Do women wear provocative clothing for attention?

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[msmissydc]

No, I wear what I like to wear. To some extend I wear what my husband likes, from something I presorted. I dont even hope to wear "provocative" clothing, because that would just imply, that I try to test guys ability to hold back, which is not my intend at all.

For example: The most revealing cloths I sometimes wear (outside bikini to swimming pools), would be a skirt and crop-top. I dont want attention, I dont even want to "provoke" someone! I want to wear what I like, without being judged for it. If someones feels provoked by what I wear, than that is 100% their problem and I dont want it to become mine.

So you try to ask if I wear provocative clothing for attention and I answer if you think what I wear is provocative, you missjudged my intention in the first place. That is even before you ask if I want Attention because I apperently wear provocative clothing.

[susie22]

I wear clothes that I feel look good on me, if guys find that "provocative", that's on them.

[Motiv8edMan248]

If you wear something that looks "good on you?" Doesn't that mean you're trying to make yourself look good? Obviously it depends truly on what one may consider provocative but I believe if you wear it because you feel that it definitely looks good on you, than so do men for the most part

[susie22]

@Motiv8edMan248 Probably true, but don't most people tend to wear clothes that look attractive on them and accentuate their features, rather than just throw on a T-shirt and sweat pants and call it a day? I just like to look in the mirror and feel like I'm dressed in an attractive way, and I guess that is always subjective and open to an individual's personal interpretation.

[Motiv8edMan248]

susie22 I think this whole thing is caught up on the same basic principle just two different sides of a brain that see it. Let's just say for you as a woman if you want to feel better and you think you look hot in that or you look attractive, then obviously that's something that accentuates you out to other people right because you're not the one watching yourself and your clothes the whole time correct? It's completely the difference of you being like the woman's body and me being in the man's body you may not want anything from the man at the time but you're wearing something which as you stated accentuates your hotness basically and a guy sees that and since we guys even though everyone knows we should have it we don't have telepathy so we have no idea what you mean to throw out there by even just wearing something that accentuates your body and makes you feel good and makes you feel attractive which is there's absolutely nothing wrong with that by any means let me say that wholeheartedly because I think we're saying the same exact thing all three of us except it's just from two different mindsets

[susie22]

@Motiv8edMan248 I agree, but I do think sometimes people, both male and female, read a bit too much into it. Myself, I'm not trying to send a message to anyone when I wear something guys would perceive as being "hot", the only exception to that being if I wear an outfit that my boyfriend likes seeing me wear, but again, it's all pretty subjective.

[Motiv8edMan248]

@susie22 I think in the end we have an over-arching agreement. Man are DNA driven to incline if a woman wears any kind of outfit or clothing choice that shows a bit more skin than the norm, or show off their "features" then that's a dinner bell for men who think and believe you're obviously immediately looking to fuck. Obviously it's really false and dumb to think like that but honestly, I think it isn't going anywhere anytime soon. Some guys are just seekers of that stuff and think every woman in the world wants to fuck him

[Molly1997]

I don’t. I wear nicer clothes because they are just comfortable, I want to feel good, or to keep me cool. I’m prone to heatstroke

[Apple1996]

Nah girls wear clothes for comfort and fashion

[Anonymous]

Of course. I mean they say things "it's for me", but what they really mean is they get an ego boost from the attention. So yeah it's indirectly for them.

[mommymommymommy]

Always. They won't admit it, but yes, they do

[legalboxers]

No. You can say the same about us who goto the gym, wear the stuff we wear.

[Blackcupcake]

whatever I wear, is for me.

[AngryCarl2]

Does the Pope shit in the woods?

[MementoMori777]

I'm sure they exist

[LiamJHayden]

Some do.