You go to school to learn, not show off your bod. Isn't there enough distractions at schools these days as it is with what do you call each other or what bathroom to use, bullies, and of course fights on the quad. Save your outfits for OnlyFans, as they don't belong in school. At least you can make some extra money for Christmas that way.
WE say they're there for an education but the KIDS are there for socializilation, sports, music, clubs, theatre, friends, dating, flirting, finding their people, their identity, their future. For some it's the best part of their day because their home life is horrific in a way that I shudder to explain.
Because it's school not a fashion show, you go there to learn not to show off your body. And maybe you feel more comfortable wearing whatever you want but schools tend to avoid student to get distracted. Just wear a normal shirt and a trousers, you can still study in them and you wouldn't have to wear a jacket
A distraction for whom?
And if they do find her attractive WHOSE problem is that?
It's their problem, she being pretty isn't a problem, but they are in school, no need to show off, you get there to study not to show off your body, and certainly some would get distracted by how attractive she is. These kinda of things distract some kids from learning and focusing on their study, and even if it's not a big deal, the school would try to avoid every sort of distraction possible.
But why Is the obligation on the girl to alter her behavior rather than the boys / lesbians to alter theirs?
You are 18 years old , there are many occasions in life when you will have to dress appropriately , time to start practising this , school is not for you to show off your body and seek attention , its for learning and setting up your life , so wake up and keep the outfits relevant to the process of Study , keep yourself nice.
Spoken like an adult who just doesn't get it.
HS teacher here. It's misogyny to the core. It's wrong. If my daughter school dress coded her I would be up there raising holy hell. When I was in the classroom, I never dress coded anyone because it's a bullshit rule.
@DrPepper12 misogyny? Pretty sure the dress code applies to boys too
Appropriate clothing applies to everyone.
@Kingofkings1992 yes for offensive tshirts n stuff. The GSA in my school the boys dressed in tube tops n daisy dukes and NOT ONE MALE was dress coded for the same outfit that would have the deans clutching their pearls!! ITS MISOGYNY! Full stop!
School dress codes can sometimes be unspoken or based on expectations, even if they're not written down. It can be frustrating to feel you're being singled out. Remember, school's aim is usually to maintain a certain environment, but it's still okay to express yourself within those boundaries. At least you're not facing it alone! Maybe try to find creative ways to dress within their guidelines while maintaining your style. 😊
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Because it helps no one and you go to school to study and not to model or do whatever.
I was the same as you and looking back I think I would have done much better in school if there would have just been some school uniform. I spent most of my pocket money on clothes, spent a lot of time of the day deciding what to wear to school to either impress my friends or get attention from guys. Same in school, my focus wasn't where it needed to be. I was distracted and I did the same to people around me. Just wearing some jeans and hoodie would have been easier for everyone. In the end it doesn't make a huge difference anyway. So just get over it and wear something basic
Because guy teachers are already constantly hard from jr high up girls are getting sexy and desperately eager to get male attention
Kids their age barely get this if at all they know enough about it to know they can get inside these girls and thatās as far as they care or see and girls like this a lot but older guys know this and more know how badly we want to be used and they know and have experience using girls as puckmeat I let more teachers cum in me than Iāve ever admitted to anyone pretty much every guy teacher in high school they told one another and I let them have me all using me for a full summer
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You have plenty of time outside of school to show wear what you want and show off, no need to try and do it at school.. They may not have an exact dress code, but that doesn't mean they still don't have rules as to what to wear and what not to wear..
And rules are fine as long as they're evenly enforced and they are not!
@DrPepper12 No reason to evenly enforce them since they don't have the same effect..
What?
@Joshydavid25 spot on @DrPepper12 does he have to spell it out for you?
@Kingofkings1992 Yes I have a hard time keeping up with the Mensa members here
@DrPepper12 Boys and girls don't react to each other the same, so the same rules don't need to be applied..
Oh. Explain please
@DrPepper12 men are not women. Get a clue!
@Kingofkings1992 oooooookkkkkkkaaaaaayyyyyyy. But they do have the same claim to bodily agency, identity and expression, right?
@DrPepper12 Yeah, cause there are rules for boys too, school don't let boys roam around and do and wear whatever they want.. I remember boys couldn't wear earrings or hats in school.. Plus, those are kids, they only have so much freedom of expression and bodily autonomy..
Agreed. Only so much autonomy. My concern is equitable application of the rules.
The problem with boys is always something vulgar, drug and alcohol related, offensive, sexual or violent. It's never too much skin.
@DrPepper12 "The problem with boys is always something vulgar, drug and alcohol related, offensive, sexual or violent. It's never too much skin."
Same with girls, they get drunk, high, and do all types of nasty behaviors.. I mean the fact that they want to wear short skirts, and show skin tells me that girls are for from these clean, innocent angels..
Just because you don't have a uniform doesn't mean you can wear whatever you want. Even outside of school there are many businesses that will turn you away if you're wearing something inappropriate. "Common" sense always applies. If it's too revealing or features provocative text or images, then you don't wear it to school, work, or to any business. Otherwise they have the right to turn you away, fire you, suspend you, or whatever.
Work and school are entirely different universes. Schools are a public endeavor dealing with minors in their legal role in loco parentis.
Employment is for adults and there are collective bargaining agreements, guidelines, etc. and like you said for violators there can be
Back in my day the boys had to wear jackets and ties. We had a big demonstration to get rid of the dress code. The school committee folded like a cheap suit when they realized if it went to court they would lose since dress codes are unconstitutional.
You should organize a strike to abolish dress codes.
Can't be teacher led but I'm there in spirit!
@DrPepper12 the teachers still had to dress appropriately.
Of course! Absolutely!!
Dress codes are crazy annoying. They're just to shame and sexualize girls. I remember for awhile my high school banned leggings. I was pregnant during that time and could basically only wear leggings. My mom went crazy and lost her shit on the principal... I was like the only one in my school who was allowed to wear them after that 😅
"They're just to shame and sexualize girls."
I think it's to stop girls from shaming and sexualizing themselves.. Also, I'm sure boys couldn't walk around in tank tops or with their shirts off, so the code applies to them too.
@Joshydavid25 there's nothing sexual about the body until someone makes it sexual. Also some rules just crazy dumb like my school didn't allow open toed shoes. Not even for picture day or events. Girls couldn't wear heels to prom like wtf š
So a girl who got pregnant in her teens while still in school is lecturing about how rules sexualize girls? ĀÆ\_(ć)_/ĀÆ
@RingOfFire do you sexualize pregnant mothers? That'd be weird af even weirder to sexualize a pregnant teen.
@Apple1996 itās almost impressive how good you are at stating the the total opposite of what is true
@Kingofkings1992 not saying anything that's opposite here. A woman being pregnant isn't sexual. That's crazy to think that way
So now it is crazy to think that when a woman becomes pregnant woman it has anything to do with sex? ĀÆ\_(ć)_/ĀÆ
@RingOfFire it really is because she could be pregnant from a iui or ivf or even a rape where she didn't consent. To assume that a woman is being sexual because of she's pregnant is dumb af
@Apple1996 girls sexualize themselves š¤¦āāļø . In what way does a dress code sexualize girls?
@RingOfFire having a body, wearing certain clothes, pregnancy is not being sexual so there's no need to sexualize any of those things unless you are alone with that woman and having sex with her
@Kingofkings1992 it's saying that a girl wearing a certain outfit is too sexual even tho they are litterally just clothes and her body
I'll leave it at that. But if that assumption is dumb af, so is the assumption that dress codes are only for the purpose of sexualizing girls. In fact they are for just the opposite purpose.
@RingOfFire so you think telling a girl to cover up her body is for a reason other than it being sexual?
@RingOfFire also these are underage girls we are talking about here. Why are adults even thinking for them to cover up? š¤
A. So they won't be distracting the boys. B. So they won't be inciting a disturbance. C. So they won't be inviting the boys to make them pregnant.
@RingOfFire that seems like the boys problem if they're distracted. Fix them first then work on the girls clothing.
And what's wrong with getting pregnant? That is a personal choice
@Apple1996 no, it doesnāt work like that. If teen girls are wearing provocative clothing intended to entice male students, itās not the boys who are at fault for being distracted. Getting pregnant is a personal choice for an ADULT. Teen pregnancy is not a good thing under any circumstance
" that seems like the boys problem if they're distracted. Fix them first then work on the girls clothing."
If you dangle a piece of raw meat in front of a lion and the lion attacks you, is it your fault or the lions?
@Kingofkings1992 that's the boys issue for being distracted. I have sons and I teach them to be better than that.
And teen pregnancy was a good thing for me and my husband
@RingOfFire boys need to learn to control themselves. That's nothing to do with the girls
@Apple1996 youāre hopeless
@Kingofkings1992 nah I just hold boys and men accountable for their behavior
@Apple1996.. right. And girls arenāt supposed to be held accountable at all. The dress code exists to PROTECT girls. Not to oppress them
@Kingofkings1992 how accountable for wearing clothes?
Protecting them from boys and men who cannot control themselves? Why should they have to live in fear
@Apple1996 live in fear? What are you talking about?
@Apple1996 protect them from ruining their own lives. Not protection from boys omg š¤¦āāļø
@Kingofkings1992 you said to protect them. They're obviously having to protect themselves from something dangerous
@Apple1996 Iām done here. Youāre just not getting it
@Kingofkings1992 I don't need to get it. I'm raising the next generation of men here and stopping these problems from the source so girls don't have to live in fear of rapist men
y'all, i can see both sides of this argumentšš¤ so, on one hand, i believe that in general, dress codes are okay, as long as they dont restrict too much. Its an obvious grey area, the problem is finding how much you should restrict. Honestly, i agree with apple to some degree, if dress codes are made so the boys would not have any āprovocationā, thats pretty sad and stupid. Women should not be forced to wear something just because of how the boys act. That would be on the boys, not the girls. However, i still think in general, schools need to have a dress code to some degree, just not too much. Like for example, I've heard that there are some schools where you can't show your stomach or belly button. At our school, I've seen girls do that, but its not a problem to me (and i would assume a lot of other boys) whatsoever, so its chill. š¤·āāļø
@Apple1996 "there's nothing sexual about the body until someone makes it sexual."
I mean, humans wanna have sex with each other, so naturally you'll start to sexualize the body in some way.. And women wear clothes to accentuate and flaunt their figures all the time.. I'm sure that that's what the OP was doing.. While I agree that some rules are arbitrary, those aren't the rules we're talking about.
Also, boys/men are naturally visual, and while most of us aren't animals who just pounce on things, girls wearing provocative clothing not only sends the wrong message, but will distract the boys, even if most won't do anything.. It's the distraction that will be the problem, not because boys can't "control" themselves.. It has nothing to do with control.. Girls should also control themselves if that's the case.. You work with what naturally happens with each gender..
@Joshydavid25 boys in school are distracted by so many things already, mainly, i see they distract themselves š making the point that its ādistractingā to boys and thus girls need to wear less āprovocativeā clothing for them is a pretty stupid way to defend dress codes. How would you feel if women were distracted by you wearing, oh lets say shorts, and you had to wear pants because of how the girls can't control themselves. Would you think thats fair?
Yes, i know its a different exanple, but in general the main point still stands.
Im not entirely against dress codes, but i am against this type of defense of it.š¤·āāļø
@lil_will_12 no, itās not the same. Girls and boys are vastly different in what they are attracted to. . As @Joshydavid25 said, boys are much more visual.
@Kingofkings1992 so basically your reasoning for the dress code is āboys will be boys, and so girls have to dress differently so boys dont do something stupidš¤ā nice. So basically if boys can't control themselves (which actually in most cases they can. Im in school, and see many girls wearing what you might call āprovocativeā outfits, yet it doesn't distract me of the majority of boys.) If boys are acting badly, thats on them. In sorry, but its not what the girl is wearing, its actually the boys fault if he does something wrong in that regard. Getting distracted? Maybe some do, but I've already said that it is not that distracting. Boys in my school get way more distracted bc of other things. It ain't a distraction issue. Maybe it is to YOU, but just because its a problem for you, doesn't mean that the girl is at fault.
In general, i think that dress codes are fine, as long as they are not crazy restrictive, like for example gils getting in trouble just for wearing a tank top. It would make sense to dress code someone if they are wearing something extremely revealing; tank tops in general, are not that.
@lil_will_12 Exactly so we don't need another thing to distract them especially teenage girls dressing like hoes.. It's very fair especially since provocative clothing are specifically made to get attention.. Wearing whatever you want because you don't wanna feel "controlled" is selfish behavior, which seems to be what is being encouraged with women these days.. Maybe we should tell boys that they shouldn't be controlled either..
Women are visual to a certain extent, but men take it to another level.. The stimulation is crazy especially when you're a teenage boy.. It's almost overwhelming.. Women might like how a guy looks, but they don't get turned on to the sight of every nice looking guy they see.. It's not about creepiness, it's about being mindful, and thoughtful of other people around you.
@Joshydavid25 you don't think women get turned on by random men they think are attractive? š I don't know why men think women are innocent like that but it's funny af
@Joshydavid25 how are the boys being controlled? Like, are you really this apposed to girls dressing in what they want to wear? I understand a dress code for things that are very revealing, but like I've said, things like tank tops or leggings are not. (And yes, I've heard of girls getting dress coded because of wearing either of those) this isn't a big deal or issue, and yet you seem to want to make it one. In general, if a girl were dress coded for indecency because it was very revealing, then that makes sense! But to dress code a girl because āthis is how boys act, so we have to make girls do this in order to stop themā is just nonsense! Like dude, do you know how people in school act rn?
You are not getting my point: this is not really about gender or sexuality, but you are making it about gender and sexuality. Its about indecency and revealing outfits. Any gender that wears an indecent outfit should be dress coded. And you are defending the extremely few, if any, boys that are distracted or āprovokedā to do something, by saying āits in their nature! Its what they do!ā I would not be surprised if you were a person who believes almost all rape is caused by the outfit the woman was wearing, as that is a similar conflict/argument to this in a way.
@Apple1996 No, plenty do, what I was saying was that they don't get turned on like a men would with every decent looking woman he sees.. But it goes deeper than that because a man can literally wanna marry a woman because he think she's beautiful.. Women hardly wants to marry a man because she finds him handsome or even really handsome.. A woman said that she liked to see me because I look like a pornstar, so I definitely don't think women are innocent.. LOL..
@lil_will_12 My point in saying that is, we could also tell boys that they can do whatever they want and not be controlled like we are telling girls.. And no, WOMEN can wear whatever they want, GIRLS in school should dress modestly..
"this isn't a big deal or issue, and yet you seem to want to make it one."
Are you paying attention to the conversation? I'm not making those a big deal.. I said boys can't wear tank tops to school, so girls should be no exception..
I'm making it about the fact of why they tell girls dress and be decent especially in school, and no, I was simply talking about distracting hyper horny teenage boys and how that is taken into account.. I didn't say anything about "boys will be boys and do boy things".. I didn't say anything about "provoking" them either.. You're strawmanning me.. Go back and read my guy..
Just remember my little apple dumpling, that jobs require dress codes too these days. You may as well learn how to wear clothes that fit in with where you are working. Of course, if a person works as a stripper, that would be different. šš¤£
Au contraire, Just because it's not Madison Ave. style overtly sexual does not mean it is asexual.
Good for your Mom!! I'd be right at her side!! YOU are absolutely right! Dress codes are just there to shame and sexualize girls!
@Joshydavid25 boys only get in trouble fo offensive language, drug and alcohol references and sex images. I saw proof with my own eyes that boys are treated differently; The boys at my high school that I teach at walked around in two tops and daisy dukes and not one of them got in any trouble for an outfit that would get the girls suspended.
That's plain nuts. It's not a safety issue so what was their excuse?
@DrPepper12 you continue to have points deducted from getting your man card back
@Kingofkings1992 he is a man š
@Kingofkings1992 well I'm sure he doesn't crave your male validation so I'll decide who gets man cards or not š
@Apple1996 you donāt decide shit. Iām running the show here.
@Kingofkings1992 no you ain't, you bozo. This is literally a convo under apples comment, and her comment is in laurenloves postš I don't know what you are yapping about
@Kingofkings1992 lol sure you keep thinking thatš
@DrPepper12 "The boys at my high school that I teach at walked around in two tops and daisy dukes"
It seems as though you teach at a school full of gay hicks, LOL, and no woman is going to get turned on by that.. But men and women are different and have different rules placed on them.. Go figure.. Also Different schools have different rules.. I used to work by a school where I seen a teenage girl with her booty cheeks out coming from school... SMH..
@Kingofkings1992 so why are lesbians students able to control themselves from getting "distracted"? Maybe it's not the clothes...š¤
^^^ THIS! ^^^ š£ššš»
@Kingofkings1992 you can't be that naive or misogynistic! ACCOUNTABILE for what?
@lil_will_12 read any school dress code and the same legal language will be used in all of them. The clothes must not be "disruptive of the learning environment" (SCOTUS). The onus is squarely placed on the girls, not guys. It's bullshit.
@Joshydavid25
"girls wearing provocative clothing not only sends the wrong message, but will distract the boys" what message? What's wrong about it? Why isn't the onus on the boys to control themselves?
@lil_will_12 well said!!
@Joshydavid25 SELFISH? For demanding agency over their own bodies? JFC
@Joshydavid25 it was a social experiment run by the club gay straight alliance (GSA). It proved exactly what they thought it would. It's misogyny.
Rules are rules. When you are in an institution that is designed for the purpose of learning, that should be one of the first things you learn. There is an appropriate way to dress and inappropriate way to dress. And you are obligated to abide by the rules.
1. Yeahhh if you arenāt going to have a dress code (at least an inkling of one) then you are asking for violations to guidelines that DONāT EXIST
2. Cool that you & your friend have something to bond over, you are prisoners of fashion together. Just stick it out, youāll both be fine.
School is the same as work.. stop showing up like a hoe and they wouldn't have to reprimand you for it.
School is not the same as work. Not even close. At school you're talking about minors that are being held in loco parentis. When it comes to employment, you are an adult and there are sanctions that can be put in place individually as opposed to blanket bans or restrictions.
@DrPepper12 School is about teaching you how to behave and be prepared to be an adult.. High school is preparing you for the next step in life and for learning. It isn't a place for you to be dressing up for male attention which 95% of girls are doing when they dress like streetwalkers.. Hell there were girls giving guys head in the bathrooms at my high school so for teachers to try to keep those things from happening or being thought about with horny teen aged kids.. it seems quite fair. Guys also were not allowed to wear pants sagging under their ass or to wear hats, so get over it.. there are rules everywhere, people need to accept that and get over themselves.
Would a thong and pasties be appropriate? Or gang attire? A line has to be drawn somewhere, and yes it will seem arbitrarily restrictive to some.
Excellent idea. I think a thong and pasties should be the required school; uniform. What kind of guitar is the acoustic in the window?
It is arbitrary and restrictive because it's based on misogyny.
I highly doubt there is no dress code since most schools have them.
There's always a dress code, it's basically no boobs or butt cheeks hanging out, no shirts that don't cover the stomach, no tank tops, Daisy Dukes, or mini skirts, no flip flops, sandals, or high heels
So rules almost exclusively for girls.
@ArnieC nothing with any political affiliation
@DrPepper12 guys can't wear tank tops, flip flops, or gang related stuff
Sure they can! Just not gang stuff. Next?
@DrPepper12 wrong
Please tell me more about how I'm wrong. 20 years in classroom, 3 kids under 20, 8 nephews / nieces, travel sports and I have no idea what's allowed... Tank tops & flip flops are fine fool.
It's too bad you didn't describe the outfit.. School dress code is meant to get you ready for how you have to dress at work, most places either have a uniform, or if you're in a corporate environment business casual. So yeah there are reasons you shouldn't be naked at school.
Because only your parents allowed you to do what you wanted without repercussions. There is a whole wide world out there who won't.
Because revealing your sexual body parts to kids is weird and it's all unprofessional anyway. It's not like boys are allowed to wear that stuff either.
But the boys do with ZERO repurcussions that would get a girl suspended
@DrPepper12 I've never once in my entire life seen a single boy dressed in revealing clothes. so for your one in a million situation, that's an unfair disparity. But boys were never allowed to wear mini skirts or crop tops.
Now, I get that the schools would be afraid to call out male gay and trans students if they dressed like this, because of fears of anti-LGBT themed lawsuits. But literally all dress codes I've ever seen and heard of are more restrictive on males than females. Zero exceptions.
It was a social experiment in my school run by the GSA (Gay Straight Alliance) The boys dressed in tube tops n daisy dukes and NOT ONE MALE was dress coded for the same outfit that would have the deans clutching their pearls giving out suspensions like candy! ITS MISOGYNY! Full stop!
@DrPepper12 because the school was too intimidated to call them out because they are part of the LGBT alliance. We both know how obvious this is
You just proved my point! The rules are applied inequitably! Regardless of the reason, boys wearing the same clothes as girls don't get suspended!! It begs the question whether it's the clothing that is a neutral object or the person's gender who's wearing it? In every code of conduct in every school in the United States it's the clothing ITEM that is banned; Why not suspend the boys?
I mean, this depends on the outift.
if you're dressing ready for a trashy street corner, absolutely YOU should be called out.
Either theyāre stuck up and just like throwing shade on younger people or you dress like a hoe and donāt realize it. Honestly I think the second one is more likely
I seen the girls at my nephews school and they can dress whatever they like. If I had a daughter, I would want her to dress appropriately for school not showing her stomach in crop tops.
everyone has to abide by dress codes whether male or female
males simply just follow the rules and don't complain about them
False
@DrPepper12 ah yes, never forget about leftist men like yourself complaining about everything
Boys wear vulgar offensive violent words & images - gang colors too. The problem with the boys is never too much skin, It's too much stupidity.
@DrPepper12 where's your proof of this? or are you just making up bullshit as usual?
25 years in HS as a student or teacher
@DrPepper12 anecdotes that can not be verified or just exaggerations of what you consider vulgar
Because schools aren't a place to act out your exhibitionism kink. They're a place for children to learn.
Gimme a break. Hyperbole much? We're you hatched in your late 30s?
@DrPepper12 you've made it extremely clear how much you enjoy children being sexual around you and how afraid you are to be on camera in your classroom around kids.
I know for a 100% fact you have a sexual interest in children and also use your position of authority for other manipulative bullshit. Spare me the fake outrage.
@DrPepper12 and what's hyperbole? Dressing in a way to expose yourself, at any age after puberty, is an exhibition kink.
So people have a kink if they dress in a way that gives them agency, expression & identity? Ok
@DrPepper12 no one really believes that he's owing your body off is "agency" anymore than a guy showing his dick to stranger is "agency." I mean, you might actually be that naive, but I'm not. It's a kink. All of it.
Because you're going to school to learn and receive a proper education and not to become the school's h*e!
Yes, from YOUR POV!
@LaurenLoves They just don't' want you looking like a hooker.
It's impossible to really understand your question without actually seeing a picture of how you dress for school.
Are you really 18 years old?
Wear something that would fit your future career. If you wanna wear whore outfit... That will be...
It's total BS. Are you graduating in the spring? Then you'll be free of it.
Because you she distracted thd guy students.
Literally no NSFW stuff. Everything School does is to prepare you for a career, so you can properly serve society.
And one of those lessons is to push back on laws or regulations that are selectively in arbitrarily enforced. Is there no room for individuality or expression or is it just serving society?
m Do they still apply the one-dollar-bill rule? I just learned about that.
maybe dress more modestly you attention seeking brat
Very helpful. Not judgmental.
Cause it's in the school hand book that nobody reads they sign and date it in the back
So just because it's in the handbook means that it should be followed? š³
@DrPepper12 Well isn't that the point? I'm not saying I agree with every rule
Martin Luther King, Jr.'s comment in his famous letter from Birmingham Jail:
"One has not only a legal but a moral responsibility to obey just laws. Conversely, one has a moral responsibility to disobey unjust laws."
Lol what did you wear?
Something with deep neckline?
Because teens have sex in bathrooms, they try to prevent that as much as possible
So clothing causes sex? Really?
It can, mostly in high school
Sounds like the "She asked for it because of how she was dressed" to me.
Of course it does, tbh I never took you as someone that can deeply analyze, the common sense is that statistically someone dressing in a way that attracts more attention will increase any form of interaction and attention, sexual interaction is included, i see you slowly shifting and twisting the topic to rape which is already off topic to what I'm taking about and the topic of the question, if it wasn't clear by sex in bathrooms I mean consensual sex in the bathrooms, I didn't feel it was necessary to specify but here we are.
In 20 years there was ONE time that occurred. The kids just walk / drive off campus.
You want to feel good while at the same time making everyone around you uncomfortable? I fucking hate women
LMFAO. Pity party commence!
Yeah, school dress codes suck. I went to a school wear girls could wear pretty much anything and it was fine.
Youāre there to learn. Youāre not there to show off your assets
Show off for whom?
Go to therapy. You are already using your body for attention to feel validation.
Yeah, totally abnormal. WTAF?
Lol, why are you on here during school? XD
I remember a girl in class who had big breasts wearing low cut tops. The male teachers had a visibly "hard" time with this.
Why were you sexualizing the male teachers?
@DrPepper12 I wasn't. But when you are 15 and the poor teacher is visibly aroused in a class full of girls it doesn't go unnoticed
Did you feel repulsed or say anything about it?
@firenine909 I wanted him to notice
Why did you want him to notice? I feel like youād be shocked to see your teacher get a boner
Why is it that in the West many people literally want to do away with all standards and let society sink to the lowest level possible?
There's absolutely zero standards in the West. They hate rules, they hate being told what to do, they don't want accountability for anything, and they have no sense of decency whatsoever. I'm Irish and from the West and I'm sick of it lol.
@Wraith_Cemetery respectfully disagree
@DrPepper12 Yeah, I've read enough of your opinions that I'm not surprised. The comment from @Wraith_Cemetery is a bit hyperbolic, but he's not wrong. Standards in the US drop more and more every year. It's sad to watch.
And just think most of the new Christmas outfits wonāt meet dress code eitherā¦.. Doesnāt yhat just suckā¦..
Do you by chance happen to have a smoking hot body? Sometimes that gets you tougher enforcement of whatever the rules are.
Unfortunately that's true. There is selective enforcement based on lookism
If wear uniforms like long dresses shorten them jewelery use same colors somewhat
Sorry girl, sounds like when you step out you'll just have to leave your ass at home.
Iām afraid youāll have to post a photo for us to opine
They donāt want you to become a teenage mom
I agree with you
Is it revealing?
Why is it inappropriate?
Now THATS the right question!!!
Should probably add a picture
It might be too revealing? Is it?
Sorry u can't wear what u want.
Why do u even care?
Her ovaries are doing all the thinking
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Get a pimp
I mean why school stopping you looking for a pimp? Obviously school has no good pimp. Quit it and find him elsewhere
fake and gay
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