Would you date a guy just for his appearance?

Question

Even if you didn't necessarily like his character would you still date an attractive guy?

TruthBringer · Accepted Answer

I'm going to play the devil's advocate here. It has been proven multiple times that women would generally go for more attractive men. They claim they care about what is in the inside, but then again jump to the 'bad boys' who are not only attractive, but know how to push their buttons. I happen to know about this since I'm considered as one.

Would you date a guy just for his appearance?

How many times have you seen women claim they want a man for their personality/character and then proceed on rejecting/friendzoning the nice guy? This is no secret anymore and it is so common that memes are being made about it. These same women who claim they want a nice guy and a man for their personality are the very same ones who complain about the men they chose. All because the dude LOOKS good and knew how to push their buttons.

Don't buy into their bullshit of them wanting a man with character. What they say often contradict what they go for.

These memes are more than enough to show you why these same nice guys often turn out to be bad boys and "assholes". Because they got to learn that this is the way to score women.

dragoblack · Accepted Answer

I see a lot of "nope" from women, but actions speak louder than words.
From my experience, women will say "no" to doing a stereotype, but turn around and still do that stereotype without thinking about the situation.

hi_it_is_me123 · Accepted Answer

Everyone would date attractive people but appearance alone ain't enough. I have rejected good looking guys because of their promiscuos behaviour. Wait you mean dating. Dating mean getting to know someone for a relationship. So of course i would date a man for his appearance so i can get to know his personality since his looks attracted me and by dating i can find out if i am also attracted to his personality. Nobody would stay with a terrible person
So appearance pulls you but character holds you

Levi4444 · Accepted Answer

No way. I wouldn't be able to be happy in a relationship like that. I would need to connect with him and like his personality as well. Even if he wasn't good looking but he had a good personality and I felt like I connected with him, then I would date him.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I want a guy with a good personality and that is more important to me than good looks.

Elliejah · Answer

We can't deny the fact that the number of failed rwlationship is rising and it is because millenials or yourths and even young adult today chooses a guy who she can be proud of in front her friends and family even though that guy isn't Kind but as long as the guy is good looking they still choose it. Im not saying that Im talking about all women what Im trying to say is most of the women now a days are like that, they go for a 'bad boy' type of man but when everything got fvcked up and get badly hurt they rant like they are the victim, Girls choose your man wisely.

Starrisunset · Answer

I could only do it for so long. It's tempting to date someone you're really attracted to, even exciting but looks don't last forever. Dating someone you can't connect with is probably going to be a problem in the long run. So for a fling, then yes I could. Long term it wouldn't work out.

Anonymous · Answer

Hot guys are hot and though I think ANYONE would enjoy having some arm candy, actual real life dating and not just some fantasy of a man, involves some sort of exchange, conversation, and an amenable personality to carry you through. If he didn't have at least something behind the face and body, I couldn't do it.

muscularbumblebee · Answer

If he’s like a 10/10 then casually yes, but nothing serious. That is assuming his personality is alright (not bad) but we just don’t click. At the same time I wouldn’t tell him to any of my friends except pictures to show off I guess

Emp909 · Answer

Absolutely no. A relationship cannot last on attraction alone. It will get old fast, and your left with someone you do not really like. On the other hand, the guys I have had the biggest romantic feelings for are the same ones I initially thought we not very attractive. A good personality, values, and qualities can create attraction, but the reverse is never true. In a perfect world, I'm sure most people would love to have both and many do; but if it ever came down to dating a guy who looks good but whom I dislike in every other way, I say no!

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

No, not in the slightest.
The character is what makes me want to date them and stay with them. Sure, I want to be attracted to them as well. But their appearance doesn't make up for a bad character. Then it wouldn't mean anything to be with them.

Anonymous · Answer

Looks will accentuate any “good” characteristics a man has. If he has a mediocre sense of humor she will laugh at all his jokes. If he’s a so so athlete she will still see him as a jock. If he has so so intelligence she will see him as really smart.

Also he can be much more assertive and aggressive with approaching women with the risk of being labeled a “creep”.

He still needs to create momentum though. Maybe not as much as his lesser attractive counterparts but unlike a very attractive woman he can’t get by in life with his looks.

Titanya · Answer

Absolutely not. If all he got his looks... the conversation isn't stimulating and he's not funny... I'd rather drink hot lemonade

Anonymous · Answer

No. The amount of cute guys I’ve talked to who lacked personality are a lot, like sure appearance is a good quality but what’s the point of you don’t even like the dude? This one guy hit me up and he was very attractive, but he had the personality of a rock and I’m more for long term relationships too, I think I’d go crazy without someone with at least a bit of humor and decent personality. I’m trying to get a life partner, not a lame model.

Kate282021 · Answer

Nope. What would be the point in dating someone for the appearance when your parents can change who you are as a person is what remains throughout your life as well as the fact that it wouldn't really be much of a relationship but just more so be a hookup or a fuck buddy

Azura_88 · Answer

NO, I might flirt subtly but also won't take him seriously as a long term partner. I won't date him unless he's submissive.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. We all get to a point where we realize looks aren't everything. Attractive people are not that hard to find. Finding some you click with, someone who gets you and makes you laugh... I can count on one hand how many times that has happened in my lifetime.

cute_kitty12 · Answer

I personally would not. To me it doesn't matter all that much what a guy looks like. I mostly just like people for themselves, their character and personality.

isabellahudson08 · Answer

Maybe if I'm bored lol , but I won't take him seriously or consider him for long term.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

No. I don't have time for that.

I prioritize soul, heart, and mind. Body can be improved and appearance worked on relatively easily.

It takes much more hard work to develop and maintain a good personality.

Arcreactor81 · Answer

Well, if he plays Minecraft, then I don't see why not ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Honestly, I don't even care about how good looking a person is. As long as they play Minecraft and can tolerate my mood swings, I'm all for it.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

there's certain metrics men need to meet to garner a womans attraction. Strong, successful, leaders are what women prefer most in men. The burden of beauty and being cute is on the woman its a feminine quality

CuteLingsAppreciator · Answer

I'd rather die than be with an attractive but shitty guy.

paradiseonearth93 · Answer

No I would not. I’m attracted to who they are inside- personality, energy, all that stuff. I can note some guys are good looking but I don’t feel attraction for someone just because they’re good looking.

Tiptoetamm · Answer

I wouldn't just date a guy because he's good looking. For me it's also about how he treats me and other women and people in general, his sence of humor, good personality, we get along well, we have similar interestes.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys don't listen to the false woman opinion they're either laying or they don't know what they really want.

The facts is woman will date based on look at their 20s and they're dying for Chad they can't help it they reject guys with sense of humor don't believe it they have rejected so many guys because maybe he was below 6 feet the majority of women will ride the 🎠🎠🎠 on their 20s then at their 30s they will face the great wall Chad will run another 🎠🎠🎠 show where there's no place for over 20s woman at that time they will say where are all the good men have gone !! MGTOW. girls have friend zoned so many guys just because he's below 6 and driving a Honda , much respect for Honda and their legendary reliable engines.

Well there's exception I mean there are good woman out there but they're rare to find and not that easy

JustAnj · Answer

That don't impress me much - Shania Twain  I will forever have this song stuck in my head, DAMMIT 🥴😂 Simple answer is no. This song says it all though. 💯

sennsess2 · Answer

No. I want to date a man with both good looks and good personality I find attractive

ProCoffeeAntiSleep · Answer

I would probably go on a date, but if that was the only thing going then there probably won't be a second one. Dad jokes will always beat a good bode

Browneye57 · Answer

It all depends on how much money he has. LOL It has been well proven that women will do ANYTHING if there's enough money involved. It's just a matter of negotiating how much.

YESIMFUNNY · Answer

I would give him a chance... I mean he's hot, but if I find out he had a bad personality then no

Biancam13 · Answer

Maybe but not long term, he has to have both looks and personality for me to take him seriously

aqua0101 · Answer

No , looks are not everything. I look at what's inside.

SupremeWarlord · Answer

They already do that, when looking for one-night stands and flings. Long term, no.

Sia_nee · Answer

If I was bored then sure. If I need something serious then obviously not

LeoElias · Answer

My sister did and she said it was the worst relationship she ever been in.

witness1 · Answer

Date? Sure. But keeping him for a long term relationship, beuaty is just a bonus, not a prerequisite. Works for women too.

Audette · Answer

Not properly dating but more like sex friend.

Minahh · Answer

If he doesn't treat me like a queen then it doesn't matter he looks like a king

Fat_hoe · Answer

Yes because I don’t want to be seen with an ugly man

StunningANDbrave · Answer

Yeah they would.

Anonymous · Answer

Great to see that so many girls admit that they are just as shallow as guys are...

hannny · Answer

To date not but to play with yes haha

Keelylee · Answer

Actually yes, but won’t take it too seriously

pink_and_inlove · Answer

Nope the main thing I look for is kindess

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. I need a lot more than just good looks.

MoonStalker · Answer

Never. If I don't love them why would I even try?

Grubhub · Answer

Most girls would people looks attract, the ones who said no would because everybody has a type

Somegirl408 · Answer

yeah lol

IveGotNoName · Answer

Sounds awful, no thanks.

TrueConfection · Answer

Not a chance.

Sue_Free · Answer

No, that feels like a chore

thimmslicc · Answer

I would date him. Not get serious

Luminair3 · Answer

No, the personality matters a lot.

Exterminatore · Answer

Many girls would if he’s attractive enough.

emilym12345 · Answer

No. It’s shallowness.

annie05 · Answer

If he is good inside yes otherwise no.

GenaBaby1995 · Answer

Not anymore !

SleepyFlower · Answer

Yes 🥰

karaspara · Answer

No it would lead nowhere

Sarahr123 · Answer

If he is dumb then no.

rienna888 · Answer

Umm yes sadly

Asianguy123 · Answer

No, personality is the most important

kindsoul · Answer

No he has to have great personality and be fun

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