I always wear backless dresses but my husband tells me every day to cover my back. How can I make him stop?

[Anonymous]

[notwoke]

Most likely he is uncomfortable because he sees other men looking at you lustfully or it is uncomplimentary to your figure and this embarrasses him. I mean, if he was wearing something that made you uncomfortable, would he stop if you asked? None of this is "his fault". If he was wearing some ungodly out of style shit and it embarrassed you it would not be "your fault". Is your freedom to wear this type of dress worth adding tension in your marriage?

[SnowedIn]

Just keep doing it. Either he'll stop or he won't. BUT... I think there's something deeper going on here. This is about more than backless dresses and speaks to something requiring much deeper, more thoughtful conversation in your marriage.

[sarahsmile8839]

Tell him you will wear whatever the fuck you want. If he doesn't stop, buy the shortest dress you can find and wear it without a bra. He won't mind backless after that!

[Milania88]

you can make your hair straight if it is long

[Asker]

What does my hair have to do with this?

[Milania88]

to cover your back

[Asker]

I don't want to cover my back

[Milania88]

keep doing that and I think he will get bored telling you

[Asker]

When?

[Milania88]

just keep doing

[Asker]

We've been married for like 14 years and he hasn't stopped yet

[Guy13]

I do not think either of you can change the others opinion or behavior.

[Asker]

So what should I do?

[dean53AU]

Put the dress on backwards if possible just for a stir and ask him, is this better? 🤣🤣

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[dean53AU]

Well just imagine it on backwards, if backless then will be frontless and tits out😉👍

[Yellovv]

Why you wearing that? Are you feeling more sexy that way...