What do you find attractive but other people don’t?

Question

I just wanna know what unique things you guys find attractive for example I find dad bods and scars perfect

JustNotherHuman34 · Accepted Answer

A woman with big feet.

Of course there are men out there who are partial towards feet, and I’m kinda one of them. But over the years, I’ve started to see that it’s more than just partialism. There are implications regarding women with larger feet, and I think that’s what makes a woman having them attractive to me.

Typically, women with large feet are taller, and I prefer taller women; even taller than me is fine (I’m 5’11” or 180cm). Of course, I know a lot of taller women prefer not to date men shorter than them (and some may not care as much), and that’s totally understandable. Though, I did court a woman who was 6’3” in college for a couple months, and one who’s 6’0” a few years ago. But I digress.

In addition, my subconscious attraction results in a feeling of equality and comfort. While I know that this is all based on stereotypes and definitely not true of all women with big feet, as I stated, they’re usually taller. If a woman with whom I’m involved is close to my height (and/or taller), then I feel more comfortable being myself around her. Personally, I’m a massive hugger and play-fighter (touch is my love language). Keep in mind that I’m also 230 lbs. and played football through college. If a woman is closer to my height, then I won’t feel like a giant ogre and fear that might hurt or squish her on accident! Yea, some may read this and think that it’s really taller women I’m after and not so much the big feet, and that’s an understandable assessment. However, I’ll say that if a woman has big feet, then height usually doesn’t matter to me (also doesn’t matter to me if a tall woman doesn’t have big feet). I’m just explaining my subconscious thought-process behind this attraction, which again, is based on stereotypes. The short version? Big feet -> Tall woman -> Can play with her. But again, I digress.

Aside from physical attraction, women with larger feet are more relatable to me. I have large and wide feet myself. It’s tough to find wide shoes in the stores around me. Depending on the shoe, I can wear anything from US men’s 13-15 (most of my shoes are 14). I started wearing 13 when I was 13 years-old, and it was hard finding shoes that wouldn’t get me laughed at in middle school (with generic or bargain brand names). Kids and even teachers also used to say I had boats for shoes or flipper/clown feet! So, women with larger feet can understand my struggle. Of course, their struggle is usually way more real than mine since, because of the target market for most women’s shoe designers and the types of shoes they make, I’m aware that good-looking women’s shoes that come in larger sizes can be insanely difficult to find. Sometimes they have to get them custom-made, and I’ve had to toe (no pun intended) that line before myself. More so, regarding women, I know that society doesn’t necessarily associate big feet with being feminine, which is unfortunate and the two don’t correlate at all (says the dude bringing up stereotypes). But lo and behold, I digress once more.

Anyway, if a woman can relate to me on a subject that’s affected me my whole life (even if her struggle is way worse), that’s just another way for us to connect, discuss things, and use it as building block for relationship with a strong foundation, even if the relationship ends up being just a friendship. That’s really what’s most important to me. So, the older I got, the more I started to accept that this is something that is a plus for me regarding a woman’s physical features and something to which I do pay attention. Does it affect whether I pursue someone? Absolutely not, as that’s purely physically and has nothing to do with their personality. We can relate on a million different levels aside from that, of course.

But if a woman has big feet, taller or not, she’ll definitely have my attention!

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

Physically, I find height on a woman attractive. I may be short (181 cm), but a woman who's between 6'0" to 6'5" (183 cm to 196 cm) drives me WILD! It's so sexy to see a powerful, curvy woman that size! Not just tall, but curvy and thick as well. I know many men prefer petite flat-chested women 5'6" and under, but not me!

At 6'4", I liked Ellen's "Before" look much better!

6'1" Lauren has the boobs and height to match!

As far as personality goes, I find insecurity in women to be a turn-on! It means she's grounded in reality and knows she has flaws. One of my biggest turn-offs is arrogance/confidence/conceit. I can't STAND people with a high opinion of themselves! I know just about 99.9% of all women like confidence in a partner, but I'm one guy who does not!

Msputiton · Accepted Answer

It's hard to define.
But we have these beauty standards.

But i like someone who doesn't always fit that.
They have a very unique and different look that makes them standout, and a lot of people find these flaws ugly. Like a chin that looks unique. Lips that aren't shaped perfect.

It's usually 1 or 2 things that stand out that usually doesn't look close to what others.

WhatTheHeckkkk · Accepted Answer

I think the “dad bod” on guys is super attractive… Not the beer gut look though.  I’m not into the super define abs and chiseled chest… I love this:

aWes0MeNeSs · Answer

Crow's feet. They accentuate a person's smile! Never understood why those are something to dislike and try to avoid/erase at all costs.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I find emotional men and sensitive men to be attractive

DaveJord · Answer

Like women with a nice ass and defined waist line... can be skinny or thick, curvey or thin, round, shapely, full or tight..., but not flat or flabby, and has to have a some type of figure or waist line. Waist line can be high, slim, trim or settle... but its go to be there without rolls.

But it all starts with how pretty she is, if she has a pretty face then we guys will be more forgiving of the body... but if heh as a totally kicking body then we will be more forgiving of the looks.

After that iI look at the hair. She has to have clean and well kept hair, because a women who takes care of her hair takes care of her hair pays attention to the hygiene in other areas that men find important.

After that it becomes about personality and the sex.

Diodoro · Answer

Girls who pursued an athletic pursuit in a competitive environment and really lived that life. Even if it was just highschool/college. Whatever.

I find that attractive. Says a lot about you and it's something if a girls tells me about is a big win whether she knows it or not. Could be general sports. Dancing. Something physical.

I appreciate other pursuits if a girl was mercilessly focused on to the same degree. It's more about that trait. But if it wasn't sports basically no girl ever has it.

Moose304 · Answer

What I find attractive is inner beauty. Things like watching a girl handle a stressful situation and remain a lady. I don't place much emphasis on the outward physical. As long as she does NOT smoke, does NOT have bad BO, does NOT have visible tats, and does NOT have meth teeth, and does NOT use profanity every other word. Right now I guess would be a good time to add I'm OK with her being a bit overweight. I am not speaking about her being obese. I see an Attorney some, we have spoken about this. Her idea weight is around 130 pounds. She hovers between 130 to 145. This does not bother me. The thing is if someone does not respect themselves enough to maintain a healthy lifestyle why should I give a damn about them? I don't fat shame, that's mean. I just ignore them. Oh by the way, I feel the same about men. I am not close to obese men.

ALewis30 · Answer

I always find women who are odd, eccentric, funny and mis-understood attractive.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Hmmm... That depends on what others find attractive.
But, a tongue piercing is quite hot.
And piercings, maybe rings, necklaces, and such (depending on style).
Tattoos as well.

Those are top of my head of what others might not find attractive that I do.

t-8900 · Answer

I like caramel and brown skin tones. I love jet black hair. I prefer brown eyes over green or blue. I'm the only white guy in my circle that likes darker features like that. The rest of the guys froth at the mouth for super pale girls with blonde or red hair and blue or green eyes. I did a survey on hair here and I'm like the only guy that gets turned tf on by ponytails apparently.

InventorofWarp · Answer

"Older woman body". That is, a woman 40+ with like a bit of a tummy and firm tits so everything moves just right.
I also think tattoos are super sexy obviously or I wouldn't have so many.
Tall women. Being over 6'5 this is a given.
Being called a good boy or sweet or angel, I guess I have sort of an innocence kink. Likely 'cause I'm still a virgin. Which is funny 'cause something I love in it would be becoming the opposite of this for her in bed.

CheeseMonster · Answer

I have a thing for "odd" voices? Like higher pitched and distinct. Jordan Peterson. Charlie Day. Donald Duck. You know... uh
I did not grow up watching Donald, actually. I'm not sure where it came from. One of my childrens pastors did have a high/distinct voice, so maybe he started it?

MsTaniaUncensored · Answer

Virginity. Am I weird or nah? XD The best time to teach a man to be an amazing lover is when he's a clean slate in my opinion anyways.

Raphaëlle · Answer

I really like hair for some reason. It's one of the first things you see and remember. I usually remember hairstyle/hair colour better than eye colour. It could also be when I like switching up hair colours myself.

NHI2017 · Answer

Tall girls,  skinny girls   Small boobs and small butt   I think its hot if a girl is a bit of a slut too.  The more she sleeps around the better she is in bed. And this is a fact

Shortman70 · Answer

I like a woman that's not afraid of worms or fish. Yet easily slips into a dress or sexy lingerie. Not afraid to get shit on her boots, then put high heels on and go on a date. Tough yet tender.

icelolly · Answer

Men who are themselves and aren't afraid to stick to their stance even if it's unpopular or not conventionally 'cool'.

tessarae29 · Answer

Men who seek to glorify God, who are confident in their line of work, those who genuinely seek to help others.

Anonymous · Answer

I find good mothers to be extremely attractive. Like if I’m dating a single mom and I see her being a good mother to her kid (s). It lets me know that if we were to ever have more kids she’d be a great attentive mom. It lets me know she’s a nurturer. I take note of that and keep it in the back of my head.

petitedollbabee · Answer

I’m the same, dad bods and scars are super sexy to me. Aswell as men who smoke 🥰

Aelleden · Answer

The tip of their little nose moving when they talk, it's so freaking cute it gets me everytime. Also a girl belly and back, it's the sexiest part of their body in my opinion head excluded

CasaNorba · Answer

confidence!

I really can't stand a hot woman bitching about how she needs to lose weight and get in shape. while most men will just rush into them and disregard their lack of confidence. I wonder how they put up hearing them bitching

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

I like tattoos and piercings on a girl, also dyed hair.

Z1pTD · Answer

Scars. I grew up jumping from playgrounds and rolling over three foot drops onto cement to pretend I was dead etc so I grew up basically viewing scars as a “I’m a badass and idgaf” symbols lol
Still love scars :)

RolandCuthbert · Answer

Oh, that's easy. Intelligence. Intelligence in a woman is pretty sexy.

Agape93 · Answer

Single laugh line. I don't know why exactly, bit god damn

attackgrrrl · Answer

Guys with horse/frog faces. Like Eric Erlandson, Rami Malek, Tom Petty, and Steven Tyler. I also like greasy hair

normalice · Answer

I like small butts whereas it seems most guys prefer large ones.

Anonymous · Answer

I strangely ding features that women think are unattractive but men like. I like tough muscly women with attitude. Most men do. Women think men hate this. If only they knew how wrong they are. Ever seen the LFL?

What do you find attractive but other people don’t?

TomGarand · Answer

Muscles. Not to the point where she looks like a roided-up bodybuilder, but muscles are appealing to me.

MrCommodore · Answer

Narrow faced girls, not usually girls with round faces.  There are probably other things too.

ElvenMr · Answer

Big noses, small boobs/ass, slightly hairy arms, pubes, and maybe some other things as well i can't think of right now, because i find them attractive hah.

progboy · Answer

I'm really into very big and saggy boobs. A lot of people criticise "old lady boobs" that hang down really low or nipples that point downwards but I love that.

VikingWarLord · Answer

I like when she has skinny rail thin ARMS  It turns me on when i see a b! tch with super thin arms.

Anonymous · Answer

I like petite girls with smaller boobs and smaller butts and I think that goes against what people think guys find attractive.

Old_Golden · Answer

Skinny girls... I'm built like a 2"x4" and like girls who are smaller versions of the same, curves are lost on me...

jahaims · Answer

There are people that find those things attractive.

that-one-dud3 · Answer

A girls smile I don’t see enough dudes appreciating a girls smile. If she’s just a cute smile and you lock eyes with her that stuff is magical in my opinion

ACR130 · Answer

Personality seems to be among those things. I here people find someone atractive after finding out how much they make or the amount of materialistic possession they have or can offer.

lottiebannotie · Answer

Pubes as long as they aren't completely out of control lol

linka_pat307 · Answer

Old and humble but sometimes childish guys really attractive

cookiecrusher · Answer

Women in casual comfy fitness clothes look so much better than in a nice dress. Also they usually get to express their style more freely.

Mavie123 · Answer

guys who speak more than one language haha i find them hot :D

Northernlights25 · Answer

I think I'm quite conventional in what I find attractive.

Still-alive · Answer

im not as into the blonde hair blue eyes look too much. it seems to be popular still

Anonymous · Answer

A clean shave. Most women like beards or some stubble but not me. Probably because I am younger but still!

AnthonyJ01 · Answer

I like small breasts--A and B cup, firm ass, love redheads.

AbruvAvgMatt · Answer

Smaller breasts. If Kate Middleton was any flatter, I would melt.

Tomtom9494 · Answer

When someone is hardly nice or respectable to me as I only get hatred from people

Anonymous · Answer

Big noses, naturally flared noses (like Johnny depps) , beauty marks , ugly laughs lmao

Better_off_here · Answer

i like freckles on a lady and i like small boobs too.

badsquirrelll · Answer

I love girls with over-bites, and I don't know why but i do.

Anonymous · Answer

nothing, im pretty normal, i like beautiful girls with big butts... pretty normal./... wait there is something odd that i find attractive, but i won't tell you, its not legal..

badkarm4 · Answer

His hands. I like thin piano player fingers. I imagine the all over my clit haha

Anonymous · Answer

I always have been attracted to a more prominent nose I guess. Italian and Jewish women mostly

Nice222 · Answer

Woman with small boobs.

jobego · Answer

i find women with unique bodies attractive

poof_22 · Answer

Men with no body hair.

Desconhecida · Answer

I love dimples

andy530 · Answer

Small boobs and long labia

AndrésC64 · Answer

Tomboy look. Short hair on girls. Tattoos.

htmndg183 · Answer

Muscular women and super tall women. Femdom.

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