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I used to do swimming in high school and got used to wearing speedos so anything else feels weird. This may be just how my parts are built down there but it all naturally goes between my legs. So it's kinda "self tucking" and lays flat. I found women's bottoms are best for me since men's always have extra room out front I don't fill up. So I always wear basically speedos for women when I swim.
The pic is the kinda stuff I wear. My parts are tucked away and lay flat so she may have a little bigger bulge than I do lol. If you saw some guy you were with and he wore these to swim in and his crotch looked like that, what would you think?
What Girls Said
Oh lord, I just know this will get me in all kinds of crap! But...
If you want to wear that style of swimwear… Why not just continue to wear a Speedo! Your insistence on wearing bikini bottoms made for women, and to do it in public, is both obvious, and likely autogynephilia There is no legitimate reason for a man to wear bikini bottoms designed for women, when you can get bikini bathing suits in all types of styles and fabrics that are designed for men. If in fact, you truly DO look like the picture when wearing a women’s bikini bottom… I’m so sorry that you genitals are so tiny, that they resemble a woman’s vulva. That must be terribly embarrassing! Still… Why not wear a speedo designed for a woman which looks JUST like the male version? It seems like you just want everyone at the pool or beach to KNOW that you are wearing a woman’s bikini bottom. If you were just doing it at home, I would say more power to you. I just question why you feel the need to inflict YOUR atypical paraphilia on everyone else at the pool or beach (including children, who are old enough to know the difference, but not yet old enough to understand why)? I believe in “live and let live” and I have a best friend since the age of 8, who is a trans-woman. SHE wears bikinis, and nobody would even THINK that she was anything other than a woman at the beach. My issue is with you being obviously male, but insisting on wearing women’s bikini bottoms. as long as nothing is visible through the sides of the gusset, you are not breaking any laws. but again, I do wonder why? If you believe you are trans, then transition. It’s completely accepted in society, other than a few troglodytes, and why care what they think? Just Transition. $3000. will get you a really nice pair of breasts, and then you would look perfectly normal walking on the beach in a women’s bikini.
I'm not really that insistent on wearing women's bikini bottoms. I just was gonna start swimming again so I went a sports store. All the speedos in the men's section had these obvious pouches in the front in the front to like... cradle and show off your junk. Or at least a bunch of extra fabric there. Right next to these were just bottoms for women that were "full coverage, "so basically same amount covered as men's speedos. So I chose to get stuff that fits properly instead of having a weird empty flap of fabric. If the patterns are "girly," whatever
I don't want to transition. If I could have surgery it'd be to move my wiener or get a bigger one not to get rid of it. My crotch area has always been a big insecurity. Like in high school, seeing all the other guys with obvious bulges and me just being flat down there. Sometimes when I have worn mens speedos I wear a cup with a wiener outline under it so it looks more "normal" down there. Is this weirder than wearing women's bottoms?
I really am sorry you have to go through this. Have you ever thought… I don’t know, maybe stop wearing such tight clothing, and tight bathing suits. Why do you WANT to wear like REALLY tight bathing suits? You say that you don’t want to transition. So you are a man, you identify as being a man… Why would you WANT people to KNOW (as in you make it obvious) that you have a tiny penis, and NO testicles? (B/C there is NO WAY you could look like you claim you do in a women’s bikini, if you have two testicles that are supposed to be the size of plumbs?). There seems to be some kind of psychological disorder going on… Either gender dysphoria, body dysmorphia, or possibly autogynephilia. Maybe if you told me why you WANT to wear tight fitting jeans, and especially tight fitting Bikini style bathing suits, when you clearly have some kind of hormonal issue that causes (at least) your testicles to, what sounds like, either become under developed or atrophied? I mean i’ve never seen a guy wearing a speedo, unless he was on the swim team, but even those guys wear regular swim shorts when they are just at the pool or at the beach. I’m just curious why you would WANT to cause yourself to be the subject of ridicule? Even if you don’t see it, or hear it, you have to KNOW that people will see you and be like “OMG, Look! That guy’s wearing a fck’n woman’s bikini bottom”!
I wouldn't like it. Men should wear clothes for men.
what's the difference? it looks like men's clothing just has a flatter front
I wish men would focus on looking like men.
how do i not look like a man?
Really? If you LOOK like the picture, then you look like a woman “down-stairs”. Men do not look “Flat in the front”! If you really think that men’s bathing suits make men look like that picture… You @asker You are deluding only yourself! That picture most definitely does NOT "look like men's clothing just has a flatter front”! Also it’s not the bikini that makes us look like that, it’s our anatomy! If you were so confident in your appearance being “identical” to that picture, why show a picture of an actual woman, why not show YOU wearing a Bikini in the picture? I’m calling BS!