Where do I begin? 😅 I seem to be the oddball in my group with respect to what women I find most attractive. A lot of my buds think my tastes in women are very strange.
One major thing in my case is that the women I find most attractive are generally closer to my age. They're not women much younger or much older. Most guys I know, even my age, generally find the youngest women most attractive like a 21-year old. I'm much more drawn to women who are generally at least in their 30s.
Like the most attractive celebrities I find are generally close to my age, like Rosamund Pike (45):
Emily Blunt (40):
I can keep going but every time I watch a new movie and I find the actress so attractive, I always find she's close to my age when I look up her age or, at bare minimum, at least in her 30s.
That said, when I was in my 20s my tastes aligned more with my friends as in I liked 20-year old women. It's just that when I hit 30s, I started to like 30 year-old women, when I turned 40s, I started to like 40 year-old women, and so forth.
One of the main things that attracts me to a woman is the idea that I can have very deep and interesting conversations with her. That might be why I tend to be attracted to women closer to my age. We tend to have that age and amount of life experience in common.
It might have something to do with being married to my wife as well. We've known each other since we were in our 20s but I've learned to love the way she changes over the years like the wrinkles she now has around her eyes and the laugh lines from laughing a lot and the silver streaks in her hair. That might be partially why my tastes in women tend to align with women closer to my age. My wife is only a few months younger than me.
šÆ It seems all the women I find most attractive do tend to remind me of my wife in some way. They might not look exactly the same or act exactly the same but they have things in common with qualities I find very attractive about my wife, and those qualities change with the passing years.
I think they get desperate a few years after college when mom and dad wants them out of the house and they realize they actually have to make it on their own.
@red324 I think that might be something more prevalent in certain Western cultures. Here women are still very traditional in mindset about marriage and family. There are virtually no Japanese single mothers here in Japan, for example, besides widows.
I can't think of a thing that I dislike that's also conventionally attractive... it is attractive for a reason! and I do love women, you know that, and so I see them as a whole and end up loving them as such
so... I am going to cheat a bit, because a lot of people (enough people) do think that a little bit of jealousy is attractive and a good thing, lol... that they feel a bit protective, or territorial or threatened "because they love you that much" well, to me... that does not sound so romantic, it is still a little bit of insecurity in them and a bit of lacking trust in me too
now, I won't deny it no... that I've gotten a bit jealous sometimes, yes... but I never made an scene to a girlfriend, I never recriminated anything, surely never got stupid... lol
anything jealousy related makes me feel icky... but I know a lot of people can see a bit of it as romantic, cute or even an ego boost, I do not... lol
A lot of people like freckles. I think they look good on a persons nose rather than all over the persons face. A lot of people also like thick luscious lips. They kinda feel like theyāre swallowing my face so im okay with more thin then thick. They just need to actually exist on his face. I can't go for another James who lacked a top lip. People seem to like piercings and tattoos. I only like eyebrow piercings and small cross or anchor tats. But preferably the guy has neither. A lot of women like a man in uniform. That honestly turns me off lol. And some women drool over long hair, body hair and facial hair on a guy. I prefer he have shortcut or shaved hair, no chest/back/facial hair. My current guys facial hair is tolerable tho and i actually encourage his stubble. Just weird tho cause he's a brunette with hair so dark that it almost looks black, yet his facial hair is red. Iām normally not that into redheads but its expected from his Irish half
Im sure someone likes em lmao. I just personally was never into freckles until i met a few guys with them only on their nose and now im obsessed. And i just realized, all my exes who had freckles on their nose, no matter what race they were, all had at least one redheaded parent or grandparent. Even my half black, half PR hispanic ex.
Really muscly dudes, guys who have a 6 pack, tall guys (6ft+). Women with cosmetically big butts, big boobs, big lips, pretty much any feature that is exaggerated/bigger than it naturally should be.
Wow this is the first time where I meet all three of someoneās preferences lolā¦Iām strong but have a bit of a dad bod so Iām donāt have a six pack or vein popping shoulders and biceps, and Iām way under 6 ft
Iāve never been huge on blonde women. Obviously a beautiful woman is a beautiful woman regardless, itās not a disqualifier, but I find myself less crazy about them than some other guys are. Like, with all due respect, I feel like a lot of blondes arenāt what theyāre cracked up to be by some, like the other guys just see the blonde hair and itās instantaneously attractive to them, but if you really look, the woman isnāt that remarkably pretty. āFoolās goldā, in some cases. This sounds way more shallow than I want it to come off, hope this isnāt too rude, haha.
And another aspect is IāM blonde, so it kind of feels like checking out a relative, and thatās for sure the anti-boner😂
Very true. And to be clear, I find blonde women very attractive multiple times daily, haha, itās not very exclusive. I guess Iām just saying that, at least over here in the guysā camp, if you lined up a few women of fairly even objective attractiveness (as much as thatās possible), I feel like a ton of guys would go blonde over everything, natural or bottle, kind of automatically. I might think sheās very attractive, but something I canāt quite cleanly articulate is different in their attraction. I guess thatās me speculating on their feelings, lmao, but thatās my outside estimation, anyway. Feel like I see it in other (usually whiteš) guys with Asian women too. They just seem to kind of have a specific thing for the blonde hair or Asian features, as the case may be.
We all have our tendencies, I suppose. Lord knows Iāve been on the wrong end of ātall, dark, and handsomeā my whole life. I am tall, and my mother wouldāve argued for me being handsome, but if I was any less dark, I would be clearš
Tattoos. I don't find them attractive. Yeah a couple of em are good. But those tatted arms and bodies, I really don't find them appealing to me.
Lying. That's a pretty much norm these days. People find it really fun to lie and go about doing there stuff. Like lying to their parents and going about drinking, lying to their partners and cheating etc.
Dark humor. Nope. That's really a no no. You cannot find humor in abuse, inhuman, insane stuff. That just shows how you lack sympathy. Someone's suffering just can't be a topic to joke about.
Maybe more stuff but that's all I can type now lol.
Painted toe/fingernails. I think most people to find it attractive on women but I never did. It makes me feel like theyāre hiding something. On the other hand, I dated a girl that probably should have painted her toenails, they were nasty! She was a ballet dancer.
Fake tits, bbls, big lips, a lot of people find models attractive, personally I think they are too skinny for how tall they are, if I can see their rib cages at rest, they are too skinnyā¦same with bodybuilders when they do that vacuum pose, no thanks. Piercings (especially septum), tattoos, colorful hair (blue hair for example) Beauty marks (like a mole on your lip), I donāt think automatically make someone unattractive, but I donāt think they add any attractiveness either.
extreme tan (like the artificial one), lip filler lips, the huge spider lashes, body builder muscle, buccal fat removal look (the hollow cheek thing), super big boobs especially obv fake ones, bbls
Doesnāt thickness factor into dong size though? Like a 6 in dong could be a big dong if it was like 6 in thick while a 8 inch dick could be overall not big if it was only 4 in thick?
Dong size I mean in terms of length. But an 8 inch dick, regardless of its girth, is still a big dick, it's just not a thick one, and it'll hurt like a mother fucker.
I guess it depends on the country. In Thailand, an 8 in dick is extremely long, in the USA itās very long, but in Sudan itās only in the upper side of average.
Because itās not universal, whatās big in one country is only average in another etcā¦also whatās small in one country is average in another. Actually no, according to this the French exact average is still below 6 in worldpopulationreview.com/.../penis-size-by-country
Dude, stop fucking talking about averages. For the second time now, I'm not talking about averaged. Literally past 7 inches, you're literally going to hurt her if not cause damage. Vaginas are only like 3 to 4 inches deep before you hit the cervix.
1. Kindness matters to me more than anything. 2. Not into the big butts like most guys 3. Bad attitudes will make a girl physically ugly to me. 4. Commitment to the relationship no matter what level is even more important to me.
I've been trying to dig deeper into this but that's the best I got so far.
Also the whole thing where you make sure not reply right away so they don't lose interest. Like c'mon if they're worth your time they won't lose interest lol
I'm never good at these answers for two reasons. 1 for being put on the spit and 2 because I don't always know what I want. But when I know I like her I know.
I don't like guys with egoistic personality but some girls seem to find this attractive.
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Confidence. Frankly, I think a bit of insecurity or second-guessing is even a bit cute. People are probably not going to like the following comment, but I mean no disrespect by it, but I view confidence as a fairly masculine trait.
(Not that it's wrong for females, transfemmes, etc, to have masculine traits. I, myself, have a few feminine traits)
Breasts I guess, I can see the beauty in them but I don't understand how people get boners from them, I think my mind is just wired to find ass more attractive
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