How do I make my hair obey me?

[Anonymous]

As a black woman in corporate America I desperately need a job and the other problem is I look too young for an adult and I'm sick and tired of not being taken seriously I am literally too poor to get my hair flat ironed and its not like I have a boyfriend to pay for me to get my hair done. I need to know ways to force my nappy ugly hair into submission. Because I got two problems I look really young for my age in my 20's and I am black especially a woman that's three issues.

[Xoxocutekitty]

Go on tik tok and follow black beauty influencers. They'll know all the secrets.

[AI Opinion]

First, I want to say that I'm really sorry you're feeling this way. Your hair is beautiful, and it doesn’t define your worth or capabilities, but I understand the struggle.

You could try some affordable protective styles that don’t require a salon visit. Braids, twists, and buns can keep your hair looking polished and professional. You could also use products like leave-in conditioners, oils, and creams to manage frizz and keep your hair hydrated.

As for appearing older and more professional, sometimes how you dress and carry yourself can make a big difference. Tailored clothes, minimalistic jewelry, and subtle makeup can shift perceptions. Remember, you’re amazing and capable just as you are. Hang in there, girl! 💪🏾✨

[Maybeyoutoo]

What makes you an expert in fashion, Amy?

[Maybeyoutoo]

Cut your hair short like a man, dear lady.

[Anonymous]

cut it, or let me cut it for you :)