Ladies, What can an obese man do to become more attractive?

[Anonymous]

I am obese (currently losing weight. Hit my first goal yesterday! 😁) and I'm trying to find ways to look more attractive. I've never been one that's good with style, so I'm trying to figure it out 🙂

[KatherineJ]

First off, congratulations on meeting your first goal! I hope you achieve many more in the future. Losing weight and getting fit is awesome, so keep it up. Also, don’t be hard on yourself if you fail occasionally. It happens, so just keep going!

Now let’s talk about clothes: pick things that are both comfortable, AND make you feel good about yourself! If you don’t have an idea what looks good, take a friend who you admire their style sense with you to the store to help. Yes, you WILL need to try things on in the store, to make sure they both look good on you, and feel good on you. (That’s why girls take longer to shop).

Lastly, if you FEEL good, and think you look good, it’s a confidence booster. Women notice these things. I’ll leave it there.

[lucas262]

I can agree with that. In other words if you feel good on the outside its going to show outside naturally.

Just something you can't fake.

[Puppystarfish23]

Keep up the good work firstly. I wasn't obese myself just a little chubby but I recently lost two stone. I found people found me more attractive and wanted to be my friend more at first I thought it was because of my weight lost but then I realized it was my confidence too.

Work on your confidence, take more pride in the way to dress and present yourself and try to be yourself more around people and your realised people will start to want to know you better

[Bricealan]

You lost two Stones? Gall stones, kidney stones? Was it painful?

[Puppystarfish23]

@Bricealan I'm British we weigh in stone not everyone is from the US

[goodgirlsteven]

Good for you! losing weight. Im attracted to health the healthier you look the more attracted I am. so your on the right track. besides that good grooming is always good I like well groomed men shaven, combed, trimmed and smelling good but remember a little cologne goes a long way! girls like when you smell good up-close! and neat attire. You will have a luscious babe in no-time.

[FootfetishistBoy]

In my opinion, clothes. I think Dj Khaled looks pretty cool.

[Emiliamazing]

You’re on the right track! Nice work :-). I’m just going to Echo what all the other ladies said, purchase clothing that fits and makes you feel good. It may be a certain material or pattern that goes with your lifestyle. Don’t just wear a big T-shirts and sweatpants.

[MysticAngel5000]

1. Congrats on accomplishing your first goal!

2. Lose weight/get in shape is a great way to look and feel better.

3. Until you get in shape, wear clothing that fits. Not too oversized but definitely not too tight. Make sure it fits properly. There are big and tall shops for a reason!

[FictionalCharacter]

1) be funny

2) be kind and respectable

3) don’t judge what a girl eats and support her

[Sirenboobzilla]

Walk and talk with confidence. Dress nice. And if you wake a woman out, bring out the foodie in her!

[Lisa0203]

I think that maybe try what colors you like best with jeans or some comfortable stretchy pants with a drawstring where you could adjust them. 😀😎

[EmmaMary]

Keep up the good work. 👍

[_deeznuts]

having good hygiene and good clothing

[TacosRAwesome]

Work on his grooming habits.

[MrTaboo]

Go to the gym