Early 20s. Average to good looking. Wearing glasses. Fit. Average height? Why don't women show interest in me?

[Anonymous]

[sawno]

Alright so couple of things. Women want established men who got their act together, what that means depends on age range but the more established you are the better your chances. Do you got your personality together? Do you have a career of sorts? Do you have a car? Do you have a house? Could you be a good father? That sort of stuff.

Now since your early 20's that means your also hitting the younger dating pool who don't seek that level of maturity yet, but what they do want is you to show them you are a safe choice. So you will NOT be approached, at most you catch a smile but then like others say you have to really stand out in the room. Its going to take you developing your social skills and approaching women appropriately because those things are attractive. And then put those skills to use to show her that you are safe and worth committing to.

Good luck!
P. s. If its sex your after and not love be up front about it, don't lead her on, but dare to admit its what your after (After of course you show her in your cue's that its acceptable / safe for her to move towards such a thing). Less women will be interested but the ones who do will appreciate the honesty.

[Asker]

Getting myself towards a career. Not the most appreciated (not doctor or lawyer) but quite respectable. Yes, I have a car. I will have a house soon. Love, not sex.

[sawno]

Yeah so your well on your way and that's going to work in your favor, but you will also need to build up experience in flirting / approaching so that you can get the girls attention in the right way.

[Anonymous]

You don't sound like you make the top 20%. And we're told that is all they recognise nowadays.

Build yourself a life, career. Most likely one will eventually take notice. I hear they're getting bored of the girl boss stuff.

[Asker]

Well, I don't make the top 20% but that doesn't mean some guys who don't make 20% are not approached by girls

[Opinion Owner]

Nope, it doesn't. Chances are it'll sort itself out on time.

[HateyouxD]

Because you don't share interest in them simple

[Asker]

And would that make me more likable?

[laly520]

prolly cuz of personality or social skills

[Asker]

So do they make so much of a difference?

[laly520]

yes lot of difference
u guys focus mainly on looks n forgets about the core

[Asker]

Looks are more objective than an attractive personality

[laly520]

looks won't get person anywhere if looking for more than just flirting or hook ups

[ItsMariusz]

Personality? Value?