My head is too small for my body and I'm very insecure about it. What can I do?

[Anonymous]

My head is so fricking small it makes me want to cry everytime I see myself. Having an overbite and short jaw doesn't make things better, it makes my head appear even smaller. And my head appears EVEN TINIER because I have broad shoulders, muscular arms (even though I don't work out?), kinda muscular thighs and a long torso.

I hate wearing my hair up, then you can really see how small my head is. I always have my hair down, and because it's long it makes my head appear bigger. It draws more attention to my hair than my face, and I don't want people to notice my deformed looking face and head.

But I'm really tired of having my hair down for so many years, I want to be able to wear other hairstyles without looking ugly. What should I do? What CAN I do?

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Yeah also, I am 5'4 but I look 5'11-6'0 because of my small head and long torso. I WANT TO BE NORMAL LOOKING!

[Little_Bumblebee]

Sorry to hear you're struggling with yourself, but it sounds like you cannot do much, other than accepting yourself - I know that might be very difficult.

Other than that, You might benefit from talking with an overall stylist I think. They might be able to help you with what kind of clothes that might help, and what kind of hairstyle you could benefit from.

[Asker]

Thank you so much for the support, honesty and advice. :))

[Little_Bumblebee]

Hope you figure something out ^^

[Anonymous]

What can you do? You can get some self esteem, because you ain't getting a new body. I'm not making light of your opinion on your looks. But I'm pretty sure you don't look as bad as YOU think you do.

[Asker]

Maybe I just have body dysmorphia then I don't know, well you're right I got to work on my self esteem.

[Opinion Owner]

Just take it one day at a time and REMEMBER we tend to magnify insults and minimize compliments. Listen to the people who know and love you most. They're the ones most likely to give you the most accurate opinion. And always remember the entire world doesn't have to be attracted to you. Just 1. 🙂

[Wise4myage]

Hey, its better than having a huge oversized head.

[Asker]

You're right about that one, but I still want to look pretty with other hairstyles. Any advice?

[Wise4myage]

Have you asked a hair stylist or beautician?

[Asker]

No, I can't afford going to any of those two.

[Wise4myage]

I say let your hair down more often.

[Asker]

Bruh
That's what I was trying to avoid. Oh well, I guess hair down is the only hairstyle I look decent in. 😔 It's jus that I've had my hair down my whole life, and it's getting kinda boring.

[Asker]

Just*

[Wise4myage]

Guys love long hair, never forget that. Also, don't be afraid to cut it shorter and see how you look.

[Asker]

But they won't love me when they see what I really look like without my hair having my back lmao.
Well, I've never cut my hair, only trimmed. And I don't want to nor can I cut my hair because my dad wants me to have long hair so that I'm feminine. And he wants me to find a husband, if I have short hair that's not going to happen. And I myself don't want to cut my hair because it grows slow, and I have very thick hair so short wouldn't look good on me. + my head.
Maybe I could cut curtain bangs though?🤔

[Wise4myage]

Stop saying that. You are assuming.

[Zolly99999]

I'm the opposite.. I have massive head. I bet you are fine...

[Asker]

Noo, of that's you in your profile picture I don't think you have a big head at all. You look very proportional and beautiful! Nothing looks off to me.

[Zolly99999]

Thank you for the kind words.. yes that's me 😁😁 I think it's just the angle of the picture.. my hat says other wise lol🤣🤣