What should I wear to church?

[HappyWoman34]

Nearly all of my dresses show cleavage. I can’t help showing it as my breasts are so large. Should I just wear t-shirts or tank tops and 3/4 trousers to church in hot weather, or should I just wear whatever I feel comfortable in?

[Anonymous]

Why do you only have dresses that show cleavage? I get it that you’re busty and I’ve dated several women that were, but you don’t have to show your cleavage when you go out—though I totally understand sometimes you’re just more comfortable that way or it’s just the only clothes you have available at the moment.

Maybe, and I’m just trying to figure something out, okay maybe wear something like a shawl or a scarf or wrap or something that you could sort of put around your neck or cleavage to be a little more modest—assuming your dress shows cleavage. Some women like wearing scarves and wraps and shawls and things like that. Maybe it’d be an option instead of going shopping for new dresses or whatever.

Anywho, you seem like a good woman, and while I’m absolutely attracted to big boobs, I really appreciate how you want to sort of minimize that in church. Obviously men should be there to think about God and worship, but it reminds me of something, that once in the deserts of Egypt the early Christian fathers and monks would go out to live as hermits. One day a group of monks saw some female nuns or an abbot coming from a nunnery. The monks, eager to avoid any impure thoughts, moved aside on the path and looked to the ground as the women passed. One of the women turned and spoke to a monk, and said, and I’m paraphrasing this whole story, that “Had they been perfect monks, they would not have any noticed they were women and would not have had to worry about temptation.”

Yet aren’t perfect. We never will be. And even the best of us will notice nice tits. 🤷‍♂️ Gentlemen and men of God just don’t stare and make someone uncomfortable.

Just my two cents. Good luck out there sis.

[mattc007007]

You're getting dressed up (from a Jewish perspective) to connect with God in a holy place. If you went our with your wife, girlfriend, or your boss wouldn't you dress realy nice?

Well, if you're connecting with God, then this should be the #1 entity to dress up for. Cleanliness shows respect and obedience to the only perfect being. You dress great for a job interview or a fortune 500 job, right? What about if you believe God is the one and only creator of the universe, thus being the #1 reason you are alive.

I do believe in God, it's actually proven scientifically due to anomalies in physics and space itself. If this is all true, then I think God/Jesus should be met with your very best. He expects us to try and give an effort to receive blessings and other great divine things.

It's like meeting the president... of the universe lol You would dress up for the president right? Where a suit and tie; hence your "Sunday best". At least business professional.

[Nikki1989]

This would work for me.

[HappyWoman34]

Lol that’s funny

[Anonymous]

You can't help what you were born with. Obviously it's rude to let everything hang out but if your body naturally shows a little it is what it is. I wouldn't worry about it too much.

[Opinion Owner]

At my previous church sometimes a woman might wear something that shows a bit of cleavage or midriff. Same with my current church. It's not a big deal.

[Iron_Man]

Where is traditional dress? What do other people wear? Go buy that, but make it a nice dress.

[Anonymous]

Simple sober dress that doesn't show much skin