How do I stop feeling insecure about my face and body?

[Anonymous]

I have a baby face. I look young, and I mean very young. Like 12 years old. And not just my face, my body too. I have small boobs, small butt, I'm skinny, long spidery legs, and I have no curves whatsoever. I feel like a child and I feel unfeminine. I am uncomfortable with wearing shorts or tank tops or anything that doesn't cover my whole body because of how insecure I am in my own skin. I have never had a boyfriend in my life, probably because he'd feel like a pedophile.

How can I feel happy with myself in this condition?

[capturemyheartnow]

You don't have to feel insecure about your body at all. Small size doesn't make anyone look small either in your appearance or in your self esteem and confidence. Learn to be wise. Wisdom is the key to your well being. Know that your character , your personality and our strength in all circumstances should lead you to happiness and success. Our body is not everything. Never say , you are not good enough. A pretty woman will not always remain pretty., but a good woman will always remain a good woman. So try to be good to yourself and others , and the world will be good to you.

[madhatters4]

try not to be so critical. see the beauty not the flaws in you. and remember that everyone has things they don't like about themselves.

consider a baby face to mean that you will look young when everyone else is trying to make themselves look young. small breasts are not a bad or unattractive thing

[Lolita911]

I have the same problem only I look 11 and I'm the height of an 11 year old (4'10). Though my difference is I'm a little chubby n the face so I look even younger. I just dress more mature and I show off the parts of my body I like. Like I have 36B breast so I try wearing clothes that help show them off a little bit and it makes me feel more sexy. And I have a flat tummy so I like wear cut off tops to show it off. I think it would do u well to pick clothes that highlights a part of your body u enjoy

[4wisegirl]

For sure, clothes make all the difference!

[Lolita911]

36C^ my bad lol

[Lolita911]

They do. And it give a lot of confidence.

[4wisegirl]

36C seriously... You have no worries then.

[Lolita911]

Well u jave to remember the letter isn't always a sign they're big. If u have a small underbust and yoir boobs r big enough the cup size goes up high. They're decent, but not as big as u think

[4wisegirl]

LOL still, I am FLAT hehe

[Lolita911]

I got lucky. Both my mom and sister r super flat. It's literally the only part of me that shows I'm an adult (23). Other than that I look 11. So if I wear a baggy shirt or something I can pass for a kid. It's caused awkward moments with my ex boyfriend

[Asker]

I have a chubby face too. Especially when I smile. But I could still fit a training bra...

[Lolita911]

I could to for a very long time. It took until I was like 16 and gained a lot of weight before I ended up actually getting any boobs. Luckily I manage to keep them once I relost the weight. And you could always use a padded bra, or buy cutlets. They can help fill out an outfit and make u feel more confident. Or play up another area of your body. u don't need big boobs to feel like a women

[4wisegirl]

I have the same problem, I look soooo young and I have a boys body lol. My good friends keep telling me I am lucky because as I get older I will stay looking young, but that doesn't help me NOW!! I get made fun of all the time, no boobs, no ass... Stay positive and be patients, eventually you will

[DGkee]

I realized that most of the time, we have insecurities that other people don't see or care less about! And sometime, a single person makes us feel bad and forget hundreds of friends who adore us!

[dieselmechanic]

do yo want to chat about it? I doubt there is anything wrong with you

[dieselmechanic]

I actually like all of what you just said

[love_truth]

impossible 12 years old