Do you judge girls with designer bags? Is there a stereotype surrounding it?

[Anonymous]

[FunkyMonkee]

Here's the way I look at it: I'm not the LEAST bit interested in the kind of purse you carry, or if you carry one at all. A used one you found at the thrift store won't mean any less to me than one of those ugly brown things that you probably paid a few hundred dollars for just so you could have those initials all over them! I think I'd be more attracted to a girl that DIDN'T have one of those!! It makes her look like she thinks her shit don't stink and I'd MUCH rather have a simple, down to Earth kinda girl that's not interested in wowing me with how much money she spends on clothes and attire. It also sends the message that she's more interested in MY money than me! I tend to think of girls with those kind of purses as plastic, fake, too busy trying to impress. The same goes for ANYBODY that thinks they have to blow a couple hundred on shoes, pants, shirts, what have you, when blowing $75 or so on jeans, sneakers and a t-shirt will suffice quite nicely!! The thing with money is, it's how much you HAVE that's more important than how much you SPEND!! At least, that's the way I look at it! Have you ever heard the term, "She's got more money than brains!"? That's, pretty much, what that means! I don't really care that much about money, as long as I'm not dirt poor, again like I was a few years ago!! In a way, BEING dirt poor most of my life has kind of taught to BE more thrifty with my money! Maybe I have a lot, now but, if I spend it like water, I might end up poor again next week! But, I'm CERTAINLY not cheap or tight! If I was a billionaire, I'd LOVE to go around giving some of it away to people that really need it!!

Upon seeing "your" pictures above (if those ARE of you) I was MUCH MORE interested in your face, your hair, your legs and your tits! (All of which are quite nice!) THEN I looked at your purse and that was ONLY because that's what the question pertained to!

[Asker]

Thanks for your opinion! It totally makes sense because that's what you think at face value.

I don't like arguing but I'll just say that I like my purse I think it's super cute and I only buy designer stuff that goes on a huge sale never for retail price. Plus I really don't or at least try to act like some snobby rich girl (I'm not even close to rich).

Also thanks! Recently I've been feeling self conscious about my boobs lol so nice to hear they grabbed someone's attention

[FunkyMonkee]

Glad you liked it!
No argument. You buy what you like but it's nice you didn't pay full price for it! What can it possibly do that any other purse can't?
They're not exactly small and they're kinda cute! If you want `em bigger, there's ways to make them grow.

[Surely]

I don’t know one from the other. As long as they don’t flaunt them. Who cares? Just don’t ask me to buy them one or want money because they spent too much on a stinking bag!

[Asker]

I like this opinion a lot :)

[Surely]

@SavySav Thank you for the MHO!

[Asker]

Thanks for your comment!

[Clarawalker22]

Yes personally I would stereotype the person (not only girls), as someone who is materialistic. But if you are someone who uses that designer bag for 5 years or so, it's good for the environment and you will have my utmost respect. But following trends and not using fashion products to their full potential is just a waste at so many levels.

[YollyM]

I don't know any stereotype about girls with designer bags and even if I did I wouldn't judge them.
Why judge anyone for wanting the finer things in life if they're willing to put in the work to attain them.

[OlderThanILook]

Yes, I do 100%. It's not necessarily a bad thing, but I see people that flaunt money as part of what I call a rejection culture. Basically it's a cultute based around denying other people the opportunity of interacting with you. There's a certain kind powerful feeling associated with rejecting others, and I feel like people that flaunt expensive items get off on that. Like I would never even ask directions from a woman with a designer bag. I don't want to give her even the slightest satisfaction from her assuming I'm trying to hit on her. If that's your thing, you do you. But I just don't want to fall victim to that.

[ohsheeT]

No I would just be way too busy looking into her eyes plus I wouldn't even know what a designer bag is LOL not unless you said the name of it or something there's nothing wrong with a girl wondering what she wants getting what she wants and if it's an accessory or clothes there's nothing wrong with whatever she wants whatever she wears it doesn't even matter it's her choice if it makes her feel good let her feel good wife get people a hard time about anything the girl in your picture she looks happy and you couldn't ask for anything better

[Th3ft]

I mean a little… but I get it too. Like personally anything designer is just over kill. You are paying for the name yet if you can find it cheep then go for it! If you got to have it then again go for it. But I don’t see anything designer being worth the money that it costs. That being said some of my best girl friends have been in to designer brands and bought awesome stuff at amazing prices and usually at the point I worship the ground they walk because they know how to get deals or work people better then most.

[HighValue]

I wouldn't even recognize if it was a designer one or not. A couple that people have told me what they were and how much they paid for it, ($400 to $600) looked no better than ones I saw from Kmart and Target. Actually, one that my mom had before from Walmart looked better and lasted longer (It was only $20 at the time) than one name brand one my aunt got that costed $400. lol

[Staximus]

This girl at work last week didn't have her ID and I wasn't letting her into the bar. She tried to flex on me and said "this is a $4000 bag" I laughed at her and said "who spends $4000 on a purse? What the hell does that thing do for you besides hold stuff?" She looked embarrassed and said "some guy bought it for me". If women want to buy quality stuff that's fine, but paying way more than it's worth just because it's a certain brand is the sign that they are trying too hard to impress other people.

[Jamesshinobi]

I dont know enough about designer brands to tell them apart from non designer bags. I did work at a belt factory when i was a kid. we used the same pig skin, the same machines, the same low wage workers to make all the belts and we sold them to our buyers for $.75 cents each. on one we would put a gucchi tag on it and the other the kmart brand Northwest Territory.

[NewsReader]

I don't even notice they have one unless it really stands out somehow. And I know nothing about handbags (or shoulder bags). Whatever they're called. You can show me one that costs $100 and another that's $1,000 and I would not be able to guess the price. There are plenty of other, more important things to judge by

[Lliam]

I wouldn't know a designer bag if a lady hit me with one. It's nice if they look good with her outfit, but I really don't pay much attention.

I do have to say that I look down on overpriced consumer goods. I'm less than impressed by labels. Flaunting them seems shallow and also make a girl seem high maintenance.

[Jeansnowstarkbastard]

I dont judge people that use designer clothing and accessories.
I just find that i dont like them because it is a waste of money.
Why wear a nike shirt if a regular t-shirt will do the exact same job and is made from the exact same material.
I just do not understand the hype about using designer clothing.
Maybe other people do.
But i dont judge anyone because of their fashion choices.

[Anonymous]

girls try to get Gucci bags to feel high class.

Boys try to get Lamborghinis to feel high class.

Wagecucks feel in total despair.

I pay no attention to how expensive their clothes are. Just like non-gold digger girls pay no attention to how much those 4 wheels platform has costed.

[God_of_Thunder]

I wouldn't be able to tell the difference between a $4,000 designer bag, and a $4 purse from Wal-mart.

[Dinklex3]

I don't unless we have the same bag, or see that they have a bag I want.

I've seen like 5 different people with the same bag as me.

[Blackcupcake]

no? not as far as I know. I have a few designer bags but I almost never use them. why? because it’s simply not my style for every day looks. but I do use them when I dress up to look gorgeous.

[annabananna]

I don’t judge one way or the other. I may think she is into fashion or luxury items but I don’t think about it any deeper than that. It’s her money so spend it how she wants. I wouldn’t care.

[Anonymous]

Men don’t give a shit about your purse. Most of us wouldn’t even k ow the difference between a $100 purse compared to a $1000 purse. It’s just competition between a lot of other women.

[exitseven]

Yes, I think they are stupid for spending hundreds of dollars on a bag made in some third world hellhole by slave labor

[introvertedfeeler]

I judge women based in how they behave. Like for example, if they expect a guy to pay for the bill on the first date, criticize them for having less income, making fun of my hobbies (collecting action figures), or thinking it's acceptable for a man to be abused, I'M GONNA SHAME HER.

[panamared1]

i really had to search for the bag, to occupied

[Asker]

Oh really?

[SoftCliff]

Yeah, I'd think she's materialistic, vain or a poser, that's trying to brag about her money, or convince others she's rich

[BCA6010]

Personally, I wouldn't know the difference between a needlessly expensive $10,000 designer bag and a $20 imitation.

[Anonymous]

in Asian countries we do. especially in South korea. everything should be branded and genuine. we could notice which is real which is not. and even if our salary isn't big, but we must save our money real hard for everything.

[DryGermanGuy]

I would not know about stereotypes or judging, but I would wonder why spend such a large amount of money, mostly for a label?

[MikeInHawaii]

The only way you can make a handbag worth $10,000 is to put 99 Benjamins inside it. And designer clothing or accessories shows she likes to spend money foolishly.

[Zolly99999]

Nope... because I have no idea what a designer bag looks like 🤣🤣🤣

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

I mean, as a guy, I wonder why you need to spend so much on something like that buttttt

I'm sure girls wonder why guys spend thousands of dollars on video game systems, that eventually become obsolete, as well, when new ones are released

[AviatorTom]

Why spend so much money on a purse... just because it has a designer's name on it?

[77five]

I feel like bags aren't a thing anymore. haven't seen it since 2016

[TrillXHippy]

I don’t give a flying freak about a stupid bag

[AllGoodNamesRGone]

Damn that must be living with constant fear, like when u die, they gonna sell all yr bags, for what they
cost 😂

[maximumpower]

You bet.
Anyone who is hung up on the name stitched into a bag and willing to pay loads of money for it should have their head examined - with a hammer.
Absolutely stupid.

[dreamstar72]

I don’t notice a women handbag, unless it is a odd looking one.

[AsaKyo]

I either assume she's loaded or she likes shopping on Aliexpress, Wish or DHgate

[es20490446e]

If someone is willing to spend a crazy amount of money in a bag, that would be a warning to me.

[Fireguy17]

No, I don't have a clue who most of the designers are, or if they are real or fake bags.

[pizzalovershouse]

No but I can't see paying 600 bucks for a purse when a good made goes for 100 or a little more

[In_Trance]

Sometimes

[Alex8736]

As a straight guy we don't notice the types of bag's but is it possible other females or gay men that judge?

[MysticDevice]

I couldn't tell you what's designer and what's not so no judgement there.

[TroyDT]

I probably wouldn't even notice. she had one. I'm impressed by character, not style.

[Jamie05rhs]

I wouldn't know the difference. I don't pay attention to those things.

[EaterPeter]

Ka ching, liability, mid life crisis, there goes my pay check. Run 🏃‍♂️ forest

[TallAnon]

Nope, I wouldn't even notice. It's a bag, the girl is wearing a bag.

[Luckycharms12]

I've no idea about bags. But fake ones look same less money win win

[aircrack-22]

well i actually dont care what people wear...
if you like it, you can wear it without any questions

[Xtendable]

No, I don’t judge because I don’t know enough about them to critique them

[Dreamclouds]

No, not at all just the ones with a bad design bag.

[Anonymous]

Maybe if I notice. Odds are I wouldn't. I generally don't look at such things.

[Hotboy_booblover]

No i don't care... I get attracted to intelligence and not brands

[dustybiker]

I wouldn’t even recognize one. 😁

[jamesgoldman]

Only of they're fake, on both counts

[Anonymous]

Dude dont give a fuck

[BJP21]

Nope not at all. Its her money, her style.

[Iron_Man]

No I don’t judge designer bags lol

[msc545]

Arrogant, entitled.

[Wise4myage]

No, I pay absolutely no attention to that.

[Neilbud]

I usually don't even notice.

[007kingifrit]

men don't even notice you have bags lol

[shortster]

Nope. Not that I am aware of.

[KrakenAttackin]

Men don't even notice that shit.

[NathanDavis]

not at all...