Do You Find Yourself Physically Attractive?

[Aphrodite801]

I do and most people I interact with do as well

Yes I do find myself physically attractive

No I don’t find myself physically attractive

I think I’m average looking/ok

[colaman94]

Yes. I definitely like my reflections especially. 🪞. I've been flirted at about a handful of times in my life thus far 😊 being a visual guy, I could never date a natural born girlfriend who didn't also share my traits for being visual or observant with the, eyes 👀👀

[colaman94]

By about so far in total about 5-7 women in my life so far. I usually declined their interest in me as I often have had other things going on, other priorities in my life 😀😁

[colaman94]

Good to know I'm not ugly 😶😈

[syncheart]

Honestly I think I'm pretty ugly. I even stopped posting selfies.

[Aphrodite801]

Why do you feel that way? Because of your facial features?

[syncheart]

Short answer is yes. Also, when I was growing up some people acted like I'm ugly. And when I was posting pictures of myself, almost nobody treated me like I was attractive. Back in the day when I used to go to AOL chatrooms, people would ask for a picture exchange. As soon as they saw how I looked the program would tell me they logged off. I think they actually blocked me. But it happened over and over again. Then I started running into some other more problematic issues on various sites. I started feeling less and less safe. I ended up deleting all my pictures. And every time someone wants to see me, I cringe.

[Aphrodite801]

Looks are subjective, I bet there are some girls who would find you attractive or at least decent. I mean you’ve had a girlfriend before right?

[syncheart]

The short answer is no. The long answer is, there was a girl who was desperate. Every guy she was ever with, dumped her after just one week. I ended up with her for a very short period of time, and even I ended up dumping her. It is debatable if I should even count her as a "girlfriend".

[Aphrodite801]

She found you attractive enough to go after you correct? So you can’t consider yourself “ugly”

[syncheart]

She was a really controlling person. The only reason she went after me is because someone she knew suggested it to her. It was one of the worst situations I have ever been in! I have no idea if she really liked how I looked or not. Very confusing person she is. Anyways I haven't seen her since 2008.

[Aphrodite801]

So you’ve only dated one woman in your life?

[syncheart]

It depends on you mean by the word "dated". For example, my mom considers the word dated to mean you took a woman out on date. Probably to a restaurant. If that is your definition, then I never took her out on a date.

[Beckybooboo]

On most days I like how I look. Some days, not so much. A couple years I cut my hair way too short and absolutely hated it. I’m finally starting to get my length back to where I like it. That was a rough time! Lol

[PreciousJewel]

Yes I'm beautiful

[Jbear27]

I think I was blessed with a handsome face and strong features. But I always claim that I feel I’m average looking when asked in person as to be humble as I don’t want to come off as full of myself because I’m not. I’m just confident and I do feel attractive when I go out in public in comparison to most other men.

[noamazia]

I have been complemented in the past and I can see some redeeming qualities. but I notice a lot of features I don't like that others might not be able to see.
I hope people see me as a 7. or at least a 6.

[sparklycoconut]

i would say you're an 8 based on your pic

[noamazia]

@sparklycoconut thank you very much💗. now I know that the problem is my personality🤣

[sparklycoconut]

when people talk about attractiveness, i immediately think face rather than body or the whole package. i find people with nice faces attractive regardless of what their bodies look like. i think my face is average while my body is also average leaning towards conventionally attractive

[AaronKrieger]

Sure, I think I'm decent looking just based on some of my features and past experiences, but I'm not a 10/10 either.

[Rei13]

I am pretty average to be honest and I’m okay with it. I am pretty enough that I get attention and people treat me nicely, but not so pretty where I get a lot of unwanted attention.

[BobbieBoy666]

Sexy two. 💞

[Unycorn]

I am attractive

I am not beautiful

Not what media tells us

[aceleon]

well i resemble the profile picture i use minus blue eyes so you decide.

[IslaTheWitch]

The appearance is only a part of the attraction. Fortunately.

[MemeSupreme]

is it weird to say that i do but i don't

[Aphrodite801]

You mean sometimes you do sometimes you don’t?

[KonkeyDong]

Eh, not really. I have days where I'm like "Yeah, I look ok" and others like "Why am I so darn ugly?"

[Paris13]

lol Never Fat. xxoo

[douride2]

Like most I am only average.

[BlissfullyCurSed]

no. I am ugly.

[Batsy01010101]

I don't even know anymore

[Date_a_Snob]

Im average looking

[LavLavLuv]

Yes..

[MissBoogus]

Yes .

[renodnol32]

Not one bit.

[loyalhumblesmart20]

I definitely don’t think I am

[Truckfan01]

No I know I’m ugly

[TiaNour]

I’m average