I'm insecure about my lower body. What should I do?

[LissyMissy6]

So I have bigger hips than most of the people in my age. I like it, guys like it but a bit too much. I don't wanna go somewhere and it's suddenly guys checking me out. Don't say try to hide it with clothing it doesn't work. What can I do to get less attention?

[SnowedIn]

I've read the question and the responses. Not sure, besides clothing, what you can do. Your hips are your hips. The problem is that although you deserve to be free of staring and ogling, etc., You can't change those people. So, either you own who you are or curate the tops you wear to subtly blend your hips in with the rest of you.

[Poppy47]

Honestly if you found a way to change your hips then you’d find another pro with your body ie arms, legs, tummy etc the list goes on. You are beautiful the way you are, woman and men are socially supposed to look a certain way these days and it’s wrong! Women and men look amazing the way they are, if you want to change then do it, if you don’t then don’t. It really annoys me how every love island etc bullshit makes only certain types of figures male/female beautiful etc.

[emmaa1]

be confident and own it how you like it, many girls would kill for such body. if you are comfortable enough in your skin you wouldn't be bothered or intimated by anybody's looks, you wouldn't walk around like you are the prey. go and be the predator xx

[lucasnabizada]

First off what you described is not an insecurity. You said you like it...

Secondly there is not much to do, I guess don't wear clothing that accentuate it, and also assuming you are more or less attractive guys will stare and that is true of all attractive women, it's hard to help ourselves, it probably has little to do with your hips to be honest and more like the whole package

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats not body insecurity, thats lust shaming men.

Other than baggy clothing or not going out much, there is nothing you can do about people looking at you.

[LissyMissy6]

Well fuck me then I guess.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, if they fuck you, then you can have them arrested for rape, because unlike looking at people in public, thats actually an offense.

[loveslongnails]

You should write this day down in your diary and read it in 5, 10 and 20 years while you're asking yourself "Why tf did I ever want LESS attention?" LOL

Try wearing really ugly clothes and do your make-up weird. That should get the boys to not notice your hips.

[LissyMissy6]

Why would I want attention now?

[loveslongnails]

Everybody wants attention - in the way they want it.

[lucasnabizada]

I guess you'll figure that out when you get older and no longer get any attention like most of us guys hahahah

[MarkyMark77]

@LissyMissy6
hey can u follow back? i have a question about another reply. thanks!

[DavidRaul]

Well you have to build a mindset about not caring about people staring at your lower body. The other option is to just workout and tone your lower body. I hope ot helps

[Anonymous]

So you do like it or you don’t like it? Cause from what I read it says you like it. Would you say you’re skinny or a little more on the thicker side?

[bowenw]

Guys look at girls. Try to ignore them if you can.

[clampfan101]

I’d like to suggest giving them something else to check out, but not all guys are like me focusing mostly on the face and hair so I don't know. 😕

[In_Trance]

Stop comparing

[Iron_Man]

The best thing to do is eat clean hit the track and do a lot of walking or jogging

[LissyMissy6]

I don't wanna lose it I just want to make it less noticable

[Slay256]

I mean just be you, just own it like emmaa1 stated.

[Jerre]

Just enjoy the attention you are getting.