This might make me seem jealous and insecure but I don't care I am insecure but not so much jealous.
Okay my boyfriend is getting a car he's a senior this year and he tells me that he'll be giving this chick a ride home every day. I really don't like that idea because I have had to fight off quite a few girls and tell them to stop flirting with him. Also awhile back he wanted to hang out with one of his ex girlfriends.. alone. I told him I did not like that idea I told him how I felt and he got kind of mad and kept trying to defend her and saying she wouldn't try anything what we had is over we're just really good friends now. I don't trust girls especially if they're an ex. I told him I still didn't like it I don't care if what they had was in the past because they could get feelings back. and then I see on his facebook wall she's flirting with him after he was defending her and getting p*ssed I wouldn't let them hang out.. and this whole giving this other girl a ride thing bothers me because this chick is friends with his ex. He has all his ex gfs on his MySpace and facebook.. and if I even talk to my ex he gets mad. I don't talk to any of my exs anymore because he doesn't like it.. so why can't he do the same for me? I don't hang out with any guys because I don't want him feeling insecure and uncomfortable. If he says he doesn't like the idea of me doing something I will not do it.. but if I'm uncomfortable with something he gets mad we have a fight about it and he tries to get me comfortable with it.. Should I be worried or am I over reacting? I just think that if you're in a serious relationship you shouldn't hang out with the opposite sex so there's no insecurities or fights.. oh and what makes it harder is this is a long distance relationship I'll be moving there in 2 months but idk... can anyone help? sorry this is so long
Okay my boyfriend is getting a car he's a senior this year and he tells me that he'll be giving this chick a ride home every day. I really don't like that idea because I have had to fight off quite a few girls and tell them to stop flirting with him. Also awhile back he wanted to hang out with one of his ex girlfriends.. alone. I told him I did not like that idea I told him how I felt and he got kind of mad and kept trying to defend her and saying she wouldn't try anything what we had is over we're just really good friends now. I don't trust girls especially if they're an ex. I told him I still didn't like it I don't care if what they had was in the past because they could get feelings back. and then I see on his facebook wall she's flirting with him after he was defending her and getting p*ssed I wouldn't let them hang out.. and this whole giving this other girl a ride thing bothers me because this chick is friends with his ex. He has all his ex gfs on his MySpace and facebook.. and if I even talk to my ex he gets mad. I don't talk to any of my exs anymore because he doesn't like it.. so why can't he do the same for me? I don't hang out with any guys because I don't want him feeling insecure and uncomfortable. If he says he doesn't like the idea of me doing something I will not do it.. but if I'm uncomfortable with something he gets mad we have a fight about it and he tries to get me comfortable with it.. Should I be worried or am I over reacting? I just think that if you're in a serious relationship you shouldn't hang out with the opposite sex so there's no insecurities or fights.. oh and what makes it harder is this is a long distance relationship I'll be moving there in 2 months but idk... can anyone help? sorry this is so long
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Oh and he just broke up with me and laughs at me because I'm getting worked up.. ugh what a douche
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