I got rejected and it hurts?

[Anonymous]

I real liked a guy who wasn’t all that interested in me, I guess I was only a booty call for him. He didn’t even try to hold me back when I suggested we stop seeing each other from now own. I expected an answer at least, but he just left me on read.

this just… hurts so badly. To think how much I obsessively thought about him. I must’ve looked so stupid in his eyes, trying to talk to him all the time when he wouldn’t even give me call. He probably thought I was one those clingy bitches. Haha, I’m glad it ended at the early stages. We only fucked once, I’m glad it was just once.

[sadstrawberry]

Loyality is rare. I'm rare because I'm hardcore loyal. But around me I saw many guys triple dating like my 2 ex, my own male cousins and more. It's bad especially in era where dating apps are prevalent. People forgot what it's like to have feelings and love someone and is busy looking directly for intimacy. We are the ones that create intimacy. It's hard to trust anyone now because people say something else, think something else and do something else. It's scary. So if you're guy I think girls cheat less and guys cheat a lot. I think you should be a giver and the girl in return if she loves you back will give you too. Making money when you're young and after 25 find love. Because, I feel people are not very mature and experiment and shit when they're young so find someone who is mindful, knows themselves and loves themselves enough and who has set certain standards for herself, so that she can love you consistently and most importantly love someone only if you love yourself and is content with yourself. Because happiness and love is interrelated. You can't find love or happiness in someone else if you can't find it in yourself first. Okay?

So make money when young and love someone when you're content with yourself and love yourself a lot first be it 25 or 28 or 29 whatever.. to be able to love someone else okay?

One more thing, don't love someone so much that you become second priority for yourself. Keep yourself first, family second, and rest friends etc. I mean love yourself more and then your parents /family and then you would love anyone else. But yourself on top always. If you make someone else your 1st priority, you'll end up hurting yourself.

[rosemilk]

were you having sex with him without being in a relationship? i assume that because you said booty call (oh, only once, but still). sadly, this is what happens when you do stuff like that.

but hey at least for next time you'll know quicker if someone is using you or not. hope you can move past this and not feel too bad for too long

[lightbulb27]

he may regret losing you. trouble is if he has other women, he's distracted.

you learned lessons not to go in too far too fast with heart of physical.

yes, all this can hurt, and in different ways. there's no way around bonding chemicals.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Technically you rejected him.

I don’t blame him for leaving you on read.

Unfortunately in this case you are the instrument of your own destruction & if you didn’t suggest that you two stop seeing each other the events from the outcome that transpired would have never taken place.

[BlondieGirl_]

Awww I’m sorry. We’ve all been there. Some guys just don’t care to communicate / let us know it’s just sex. I’m sure you have great qualities and will find a man who values them and you! Think of it this way, he just got out the way for the right person to come find you.

[Anonymous]

Why would you even have sex w him if he wasn’t committed to you? Because you thought he’d like you more? A lot of women are clueless as to what men want but yet they give each other advice. Usually advice from single women who hate all men now.

[PeachyPie93]

Please don't do that again. It only ends in pain when you do hookups, sad he was such a douche and wouldn't even talk to you though.

[IslaTheWitch]

being hurt is a part of this game... learn on your mistakes, so you will be better prepared the next time

and take tour time to get to know people. It's not a race...

[MsProsperity]

I’m sorry baby girl, just forget about him. Forget he exists, block him everywhere and never stalk him. Next time make sure a man really wants you before you have sex with him

[DextroShade]

You still lost value from getting pumped and dumped. Do you even know what men want aside from sex?

[Asker]

Do tell

[DextroShade]

We want feminity, submission, no tattoos, no piercings other than earlobes, long natural hair, no slutty pictures of yourself on the internet, no history of sex work, low body count, no contact with exes, not fat, not a baby momma, and not annoying, loud, or argumentative.

How many of these metrics do you meet?

[Velcron]

Bro spitting facts

[Boomchakalaca]

I like this quiz i fall into 10 metrics. Did i pass?

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Boomchakalaca I was thinking he should get some questionnaires made up to hand out. The winners could then go on TV, where he would carry out interviews to pick the lucky soul who, most likely would end up being treated like ****

[DextroShade]

@Boomchakalaca maybe, not all of these are equally weighted: the sex work, baby momma, and fat metrics will be deal-breakers in and of themselves for most men who are worth a damn.

[DextroShade]

@TommyMountainFigure I am already married, I treat my wife well, and she is happy. If you want to date fat, annoying hoes with bastard children be my guest.

[TommyMountainFigure]

@DextroShade I appreciate your permission as to who I can date!

[Anonymous]

Sorry this happened to you. Even though it hurts like crazy to be used ;( .. now you know the red flags and to never fall for a guy like that ever again. You will heal from this one day. You’ll be even stronger :)

[Anonymous]

It probably hurts worse to know that you're not attracted to the good guys and you'll always forever be destined to suffer at the hands of the men you truly want.

[boggboss]

Don't have sex with guys and play off that it's just sex when u have feelings

[Unit1]

You need to use sex on keeping a boyfriend, not getting one.

[MsProsperity]

If a man needs sex to stay then bye I’m good. It’s means if we don’t have sex he’ll leave? Nah bye I’m done

[Makeushiver]

Of course it hurts. It always will and no one is immune to it

[Pohjolan]

Rejected? I suggested we stop seeing each other from now own

No you just got what you specifically asked for.

[SoJust]

It may hurt a lot at the beginning, but it comes and goes

[Boomchakalaca]

This is why ur body count is higher than mine

[Asker]

How would you know my body count? And what makes you assume it’s a big number?

[Boomchakalaca]

I wouldn’t hav an interest in a douchey fuck boy not giving me the same attention as him. He showed signs of red flags (not giving u calls) and u still took them

[Asker]

I have no excuses, you’re right. I should’ve ended it as soon as I saw it. But I still hoped. It ended in vain. Thanks for the eye opener.

[scott04sa22]

I get rejected all the time

[In_Trance]

So what's your question

[DreamLife7]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that's what you get for being a hoe

[MsProsperity]

Is she a hoe?🤣

[DreamLife7]

🤣🤣🤣😭

[Anonymous]

Lol they had u once.

[Serkee]

This is bait.