be his!

Well you should watch your back because he will make you his wife you like it or not.

I'll say you should talk to him and tell him to stop dressing with your colors. If he says he doesn't know what you're talking about you tell him you don't care and he better stop dressing your colors or you tell the boss or the teachers he is stalking you. Something like that. If he looks like a criminal better not tell him the last part and go straight to authorities.

If he is a good kid go eat icecream. Why are you avoiding him?

[Asker]

Why am I avoiding him? He’s my co-workers ex and my co worker is someone I’ve known for a very long time. She even helped me get the job and so I don’t want to have Interaction’s with him. He’s not a bad guy, he’s really quiet and he’s actually pretty adorable if I must say so myself. But I don’t know, I kind of got the impression that he was “stalking” me but then he stopped showing up. Maybe he’ll be back tomorrow or maybe he quit…though I’m sure everyone would’ve spread rumors about it. My best guess is that he just called in sick or is off doing whatever he wants. I’m not really sure… but we think really similarly and what I’m about to say may sound like something out of a movie or book but, it’s real. Whenever he gets hurt, I feel that same pain even though it’s faint. Once, he broke his leg and on that day I decided to go out to the pool with my girl-friends until I fell in the pool because I had a sharp pain in my shin/knee. I find that so weird. I’ve been having a very dark and gloomy feeling in my stomach and I’m not sure if it’s connected to that. Do you think it’s best I leave it at that? Or do I try checking up on him…?

[UniquelyBasic]

Maybe you're the stalker. He could be in danger.

[Asker]

Haha, I’m pretty sure he lives in the opposite direction from where I live. I don’t have his socials or anything but it’s like we have telepathy because whatever he assumes about me always ends up right and I sometimes guess things about him and someone tells me its also right…We don’t talk directly in person but more like someone talks for us.

[whereismyjohnny]

Probably

[Guy13]

Maybe.

[Guy13]

Maybe he bugged your cell phone and dresses after seeing what you have on…OR MAYBE it’s you 👆 spying on him. What a Friday 13th Nightmare 👻

[In_Trance]

it means nothing