How do you know you’re not complimented because you’re really attractive or because you’re not?

[Anonymous]

How do you know if people don’t compliment you much because they assume you already know vs. because you just aren’t attractive? I know two girls one gorgeous who says she rarely gets compliments and also an unattractive one who doesn’t and they both feel like they aren’t attractive.

[Bricealan]

From my Sociology class's. Have a look at Charles-Cooley's "Looking Glass Self" This should give you an idea of how to evaluate you appearance from another's perspective. I have always been aware of that, and it is your best way of "seeing yourself, as other see you" by how they react to you socially.

As an example: While at work, I saw a pretty woman in my line, and rather than "ogle' at her, I simple gave her what she was waiting for and waved her by. She looked at me like I was an A/H. and took a seat, and immediately took her hair down, shook it out, and again looked back at me to get my reaction. I saw it and smiled back at her.

I was somewhat flattered that she reacted that way, but that is an example of Looking glass Self'

Evaluate your attractiveness in terms of how others Seem' to evaluate you.

[Pacman13]

I think that if people are telling you that you’re beautiful take it as a compliment and leave it at that. Don’t over analyze what people are saying as it does you no good.

[Aairs]

How do you know she's gorgeous? Girls are usually deluded when it comes to evaluating the looks, especially of other girls.

[Anonymous]

People generally know when thier attractive. The attractive girl is just narcissistic. With those types of people there's no amount of compliments that will satisfy them.

[Anonymous]

You won't know until they explain