How to stop feeling insecure, uncomfortable and inferior to/with women?

[Anonymous]

As a hairy bodied man i literally feel insecure, inferior and bad about having facial hair and lot of body hair growth unlike the women.
I am really fascinated by a woman's body especially her skin since it's so soft smooth and naturally lacks coarse hair growth...
Women's skin appeal and arouses me.. and at the same time it makes me feel bad, depressed, sad , insecure and inferior about my hairy skinned body and face.

It seems as if men are animals/beasts while women are angels/beautiful creatures from heaven.

[Lis-the-librarian]

I like a guy with bodyhair. Keep it trimmed and clean workout to show some muscle and it will be pretty hot.
Dude i can barely open a jar of pickles or fight off an angry bird. Yeah i got smooth skin but you have muscles 😅 you are better in that way.

Try waxing if you want smooth skin🤣

[Agagagagaga]

You’re a librarian? That’s so cool. I wish I could be one as weird as that sounds. I’m crazy about books. Instead I went into healthcare. Ugh.

[Lis-the-librarian]

Sorry im not😅 i had a nickname in school because i was always in the school library. The job would be fun though if they paid decently 🙂

[Asker]

Trimmed as in closely trimmed everywhere? Asin what length?

[RobT312]

Dude you’re thinking about it the wrong way.
you should be acting confident and masculine with a beard and hairy body. That always worked for me and my girlfriends have loved it.
as a guy I agree, a woman’s smooth body is amazing, but I don’t want that for me

[boggboss]

Understand most women don't want a man with absolutely no body hair lol

[Asker]

They won't complain either if they get a man who is absolutely as smooth skinned as they are... in fact that's better for them compared to a man that's too much hairy

[boggboss]

Where are u getting that info from most women I have communicated with are turned off by a hairless male not all but most

[Asker]

Mostly from different sites over the internet and some information from this website itself.
What type of women did you communicate with... online or offline?

[boggboss]

In real life lol not just online

[Asker]

You literally talked about male body hair? How and what did most of them say?
Did it also include chest hair?

[boggboss]

Yes I have spoken about male body hair including arms chest leg and public regions

[boggboss]

Most of them say they expect men to have hair with most saying they either like trimmed or shaved hair for pubic

[Asker]

Expecting is another thing.. while wanting/liking is different
And they expect some hair... what if a man has LOTS of?

[boggboss]

They expect it because they want it lol 😆

[boggboss]

And lots means nothing as a basises as one person's lits can be someone's normal

[Asker]

Umm... no sometimes lots actually means lots... as my case is..
No one would call it normal or ok... it's actually LOTS in my case... and a suee no woman would expect shag rug on her man's body whenn he's naked around her

[boggboss]

Again u are speaking for women but u are not a women mate so your opinion on what they want don't really have credit

[Asker]

Hahah unfortunately i have no women whobi could ask or talk about but as much as i have talked to women here they seem to hate it
Can you talk to women around you about such hairy men... and know how they think and prefer then?

[nice-girl]

I find no body hair in a man a turn off

[boggboss]

There ya go some first hand proof

[Asker]

@nice-girl no body hair as in someone who is naturally smooth or waxed smooth?
by the way do you feel waxed smooth is better than too much hairy especially on the chest and abdomen and thighs?

[nice-girl]

Waxed or naturally smooth, I am more attracted to a man’s body with hair. In my view too much hair is better than no hair.

[Asker]

@nice-girl even if " too much hair" actually means too much hair... as in his chest and abdomen is fully covered in dense dark long messy hair.. somewhat hairy upper arms and shoulders and as usual lot of forearm, leg and thighs hair? That's nicer and Better and even more attractive than smooth?

[nice-girl]

I guess I prefer it natural

[Asker]

@nice-girl seriously 😑😳? Am amazed...
What's nice about it

[nice-girl]

It’s a sign of masculinity and I need to be the beautiful one. That is just attractive. I also think that maybe what we perceive as attractive is affected by the first person we saw in a sexual way.

[Asker]

@nice-girl I need to be the beautiful one... why so? Superiority complex?
And this statement just shows that having lots of hair makes a man " less beautiful/less good looking".

[boggboss]

Lol it honestly seems like u wish u was a women with how u view beauty mate

[Asker]

Damn dude... yes... that's what I wish to be

[boggboss]

Sounds that way seems your understanding of how women view a good looking male and males view good looking female is based on differnt factors

[ImNoOne111]

You are thinking wrong. Body hair is a sign of masculinity. Men aren't beasts, nor women are angels. I can support that statement using countless examples. A lot of girls love how masculine a man looks like with body hair. Its one of those cases which opposite attraction works.

[Asker]

Dude how can you say lot of women love hairy bodied men?

[ImNoOne111]

Because I have a lot of female friends

[Asker]

So? You trying to say that you have talked about male body hair with your female friends?
Even chest/belly/thigh hair? But how much..
I mean in what scenario/context did you talk about hairs and what did most say?

[ImNoOne111]

I asked those while playing truth or dare with them

[Asker]

And you feel they said truth?
As in what questions did you ask and how many girls?

[ImNoOne111]

Dude, there are a lot of girls shouting that asking men to stop shaving their legs. Just search the internet. And I asked a few women I knew.

[Asker]

Haha not really dude

[Asker]

Where are you from

[ImNoOne111]

I can't change your mind if you dont let me to so you can believe whatever you want

[Asker]

No it's okay. I mean maybe it's cultural thing. What culture/country are the girls whom you talked with

[ImNoOne111]

They were European. On the internet I read about some American girls saying it too

[Asker]

O I see. European girls are accepting about male body hair.
Do you think they'd even like quite a lot of hair all over the chest and abdomen

[ImNoOne111]

Yes. One even said she likes playing with chest hair of his man. Which I found funny but of course, its her idea

[Asker]

Okay. Cool for her 😂😆
But i feel bad about my hairy skin especially when compared next to a woman's bare skin

[ImNoOne111]

Dude. If you dont like it. You can always get rid of it. By the way, a female just liked this (my) opinion. Proving my point

[Asker]

Ah I see. You got hairy chest?

[ImNoOne111]

Yes. Im hairy

[Asker]

Never felt embarrassing especially around women's?

[ImNoOne111]

No. I see body hair as a masculine sign. Keep it short, go to a gym and you will see what Im talking about

[Asker]

I would need to shave ot trim everywhere to have less or no hair while a woman naturally has hairless torso, thighs

[ImNoOne111]

Dude, if you want a clean skin. Go for it, its your body

[Asker]

Yes thanks