How can a girl go from average to pretty?

[chocolatetwopointo]

[Anonymous]

1st thing. Eat healthy. It shows on your face and body.

2. aim for small waist.(does not mean skinny) just small waist.

3. Some mascara

4. blush pinkish tint on lips, nose bottom tip, cheeks and eyelids. White on nose tip and inner parts of the eye

Anything else is just “extra” nothing needs to be big or exaggerated or operated or injected like so many girls today. as long as you have a flat tummy, everything else looks nice.

Extra tips:. Goodnight sleep for clear white of the eyes. This is important. If somedays you don’t get good rest, use Lumify to get rid of redness but better get sleep so you won’t have to use this.

Try to always be clean so you won’t smell.

Exfoliate.

Don’t shower your hair everyday so you’ll always have good hair.

Use deodorant that smells good when you sweat.

don’t eat things that stain your teeth too often.

feminine clothes/ at your age girly clothes/

nails clean and French tip, or sparkling pink

hair styled in a messy but tamed way that looks manageable not hard or frizzy.

a nice cloud like or soft cotton candy scent on parts of the body that fold like the antecubital space, popliteal fossa, some behind the ears, and inside the wrists.

light scented hair perfume.
and lipgloss.

Trident sugarless gum bubblegum flavor.

Don’t let yourself get too angry, yelling is never attractive in women. keep calm.

I think some people feel it’s too much of a hassle while to others just comes naturally to get ready this way.

everything takes effort. Some may need more time and work than others but in the end all have to put in the effort. This goes for everything not just how we look. :)

[chocolatetwopointo]

i seriously do all of that and im still average

[Opinion Owner]

You’re probably not doing them right.

A real photo of you without filters or alterations would help if you truly want honest answers on how to make yourself look better than your actual self.

You’re probably doing too much of something or too little of another.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok, priv chat me

[red324]

Don't worry about it. Most guys have no standards and will date any girl who looks their way

[chocolatetwopointo]

and i should care why?

[Med_guy1978]

Good advice 👍🏻

[Sirenboobzilla]

Experiment and find your style, then own it. Genetics will always be a factor; there's no changing that, even with surgery. How you carry yourself around others WILL affect how you're viewed. You can physically be a perfect 10, but a garbage personality and attitude will put you below even the people you yourself consider average or less.

Based off of your responses to other suggestions, you value vanity over modesty. Argue against it with all your might, that will always work against you.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and how do ik what suits me? i dont think y'all understand. idc ab being likeable, i js wanna b pretty, thats all. and i dont understand ur point in the last paragraph

[Sirenboobzilla]

Being likeable is part of the puzzle. As I said, you can physically be a perfect 10 but a garbage personality and attitude will drop you very quickly. It's not a debatable part of the overall picture.

As for how to know what suits you, that depends on who's opinions you value. This goes back to vanity over modesty. If you're looking to be pretty in everyone else's eyes, then you have to pay attention to the different things you wear and see what gets compliments. Same applies to hair styles, makeup, accessories, etc. Try new things and see what works. Now, if you switch and value your own opinions, which goes back to experimenting and finding your style, then you try new things and see what makes you feel good about yourself.

I wanted to be seen as pretty and I tried to somewhat copy the styles of others. But it was never me. Eventually I switched to not giving a fuck and just dressing how I felt I wanted and I became "hot" in the eyes of others. Do with that as you will

[Summeroflove]

How someone looks depends on the effort they are putting into themselves so most people who look very attractive if they let themselves go would look like anyone else.

One thing is the makeup they’re putting on, their hair, cosmetic surgeries, photo filters, photoshop, ai enhancing, exercising, eating right, and so many other things. Getting your hair and nails done. Brushing your teeth or getting veneers. The clothes someone’s wearing along many others things.

Outside appearance really comes down to effort. I’ve seen people fixing themselves up one day and the next day if they just rolled out of bed look completely different.

It’s also really subjective, what some people find more attractive someone else may not. There are things more universal then others

[chocolatetwopointo]

i alr do all of that tho and im still average

[Summeroflove]

Just be ykj

[chocolatetwopointo]

what?

[Summeroflove]

Just be you

[chocolatetwopointo]

well obviously im average so thats not working?

[Wraith_Cemetery]

All it takes is to dress classy, feminine, and according to your body type (not according to what's "in"). I don't care how "hot" a woman is considered to the public, especially celebrities and "influencers"; if they have an awful style (sweatpants, ripped jeans, graphic tees, crop tops, overly baggy clothes etc) then they get knocked down several pegs for me. If a girl who isn't "that pretty" to others but dresses lovely then they're way more attractive to me.

Most women just follow what's "in" rather than what looks good on them. Don't do that.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i alr do that?

[AI Opinion]

Embrace your unique features and highlight them with confidence. Skincare is essential, so find a routine that suits you. Experiment with makeup to enhance your favorite features and find a hairstyle that complements your face. Wear clothes that flatter your body shape and make you feel good. Most importantly, exude confidence and smile; it’s the most attractive feature of all! 😊

[NordicInScandinavia]

The right clothes for your body type and find your colour scheme, cut your hair to fit your facial structure, make up is also a option - again, take note towards your skin tone, eye and hair colour when picking colours (just like with clothes).

Then be confident it really matters.

[chocolatetwopointo]

do u have any idea how i can find that out? or if u can help me out?

[NordicInScandinavia]

You figure out your undertone - if you a pale mofo like me, then you can just look at your veins. That's the only way my ass knows how to, you can Google your way to it if that doesn't work.

Hair cut, find the shape of your face by outlining it - do the same with body, then Google facial shapes - body type, compare.
Then when you find those things out: you Google: clothes for body shape x. Good hair cuts for facial shape x. Colours for x undertone etc.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay thanks

[777GgG]

Confort plays a big factor. If you're comfortable with yourself you appear to ooze confidence (even if you don't feel confident) and that definitely helps.

Find what colors look good on you. I look good in rich colors. Dark green, olive. Burgundy. Royal blue. Deep browns. But I avoid yellows, pinks, and pastels.

Decide what your best feature is and flaunt it. My are my lips, when I was younger I was all gloss now I rock an insane red lip.

[chocolatetwopointo]

how do i find that out?

[777GgG]

Find which color goes best with your complexion. I tried on the same thing in several colors. It helped me see which ones made my skin glow and what washed me out. When I came to the colors that made my skin glow I expaned on items complimented those colors.

[SixFootSexy]

In order of significance and importance:

1) Get in shape

2) Smile more/be positive and kind (get braces, whiten teeth) - Srsly, sweethearts are winning

3) Dress better

4) Wear makeup

5) Get plastic surgery (don't go overboard, bolt-ons do not age well)

Don't look at beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly

[chocolatetwopointo]

alr do all except for plastic surgery, but im going to.

[SixFootSexy]

Also, one thing I forgot, look into "Mewing" if you have a weak jawline.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i have a jawline.

[sawno]

Two scenarios:
She is pretty but applied to much makeup or a purposefully ugly style. That will downgrade her to average as we assume your an average girl trying to mask. Or in case of the ugly style may even downgrade you to ugly.

Then there is the average girl, as in 5/10. She can't become a 7. She can try it using makeup and it will work on some guys. But for the more clever men you run into the same category as the above with the makeup being unattractive and us assuming your masking.

[chocolatetwopointo]

whats with y'all and bringing up men? i dont get it? can u js tell me how i can become pretty?

[HawkPerception]

Working out consistently is a must. Obesity is not attractive to the majority. Taking care of your health and appearance is an attractive trait.

For me a girl with an average or below average face and a fit body will almost always looks better than a girl with a model face and obese body. And that's because an obese body ruins a good face.

I personally also think makeup takes away from the natural beauty of a woman and makes her like like a clown. Less is more when it comes to makeup.

For the majority of girls, working out and practicing good hygiene is more than enough.

[chocolatetwopointo]

alr do that, still average

[molonski2]

Most important is being the correct weight , women can get away with plenty by simply being the correct weight , focus on body , toning , on diet , on exercise.

From there , style , presentation , complexion , colour coordination , accessories , correct attire that shows off point 1 , and make style a part of your day.

Go to finishing school if possible they teach all this stuff , and its vital , from speech to table manners , its all vital and its about " Being the best you can be " ..

Its easy to push yourself well past average , and easily into pretty , its not difficult , think elite to become elite.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i alr do all of that and im still js average

[molonski2]

You do all of that and you will certainly not be average , its that's actually true you underrate yourself.

[chocolatetwopointo]

well obviously not

[molonski2]

Why? Who is saying this stuff?
Again , you do all that and you are far from average.

[chocolatetwopointo]

me and lots of other people. r u American?

[molonski2]

No , Im not from the USA , and I don't believe in ratings.
If you have completed " finishing school " ( you know what that is right? )
Then you would understand. Its not just " completing school " , its holistic training for presentation and life.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok and? im still js average looking

[anticonformist00]

I used to think "pretty" meant expensive makeup or diets—until I learned these scientifically-proven attractiveness boosters:

💡 The "Red Effect": Wearing red (or coral/pink) increases perceived attractiveness by 20% (Journal of Personality)
💡 The "Hair Flip" Study: Shiny hair signals health more than expensive cuts
💡 "Smizing": Eyes that genuinely smile trigger mirror neurons (people like you more)

My game-changer: Drinking more water for 30 days did more for my skin than $100 creams.

Your turn:

What’s one free/cheap thing that leveled up your look?
Ever had a "wait, that worked?" moment?
(More research-backed tips— full guide)

[thnk_pls]

There are so many different ways.

• Work out. I know this is kinda obvious, but a nice body will make you more attractive.
• Try a new hairstyle/color. Try one that suits your face shape or skin tone.
• Use perfume or body spray to smell good.
• Do skincare, exfoliate, moisturize and use a toner. Helps a lot.
• Whiten your teeth can make them more attractive
• Use castor oil to make you lashes grow, or just false lashes
• Get your nails done.
• Improve your posture
• Wear the right makeup style, one that suits you
• If you're desperate use contouring

Hope it helps!

[chocolatetwopointo]

i alr do all of that and im still ugly asf

[godfatherfan]

based on who? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Many a decade ago when I was in high school, I had the biggest crush on this girl named Mary. I thought she was gorgeous. My friends thought she was ugly, or at least not "gorgeous". Every woman is a hottie to someone.

You ladies are the hardest on yourselves and other women. That is why women don't have friends like men, you tear each other down rather then support each other no matter what.

[chocolatetwopointo]

me? why do u have to bring up men all the time? can't u js tell me how i can be pretty?

[PeachyPie93]

Learn to do your makeup like the youtube gurus.. I see tons of average to ugly girls look really pretty when they know how to cover their whole face and make it look good.
Like honestly most girls are average when you take off their makeup.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i already do that tho?

[PeachyPie93]

So isn't that good enough?

[chocolatetwopointo]

well if it was i wouldn't be here.

[PeachyPie93]

Well if you do all these things why do you still think you are average? No one and nothing besides fake ass surgery can make you pretty you just have to accept yourself and maybe try and be a nicer person to yourself and others.

[chocolatetwopointo]

well if i didn't i wouldn't be here. im gna get plastic surgery. and thats not how it works

[Nik1hil]

One word "Work"..

Work on yourself..

Work on having money , so you can afford a decent healthy Lifestyle..

Work on you education and intelligence.

Work on your Body, workout in gym or pick a sport for life..

Be in your best shape and mind..

Attraction is instinctive, you cannot control it..

Your best bet is Stay closest to the best version of yourself, and keep reeling in people who find you Attaractive and consider you pretty!

[chocolatetwopointo]

i alr do, still average,

[Ms_Facesitter]

Looks wise pure looks? It's luck with the genes.

However taking care of your body makes a big difference. Hygiene, a healthy diet, regular exercise, and not just exercise to exercise really work and push yourself to a new limit. Muscles got to be SORE. It's a lifestyle. Almost everyone would be in shape if it was easy.

Find out what clothing works with you, colors too. Same with your hairstyle.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i do all of that and im still average

[Joshydavid25]

With your attitude, I don't think it'll make a difference..

[chocolatetwopointo]

looks have nothing to do with personality

[Joshydavid25]

They do.. A confident, well rounded, pleasant person looks better to other people..

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope

[Joshydavid25]

Well you've never tried it, so you know..

[chocolatetwopointo]

I've seen ugly confident people, everybody laughed at them.

[Joshydavid25]

Hahaha.. Well, your attitude is not far from that person's looks..

[chocolatetwopointo]

dont really care tbh

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, we know, but until you fix that, it doesn't matter..

[chocolatetwopointo]

personality doesn't have anything to do with looks tho

[Joshydavid25]

They are 2 different sides of a coin, but they definitely compliment each other..

[chocolatetwopointo]

well im js worried ab my looks, not my personality

[Joshydavid25]

And I was saying that looking pretty won't matter with a notsopretty attitude.. Sure you'll get more people to think you're physically attractive, but they won't like you.. But you'll grow more into your looks as you get older..

[chocolatetwopointo]

idc, i dont want people to like me i js wanna b pretty

[Joshydavid25]

For what though? Other people are the judge of whether or not you are attractive.. What you can do is hit the gym, get the best body you can, style your hair in a way that fits your face, start using some good makeup.. Get your skin right, and wear fit clothes..

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok? can i not wanna b pretty? i alr do that, still average

[Joshydavid25]

Well, it's a genetic thing really.. If you're average, just accept that at this point.. Or maybe you'll find better ways to do it.. Or maybe you'll grow more into your looks.. You're only 16..

[chocolatetwopointo]

I've looked the same since i was 12 i really doubt that

[Joshydavid25]

You won't look 12 for the rest of your life especially as you become an adult..

[chocolatetwopointo]

probably not gna do much

[Joshydavid25]

It is.. You're only 16.. That's not how you're gonna look for the rest of your life..

[chocolatetwopointo]

im not gna wait until im 30 to find that out

[Joshydavid25]

You don't have to, you'll change in the next few years.. Develop more.. You just got out of puberty not too long ago...

[chocolatetwopointo]

im not gna wait to become pretty. what are u not understanding. and i have the worst genes u could ever think of, NOTHING IS GOING TO CHANGE.

[Joshydavid25]

If you're average your genes are fine.. Lmao.. Definitely not the worst.. You're being over dramatic.. Just look the best you can..

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no. have u ever seen a roman nose? if not, google it, its the ugliest nose and im totally getting a nose job. i have wide and huge ears but hopefully pinning them back in summer, i have a baby face, light lashes and brows, and im literally ginger. it would be child abuse for me to have a kid.

[Joshydavid25]

😂😂😂.. You sound fine to me.. Like a normal people with a few obscure features.. I promise you're being over dramatic.. That baby face is fine, you're still really young, enjoy it while it last..

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no, if u saw me you’d know. none of that is normal or pretty in any way. why would i want fat cheeks?

[Joshydavid25]

You went from average to ugly.. I can understand some features made stand out, like the Roman nose and the big ears, but you can cover the big ears and Roman noses aren't so bad..

[chocolatetwopointo]

yh cuz i think im ugly but i can't say that bc then ugly people will be mad. and i can't hide big ears, cuz i have thin hair and a roman nose is bad, google it up

[Joshydavid25]

Well, work it out.. Learn how to get thicker hair to hide your ears, and I get that a roman nose wouldn't match well with a baby face, but I'm sure it doesn't look that bad..

[chocolatetwopointo]

alr done, my hair won't do anything. and i look disgusting

[MikeRJ]

Try to dress more "girly." Maybe try some makeup (but don't go overboard). Don't neglect your mind and personality. Reading and having interesting things to talk about in a conversation is attractive and a pleasant disposition is always nice.

[chocolatetwopointo]

alr do all of that, still average

[katiesmuff]

That is a perception which can only be made through the eyes of another person. You may think you are just average, when in fact others think you are very pretty. More than anything which will always supersede physical looks is your personality!

[chocolatetwopointo]

I've been told im js average, nobody but my mom has ever said im pretty.

[Eempriyanka]

Firstly, are you a blonde or are you a brunette?

If you're blonde wear light coloured clothes like pale green, or peach.. it will go well with blonde hair.

Then, do you have light eye shade or dark?

If it's light don't wear eye makeup

[chocolatetwopointo]

neither, i have blue eyes

[chocolatetwopointo]

why not eye makeup? i look dead when i dont

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If you want to look skinny hangout with fat people & if you want to look pretty hangout with ugly people. If you want to look young hangout with old people.

[chocolatetwopointo]

that wasn't my question

[IslaTheWitch]

beauty is in the eye of the beholder

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok and?

[IslaTheWitch]

if you can't see yourself as beautiful, find someone else who will see you that way :D

[chocolatetwopointo]

why?

[IslaTheWitch]

why change yourself? you are always the best for yourself :D if someone don't see it, change them for people who will appreciate you as you are

[chocolatetwopointo]

bc im not pretty? yeah no thanks. do u have any tips or not?

[IslaTheWitch]

don't assume I wrote what I wrote and only this... how you see yourself and how other people see you are two different things... so for whom do you want to change?

[chocolatetwopointo]

myself

[IslaTheWitch]

and are you sure you are just average? or is it just low self-esteem?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes I've also been told.

[IslaTheWitch]

lol... so the evaluation is from outside... so you change for them...

[chocolatetwopointo]

keyword ”also” i thought so before too

[Professor-college]

Probably by changing her self-esteem... I have noticed that some girls you meet are beautiful but the moment you tell them they are they think that you're just saying it because you're nice I think it's just weird if a man tells you that you're attractive it means that that's what you are

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok im not one of them tho?

[4ngelic]

not naturally unless you're overweight or have horrible skin

with makeup or plastic surgery you could

[4ngelic]

*misread the question as "can an average girl become pretty"

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay, well do u have any advice for my actual question?

[4ngelic]

anyways to glow up
body:
-get to a bmi of about 18.5-21, above that it's a bit thick (eat whatever you want, ideally mainly tasty lower cal things. calculate your tdee, eat ideally 500-700cals under that. no need to exercise but that's ideal.
- tone up your body (basically go to the gym like twice and lift weights on every part of your body but dont lift that much. you want to be toned not muscular. alternatively find a sport or active activity that tones your body)
- make your ass fatter and perkier (squats and ass building exos, in the gym ideally). to trick a bit the eye you can wear push up jeans if you want to be extra
-moisturize your entire body twice a day (morning & night). ideally right after a shower to lock in the moisture
- exfoliate your body in the shower at least twice a week
- get a good quality reusable razor or alternatively get professionally waxed, for removing body hair.
- make sure to keep your feet free of calluses & dead skin. make sure to not choke out your nails with too frequent polish or fake nails. let them breathe between or you might get nasty thing like micosis. it's important to get all your vitamins (take vitamins) for nail health. make sure to trim & file them
- figure out your body type and only wear clothes that flatter you. make sure your clothes are clean, ironed and lint rolled. avoid buying low quality clothes. look after your shoes, polish them when necessary. make sure to have a lot of accessories. dont dress too modestly (but not slutty either). make sure you have nice cute underwear & bras too

[chocolatetwopointo]

what if i do most of that?

[4ngelic]

face & hair:
- have impeccable oral hygiene. floss & brush twice a day. whiten your teeth every now and then. if you have dental problems like an underbite/overbite or crooked teeth, look into braces, elastics or invisalign. this can make a big difference in your facial attractiveness. when drinking sweet things or coffee try to use a straw to avoid staining and reduce cavities. avoid eating too much sweets to avoid cavities
- brush your hair regularely. make sure you're not lacking any vitamins. dont use too many products or it will weigh your hair down and coat your hair overtime in substances and potentially cause seborrheic dermatitis. you a clarifying shampoo every two weeks. dont wash your every single day. make sure to hydrate your hair tips. if you notice split ends get your hair cut immediately or they will progress. avoid dyeing your hair, as it will make it shittier. try to find a haircut that suits your face shape (minimizing faults or/and emphasizing good traits).

[4ngelic]

scientifically average looking women are found prettier with long hair, so avoid having it short. try to get volume (dry your hair upside down with a hairdryer or natural dry it high up. if you use heating tools use protecting spray)

- get your beauty sleep. go to bed betwee 8-12pm (any later or earlier and you won't get full rest). sleep between 7 & 10 hours a night. not doing this significantly lowers your hotness. scientists have found that one night of very bad sleep reduces your hotness by 0.4-5/10 points. so if you're a 6, if you sleep badly you'll be a 5.5.
- if you wear glasses get contacts or clear frames. normal glasses reduce attractiveness
- get clear skin. have a good skincare routine but less is more. only a moisturizer, an exfoliator, spf 30-50 sunscreen, lipbalm, micellar water and a cleanser are necessary at your age. you need to moisturize twice a day, clean your face once a day (twice a day is too much unless you wear heavy makeup. also if you take a shower that counts as face washing by the way. so if you shower no need to wash your face after), put lipbalm if your lips are shaped (only if they are shaped and dont put too much or it will make your lips more shaped and potentially addicted to it. i'm not sure but i think moisturizer can act as lipbalm too). whenever you go outside for more than 20 min, put sunscreen on exposed parts (if you want to age like a milf and not risk skin problems).
exfoliate face once a week if you have oily skin, every two weeks if you have dry skin. use micellar water for after physical exercise or face sweating and to clean off the makeup. if you want to be extra you can get face masks for when your skin is shit, it will be your little emergency glow up hack. you can get vitamin c serum, it helps keep your skin clear and dials back the effects of air pollution on your skin. learn your skin type and buy products that cater to it

[4ngelic]

- drink a lot of water. at least 1.5L a day (you're supposed to get 3L a day, half from food. so eat water dense foods)
- try to reduce sugary foods, junk food, processed food. try to eat more vegetables, fruits, whole grain carbs, meat, protein. ideally try to have natural organic whole foods that you need to cook yourself.
- get min 30 min of medium or vigoreous exercise 4-5 days a week. try to find a sport that you like
- avoid stress and bad emotions. they hurt your overall beauty especially your complection. especially stress. happiness makes your physically hotter because it makes your healthier

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah i do all of that, except i have to dye my hair since im ginger

[4ngelic]

learn how to do makeup: makeup is scientifcally proven to make your hotter especially specific types of makeup:
- the skin, you want to get foundation that gives a natural finish that's the same color as your skin. if you have certain blemishes on your skin you could use color corrector before foundation (green for redness, peach for undereye bags). you can also get regular concealer if necessary. concealer can be used without foundation if you have good skin. get matifying or setting powder for your foundation, and setting spray for after that. wait time between layers, ideally use a beauty blender or a brush, and wet them a bit before using. dont apply too much, ideally do your makeup in the day light so you dont make mistakes. you probably know how to do makeup but in case you dont, i'm telling you how to
- for the eyes, black is the color that makes you the most attractive. waterline and lash contrasts with the white of the eye scientically makes you look more fertile and like you have higher estrogen, aka hotter. use that eyeliner, mascara, black eyeshadow, whatever you want. long thick black lashes make you also look biologically hotter. you can use eye makeup to correct a bad eye shape. you can make your eyes bigger or more upturned, or even closer or further appart, look more doelike, etc. figure out your eye shape, and look at tutorials to fix or enhance them
- eyebrows. the most attractive eyebrows scientifically are full eyebrows that are slightly lighter than your hair color (for women). use eyebrow mascara, eye pencil or powder doesn't make you hotter actually, our brain can tell it's not real eyebrows. but mascara tricks the eye, and makes you look slightly hotter. eyebrows that are further away from the eye and more arched, make you more attractive since it's more feminine biologically. you can figure out where they should start and end and where they should arch by doing the pencil test (google) and pluck/wax

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah i alr do that too.

[4ngelic]

-nose. contour it smaller using contouring powder or pommade. there's different ways to do it depending on your nose shape. the smaller and thinner the nose, the prettier you'll be unless you have a super cute button nose already
- face structure. an ideal female face has a longer or medium forehead, shorter mid & lower face, with a jaw that isn't too masculine. generally the smaller the better. you can use contouring to make your face seem shorter and narrower. use the same stuff as for the nose
- lips. generally full but not too big lips are the most attractive. you can also alter your lips to make your face look more balanced too. to make your lips bigger use a lip pencil to fake bigger lips. you can put lipgloss on the lower lip to create the illusion of bigger lips or use a lip plumper. scientifically red lips make your hotter or at least lipcolors that look like naturally more saturated lips
- blush. scientifically blush makes women more physically attractive. it reminds men of orgasms and fertility. same reason why redder lips make you hotter

[4ngelic]

there's also beauty procedures if you want to go hard but not until your 18 i guess, save up now if you're interested in any
rhinoplasty (there's surgical or non surgical): according to research it's the surgery that has the most impact on your facial attractiveness. it makes most people 0.6 to 1 out of 10 hotter (if done well at least)
- filler. can make your lips plumper, fix persistent undereye bags and droopy eyes if you have them, can fix a bit facial proportion. be careful to only get a licensed plastic surgeon to do this
- semi permanent or permanent makeup. basically getting makeup tattooed to you
- lash extensions. only get natural ones. if you have short lashes can help
- if you have moles on your face or imperfections that can't be removed, you can get them removed by a dermatologist. blemishes, like moles make your face objectively less hot
- blepharoplasty (eyelid surgery), fixes hooded or down turned eyes if you have them
- jaw surgery (shortens face)
- mid face filling surgery (shortens midface)
-cheekbone surgery (makes your face narrower)
- boob augmentation (there's three types. implants, fat injection or combo. fat injection gives the most natural results)
- bbl
- cellulite removal
-stretch marks removal

[chocolatetwopointo]

damn, did u get all of this from a website or?

[4ngelic]

some of this i got from studies or scientific articles i looked up a while ago, other stuff i got from a book by a dermatologist about skincare, and also just random stuff i've learned over the years from different sources

[Shiprex]

It's about the way you carry yourself. The plainest girls can just have some kind of strut that doesn't overplay anything but brings a shine to the space she enters into

[chocolatetwopointo]

wdym?

[Shiprex]

It's not an aura but sort of gives out a vibe without communicating. Not arrogance but confidence and femininity. Showing charm and expressive face with eye contact and soft voice and positive language perhaps

[chocolatetwopointo]

that makes no sense

[Shiprex]

LOL Ok simplified for you
She should be charming - acknowledge and communicate in a friendly way with everyone and try to include as many in that as possible.
Exude confidence : initiating communication and approaching others without invitations without being uneasy or fearful
Display femininity: be approachable and welcoming without expectations of deference, show compassion and be kind to those around you. Smile, look and spread happiness with their presence
Soft voice and positive language: more welcoming and gentle language while listening and show interest.

[chocolatetwopointo]

that won't make me pretty, js likeable by others

[Shiprex]

@chocolatetwopointo
For me THAT'S the point. It's not always about the image one portrays. Your bearing and poise says a lot more about your character than your clothes and make up.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok good thing im not u.

[Shiprex]

Why because you don't want to grasp the concept of subtlety?

[chocolatetwopointo]

no i js dont care what u think ab me

[Shiprex]

I wasn't thinking about you just wondering why you think grasping subtlety is a detrimental trait

[Apple1996]

Wait about 10 years and hope you have a natural glow up. That's what happened to me

[chocolatetwopointo]

I've looked the same since i was 12, and im not waiting another 10 for nothing

[Apple1996]

Most girls don't change much between 12 and 16. The bigger change for women happens around 23 when you start looking grown

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok good for them but im still not gna b ugly for 10 more years.

[Apple1996]

That's just unfortunately how it is. Puberty starts a long awkward phase that does not end especially for women until we are in our 20s. You gotta wait it out

[chocolatetwopointo]

hell no. im not gna wait 10 years for nothing, do u have any tips at all?

[AviatorTom]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and it involves more than just physical beauty.

Most important is to be yourself.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and if im not pretty?

[Jay-_-]

Personality be beautiful first concentrate on everything else later, a woman could have a beautiful face, as soon as I see a disgusting personality her whole existence is disgusting to me.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dont really mind if id be disgusting to u ngl, so do u have any tips ab looks?

[Jay-_-]

Yea I got you, don't be you.

[chocolatetwopointo]

wdym?

[MrChinaski]

Honestly, if you take care of your body, do a sport occasionally, eat well and have interesting opinions, you are already gorgeous.

[MrChinaski]

Guys don't want you to be 'perfect', we just want you.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i alr do that and im ugly asf. and idc what men want, i never asked for that.

[MrChinaski]

I can guarantee that you are not even 30% as ugly as you say that you are. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwVVpwBKUp0

[chocolatetwopointo]

oh trust me i am

[Anonymous]

You should get plastic surgery.

Gorgeous!

[chocolatetwopointo]

you when u find out not every plastic surgery is in the cheeks, lips, forhead and botox: 😱😱😱🤯🤯🤯

[Opinion Owner]

You when you realize that fake boobs are a major turnoff and they need to get replaced regularly... 📌+🎈= 💭 🤑

[chocolatetwopointo]

who said anything ab fake boobs?

[Communicationisking]

Be your self, minimal makeup if any at all and just be a true person

[chocolatetwopointo]

alr do that, still js average

[Hellraiser1984]

Hairstyles, clothing, accessories, shoes and hygiene go a long way. Trimming eyebrows and if you unfortunately have a girl mustache. Perfume helps a lot too. I prefer floral scents on a girl.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i alr do that and im still average

[Hellraiser1984]

Then work on attitude and hobbies. Guys like girls with hobbies other than sex. We find it cute and safe. At least i do. I know a girl that knits and sews I find it cute.

[chocolatetwopointo]

who said anything ab guys?

[LiamJHayden]

Attitude and personality. A Plain Jane who is fun and happy is far, far, far more attractive to me than a high maintenenace, drama queen who is considered "beautiful" by most.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i js wanna b pretty tho?

[soe11]

• Swimming, attending gym , treatment of body regularly.
• Revealing outfits according to weather and climate of countries.

[chocolatetwopointo]

alr do. still average.

[soe11]

Be a positive and optimistic.
Trust in yourself pretty gorgeous.

[chocolatetwopointo]

what? r u gna help or not?

[Pohjolan]

With the amount of US women going with the positivity fad, most gals would just have to eat healthy, do some sport and take a shower once in a day to be above average.

[chocolatetwopointo]

im not from the us. and alr do that.

[Pohjolan]

Oh and I forgot to mention getting a good nights sleep and then in your case you just have to wait for puberty to do its job.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so there's nothing else i can do?

[Pohjolan]

There's probably something you could do but don't have to worry about it that much if you have your bases covered.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok so what is that?

[Pohjolan]

@chocolatetwopointo
Its not like I can see through the screen say whether you have acne or not.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok, priv chat and ill send a pic

[Pohjolan]

@chocolatetwopointo
Oh you don't have to bother. I'm not a professional in these matters. Like my dermatologist worked wonders on me but I couldn't possibly repeat it on someone else.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so u can't give any advice?

[Pohjolan]

@chocolatetwopointo
Probably not more than I already have. What bothers you the most?

[chocolatetwopointo]

everything, i look disgusting

[Pohjolan]

@chocolatetwopointo
Ok so you complained about muffin tops previously which shouldn't be a issue for you based on your previous comments.
What exactly is your diet or what are you doing for sports?

[chocolatetwopointo]

i eat 1200 calories a day, i figure skate, walk 15k steps a day and some youtube workouts

[Pohjolan]

@chocolatetwopointo
Calories doesn't tell whether you are getting enough proteins or eating mushy foods which is bad for facial shape. Do you use creatine?

Personally I only have to count proteins, not calories.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i eat mostly healthy and lots of protein, i dont use creatine, should i? and where can i get it?

[Pohjolan]

@chocolatetwopointo
Creatine is good for muscles and skin for most people.
Should be available around other sports supplements.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay

[Anonymous]

Glow up. Happens a lot in high school and college.

[chocolatetwopointo]

well no shit. how do i get one?

[Opinion Owner]

Sheer willpower, attitude and judicious application of makeup can do wonders

[chocolatetwopointo]

yet i alr do that and im still average

[Opinion Owner]

Dating the right guy (or girl, if your high school is liberal enough) can also help. Also try to get in with a clique of popular girls. Hang with them and everyone will think you’re pretty too.

[chocolatetwopointo]

whats dating got to do with this? nobody will think im pretty for having a boyfriend?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes they will! The right boyfriend and the right clique will do wonders for your image.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no. im not gna do that. nobody will think that.

[chocolatetwopointo]

idgaf ab my image? i wanna be pretty not popular

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t be an idiot. Pretty and popular go hand in hand. You got one, you got the other.

[Opinion Owner]

You probably can’t get cosmetic surgery at your age without your parents consent

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no. im not getting a boyfriend thats silly. obviously, im doing that when im older

[Opinion Owner]

It’s not silly. If you want to be pretty and you’ve tried everything else it’s your best solution. A hot boyfriend and a popular clique will make everyone think you’re pretty.

I gtg. Good luck. Ttyl.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and once again, having a boyfriend won't make me pretty. there's no hot 16 yr old guys honey.

[Opinion Owner]

Sure there are! I’m 18 and I can vividly remember thinking a lot of guys my age were hot at 16. The challenge is getting one of them.

Gtg for real. Bye.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay? not where i live. im not gna waste my time on an immature guy.

[Abdul17w]

Prevent acne from her face.
Dress more lady like dresses and skirts etc.
Take care of her hygiene.
Focus on the factors you can control e. g no need to go all out of your way for a nose job etc lol.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dont have acne, im not gna wear dresses and skirt, its winter and i dont want men to look under them, alr do and why shouldn't i get a nose job?

[Abdul17w]

If you like to then you may are you really bad looking?

[chocolatetwopointo]

what? this sentance makes literally no sense?

[Abdul17w]

Oh you mean you got a nosejob already?

[chocolatetwopointo]

what? im 16, seriously what makes u think i have?

[Abdul17w]

Nevermind, what makes you think you bad looking?

[chocolatetwopointo]

everything? the only good thing ab my looks, could prob b my eyes, thats all. u can look at another comment to see what actually ruins me, im too lazy to say it rn

[ProbablyClueless]

Good fitness always helps. Know how to dress for your body.

[chocolatetwopointo]

how do i know that?

[ProbablyClueless]

There are lots of style guides online that can break down the science and logic of fashion. You could even find a model with your body type and use their outfits as a reference point for how you want your outfits to make you look.

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

a lot of plastic surgery, and maintenance. Were born with our bone structure, those genetics will be transferred to ur kids regardless

[chocolatetwopointo]

thats exactly why i won't be having kids

[Rohaan2020]

Umm personality development…. Like wear clothes that make you look good…. Act smart and like your posture and all… bring some confidence…. Take care of hygiene

[chocolatetwopointo]

what if i do all of that but still js average?

[Rohaan2020]

Just be confident about urself… when you urself will accept about ur looks then others will too… and the things i mentioned earlier

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no ill live in denial for my whole life.

[Rohaan2020]

Great then

[chocolatetwopointo]

how is that great?

[Rohaan2020]

Great that u took a decision to stay in denial…

[chocolatetwopointo]

omfg how dumb r u. i said if i ”accept myself” ill live in denial all my life. these braindead men actually make me wanna kms.

[Rohaan2020]

So u want people to persuade you to accept yourself? I gave it a shot but if someone still doesn’t wanna do it then I can’t force them

[chocolatetwopointo]

what? wtf r u talking ab now?

[Rohaan2020]

One cannot go from average to pretty… at least not without having to spend millions on surgeries which i’m sure you are not ready for at this age…. So there’s only way to accept yourself as you are and live with it…. Accepting and living in denial are two different things things…. Denial comes when you think you’re beautiful while you are not… while accepting is knowing you are ugly and living with it

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok ill get it when im older. so i should js be unhappy for the rest of my life? totally makes sense.

[Rohaan2020]

Accepting exactly is about not staying unhappy about the situation…. And anyways you don’t have any other options bcs u literally can’t do anything about it

[chocolatetwopointo]

says who?

[Rohaan2020]

U found any solution to it yet?

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope but nothings impossible🤷‍♀️

[Rohaan2020]

Good… thats the spirit… good luck with finding a solution

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes… now fuck off… useless men, as usual…

[Rohaan2020]

Happy abusing? Why are you so upset from the world ….

[chocolatetwopointo]

im not upset

[Rohaan2020]

Well that’s denial

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope

[Rohaan2020]

Okay

[WonderingManII]

Some can and some can't. It all depends what kind of body you have been blessed with.

[chocolatetwopointo]

my body sucks

[WonderingManII]

I don't know if it does or not.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i js told u it does

[WonderingManII]

What if I saw you, and I disagreed. Would you allow me to have my opinion, even if it's different than yours?

[chocolatetwopointo]

only if u can actually help. im not looking for a rating.

[WonderingManII]

I can't help you to feel better about your appearance. I don't think anyone else can either. Everyone needs to make peace with themselves, or live in misery.

[chocolatetwopointo]

kk bye

[KostasKouvalis]

With patience apparantly. Some girls get hotter with age

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok im not part of the ”some” I've looked the same since i was 12

[Ironic_Method]

A good smile and being in shape is a good place to start.

[chocolatetwopointo]

alr have that, still average.

[Ironic_Method]

Smokey eye makeup. A good personality.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i do that also sometimes and im still average

[Nikodemus]

By definition, most of us are average. You may be better off accepting yourself as you are rather than to try to be someone you are not. A partner who is only interested in your looks (beyond keeping clean, brushing your hair, etc. is someone who may drop you as soon as they see someone who is prettier. (And younger). If you feel insecure about your appearance, try talking to someone you trust.)

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok and? so i should be unsatisfied with the way i look for the rest of my life? hell no. i alr do all of that basic stuff, everyone does. idgaf ab partners im not looking for one, i wanna b pretty for me. not for some man to use me. talking to somebody won't make me pretty will it?

[Nikodemus]

That you are doing it for yourself is good to hear. What look would you be satisfied with, then? Is it something ýou have pictured?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah I don't know yet bc I don't know what will suit me, i could send a pic and you can tell me what u think would suit?

[Wayneg89]

Maybe an unpopular opinion but I find average looking women to be way more attractive than like celebrities or models and whatnot.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dont want men, i wanna b pretty

[Wayneg89]

Thats fair but my point was average IS pretty to me.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and my point is, i dont give a fuck

[Wayneg89]

Sounds good. Lol

[lovisa1995]

Self care. All young women can look good if they stay in shape, eat healthy and exercise, take care of your skin and hair, and have good hygiene.

[chocolatetwopointo]

alr do but im still average?

[lovisa1995]

There is no specific thing that makes someone 'average' or 'pretty' face wise... it's subjective.

[Anonymous]

don't get fat, smile more, stop listening to liberal news propaganda and read the Bible

[chocolatetwopointo]

alr do

[Anonymous]

You dont want to be pretty you get yucky guys talking to you what woman would want men around them. They are the same gender as Donald Trump.

[chocolatetwopointo]

what?

[Opinion Owner]

If you look pretty you will get attention from guys. Males are the same gender as Donald Trump and Vladimir Putin. Guy are gross.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay? idgaf ab men?

[Opinion Owner]

Me too I hate them too.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Maturity after puberty or (much more likely) plastic surgery !!!1

[chocolatetwopointo]

im alr mature and im getting plastic surgery soon

[beefcakebradybatson]

D**N !!!

[Shy_Steve]

More revealing clothing usually, But not too much.

[chocolatetwopointo]

why would that help?

[moneymagnet24]

It's depends if guy is horny then he find average girl pretty hot instantly. Lol

[chocolatetwopointo]

who said anything ab guys?

[RingOfFire]

https://youtu.be/-EGOf1uhITc?feature=shared

[Raeraecumslut]

My boyfriend is fascinated by girls he knew and were ugly in hs now very sexy
So yes

[chocolatetwopointo]

its not a yes or no question?

[Mindybbclover]

By changing her makeup hairstyle clothes also accepting who she is and embracing who she is

[chocolatetwopointo]

alr do, what else?

[Mindybbclover]

Also, I’d like to say beauty is not see with our eyes our personality how we make other people feel when we’re around them our attitude towards things that might go wrong and no matter what happens enjoy the moments

[chocolatetwopointo]

i wanna b pretty, not likeable

[Mindybbclover]

Feeling pretty means that you feel that way when you’re all dressed up or when they’re just lounging around, everybody has different versions of view points on what beauty is when you meet the right person you will be the most beautiful person they see

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dont wanna meet a person. you know, madison beer? gorgeous woman, nobody would call her average or ugly, thats the kinda pretty i wanna be

[Mindybbclover]

I have no idea what you look like or what your age is. I know when I was in my teens I felt that everybody else looked pretty and I wished I could wear the clothes that they could wear and then my body changed when I’m in my 20s and my looks changed I’m sure when I’m in my 30s I will change. Also sometimes you just have to wait. We are like a caterpillar eventually change into a butterfly.

[chocolatetwopointo]

im not waiting that long

[chrissykerdock]

good dresses make up a good hairstyle

[chocolatetwopointo]

can't really wear dresses in the winter, and i alr have both others

[chrissykerdock]

why not

[chocolatetwopointo]

wdym why not

[jshm2]

Handing out more drinks

[chocolatetwopointo]

im 16. grow up.

[alice55]

legging, tight crop top and long hair

[chocolatetwopointo]

why?

[alice55]

Because men are attracted to it

[chocolatetwopointo]

who said anything about men?

[alice55]

You asked how to go from average to pretty? The easiest ways is to be pretty to men. If you want to be attractive by today standard then you need to have blowout blonde hair shoulder length, underweight body weight, flat, Scandinavian fashion (for winter it's caban jacket, blouse / oversize sweater, bootcut jeans mid wash, white sneakers samba adidas or campus).
Fox eyes, full lips, clean girls make up.
Hairstyle is blowout or low bun with slicked parted hair.
With today fashion the trends is very similar to the 90s heroin chic.
It's for this I gave you the men pretty definition cause it's ways easier to follow.

[alice55]

Bella Hadid is the beauty trends to follow too, she's the It girls among teenager in my country look up her style and face surgery to look what is considered pretty today

[chocolatetwopointo]

how? whats men got to do with this? ok so i should follow every single standard to be pretty? there's millions other who r pretty who dont look like that. i can't get plastic surgery tho

[alice55]

Well you said you had big ear, big cheeks, roman nose so until you can get plastic surgery there's nothing you can do to be pretty as those feature are ugly.
What's pretty is a thin straight nose, almond shaped eyes, thin face, high cheekbone, full lips. Thin body with curves.

[alice55]

With a roman nose, big ear and round face you're cooked you can do anything you want you won't be considered pretty ever.
So either do plastic surgery either loose weight to lose the fat and hide your ear behind your hair but your nose would still ruin your looks.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no shit? I've alr told u that. and im not gna get a thin body with curves that looks weird as fuck.
I've literally alr said that?

[alice55]

It don't look weird, it's what look the best and what men prefer.
Which kind of body do you like the most? Skinny? Curvy? Do you just like very skinny flat body?

You can't do much to be honest if you can't do plastic surgery you nose is not gonna get magically small and straight over night, dye your hair I guess brown or blonde look generally better.

As for not caring about men they're the one making the beauty stand for women so

[chocolatetwopointo]

why do u care what men prefer? girl live for urself u pick me. id wanna be skinny and tall, sadly im not tall but skinny is fine. im dying it brown soon. ok and? why should we care? pick me.

[Anti_Trump]

Spray whitening toothpaste on skin

[andreasderjuengere]

Photoshop, and ''filters''?

[chocolatetwopointo]

now tell me. why would i want to post pictures online and edit them? tell me. its pretty fucking obvious i wanna be pretty overall not js with filters.

[andreasderjuengere]

But other girls do it. Everyone - and you included - is as pretty as nature made them.
Plus: depending on someone else's ''preferences'' the prettiness will be 'judged' differently from case to case to case :)

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay good for them? now tell me, why would i?
idgaf? yk madison beer? nobody calls her ugly

[andreasderjuengere]

So... you are not happy with the way you look?

[chocolatetwopointo]

i think thats pretty obvious

[andreasderjuengere]

Most people are ''average'' - that's what average means. I see no reason for feeling bad about it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

why b average when u can b better?

[andreasderjuengere]

You have a point there. Just... is ''looks'' better?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah

[Sonorous]

fraudmaxxing with makeup 🤣🤣

[Lynx122]

I don't know sry

[David318578]

Eating healthy, exercise etc

[chocolatetwopointo]

already do, still average

[David318578]

Is your age correct?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes.

[David318578]

Then relax what you look like when you are 21 will be completely different then what you look like now, you are still developing and changing. Just make sure you stay healthy and you will be fine

[chocolatetwopointo]

im not gna stay ugly until im 21.

[David318578]

My guess is you are not ugly, you are probably way more critical of yourself then anyone else is

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope, people tell me

[David318578]

Yeah well people are trolls so sometimes it's hard to get a true response. Especially here on "how do I look" section

[David318578]

Have you posted a picture of yourself in the how do I look section?

[chocolatetwopointo]

im talking ab irl.

[David318578]

Well without actually seeing you I can't give an accurate opinion, but your avatar is cute lol

[chocolatetwopointo]

priv chat me then

[David318578]

Your DMs are private have to follow me

[Xawyx-2]

It's genetics, you can't change it.

[Xawyx-2]

No, but most of it. What is relevant is genetics.

[Xawyx-2]

- Hair? Sure, you can change color, or haircut, but that doesn't mean much if he doesn't like your face.
Most men like longer hair, no one likes girls with short hair (or it's very rare).

- Clothes? Not all men care about fashion. Personally, I like sporty and/or casual style on girls.

- Body? As long as you're not fat. Of course, some men like even that, but most don't.
For example, I like fit & sporty girls, who are athletic and toned (not extremely muscular).
Other men like skinny girls, or average built.

[Xawyx-2]

Ab? I never mentioned abs. But I like them on girls. Not too big though.

[Xawyx-2]

What am I avoiding? I said it's all about genetics. If you mean makeup, no, I don't like it.

[Xawyx-2]

Not me, I was talking about the kind of girls I like, I don't care about men.

[Xawyx-2]

But that's the answer - If a girl doesn't have good genetics, she can't go from average to pretty.
She can use plastic surgery or something like that, but that's not natural.

[chocolatetwopointo]

OH MY FUCJINH GOD. u literallt said 21h ago in every single paragraph ”men like this and that” LIKE WHY SHOULD I CARE. HOW IS THIS HARD FOR U.

[Xawyx-2]

Only in comments, my primary answer clearly states: "It's genetics, you can't change it."

[Xawyx-2]

I don't know, why would you? Maybe you should ask that question right now?
Cause this question is not related to men.

[Xawyx-2]

That was just a comment, but my primary answer doesn't mention men.

[Xawyx-2]

I don't know, just like that, as a optional comment, nothing significant.

[Xawyx-2]

I see what you did catfish, from now on, all of your comments will be deleted and reported, I won't waste my time on scum like you.

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao what?💀

[Xawyx-2]

You know what.

[Anonymous]

Makeup, hair and clothes.

[chocolatetwopointo]

like what kind

[Nikodemus]

Makeup, image filters. Better to be a good person

[chocolatetwopointo]

alr do, still average

[itsannalee]

Maintenance

[chocolatetwopointo]

wdym?

[itsannalee]

There are no ugly people, only poor people. With money and maintenance, you will be pretty.

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