If you could turn one insecurity with something you feel good about what would it be?

[Danny_dan92]

For me


I would give up having hair to be taller

[ZXCwWRQWz]

Knowing what to say to a particular person. I'm one of those unfiltered ones, worse when drunk but bad enough when sober. I'm always afraid I said the wrong thing. Even if I'm still saying the wrong thing, I'd be happier if I didn't have that insecurity. Like just say whatever I think and don't care.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

Not sure if I explained it right. But one time I met this girl and the combo of her haircut and dimpled chin made me think, she looks like an apple! Like in a cute way. Then I said, "Nice to meet you, your head looks like an apple!"

Then I saw her and I was like, "WTF. I'm an idiot. I meant something nice but I didn't think about the repercussions about what I said. It sounded nice in my head but I didn't realize fully realize what it's like walking around with an apple-shaped head and being called that out loud, even as a compliment."

You know, like that.

[Danny_dan92]

That’s a light hearted comment man lol if she has a good sense of humor she would have ran with it and said something back like

“I’m sweet like a Fuji apple, so I guess it makes sense” or something of the sort.

I do see how some women would be like “wtf?” Tho

[ZXCwWRQWz]

So many WTF women in my case but I'm with a nerd crowd. My profession is writing code. So I got it worse than usual, I think. It's like my whole like is an exercise in offending some women and even some men (I don't think they're really offended, but they're offended on behalf of those women -- you know those).

But at the end of the day I just sometimes feel like I'm born in the wrong era. If I can't fix society so that my ways fit in (very unlikely expectation), then maybe I wanna be in the gladiator arena! Who cares if I am a gladiator that I have this crude way about me just saying the first thing that pops into my head if I don't die immediately on my first fight? :-D

[ZXCwWRQWz]

* whole life

[NathanDavis]

not really an insecurity of mine...

but if you have black straight hair... I will trade you that for some of my height, lol

mine is wavy kind of rebel hair... and I figure that straight hair is a lot less work when humidity is everywhere

[Anonymous]

A good question what is your height?
And you would be ok with being bald?

[Danny_dan92]

I’m 5’6

I feel a man being being tall is all women give a shit about lol

[linka_pat307]

I don't think so

[Danny_dan92]

*most*

[ChiTown33]

I'm 6'5" dude. I'd be willing to bet you've had more dates than me. 🤣
If I could switch height with you I would. Because it hasn't benefitted me in the dating market and I'd love be able drive a compact car comfortably. Take a shower without the shower head spraying at my chest instead of the top of my head. Wear a long sleeve shirt that fit me in arm length (big and tall are made for BIG not so much for tall.).

[Mmmariaxc]

I think that’s a perfect height lol

[Opinion Owner]

What were you referring to Maria?

[Danny_dan92]

@Mmmariaxc

5’6 or 6’5?

[Mmmariaxc]

danny_dan92

[Danny_dan92]

I respect that, but not all women would agree. Honestly speaking 7/10 women prefer taller men.

[jayhams]

I'm not insecure