Ladies, would you be turned off if a guy goes to great lengths for his appearance?

[Anonymous]

So I’m gonna be living with my girlfriend soon. And I’m kind of embarrassed because I have so much stuff that I do to make myself look and feel better. First of all, I probably have more than 20k worth of clothes and shoes. I literally don’t have enough space in my closet for my clothes. So I have a clothes rack that’s full. Two big dressers full. Storage boxes full and it still doesn’t fit all my clothes. I been trying to sell a lot of my clothes on eBay and Poshmark, but they aren’t selling fast enough for my liking. Anyways, I also go to great lengths of caring for my body. I have like tons of skincare stuff and hair products. And I also have about 50 different colognes. And I still want more. I think I do all this stuff because I grew up poor, and now that I make good enough money. I been splurging it on myself. Also, I used to get rejected a lot back then. I guess it doesn’t matter now, since I have a girlfriend nowadays. But it’s just who I am. I never lived with past girlfriends, so I’m nervous about it😅.

[ManInChains]

I don’t think women really care about a man’s appearance

[Anonymous]

It is a turn-off. Any man that has to try that hard is probably a red flag.

[Asker]

Really? How come? I’m a good person (or at least I try to be). I like to think I try to be a good partner to my girlfriend. I tell her I love her everyday. I keep notes on stuff she likes. And I paid for her school, car bill, and her vacation. Because she earns less than me, and because I care more about her than money.

[AI Opinion]

First off, it's totally normal to feel self-conscious about sharing your life and space with someone new. But honestly, self-care and having an amazing wardrobe aren't things to feel embarrassed about! It shows that you take pride in your appearance and wellbeing, which is a great quality.

Being open and communicative with your girlfriend is key. Maybe she’ll find your dedication inspiring or even helpful. Plus, you've earned the right to treat yourself, especially considering your background. Just make sure to compromise if space becomes an issue. Remember, relationships thrive on mutual respect and understanding, so being upfront will likely only strengthen your bond. 🌟

[Unit1]

Sounds nice. I wish I had that luxury.

[Asker]

I worked really hard for everything that I have, though. Sometimes I had no days off for several months.

[Unit1]

I feel that. I sacrificed way too much and i still haven't traveled anywhere nor do l have a drivers license.