Why do women wear their boyfriends/husbands clothes?

[oswaldcobblepot]

[Anonymous]

When my husband was away last week I pulled one of his used shirts out of the laundry, it still had his smell and j sprayed on some of his aftershave. Then I went to bed and pulled out my vibrator and thought of him. Sent him a pic with the toy with "thinking of you" on the caption.

[oswaldcobblepot]

Woah!

[bobalife]

In the past… because he liked it or I ran out of available shirts/sweaters/pants at the moment lol.

[oswaldcobblepot]

Both valid reasons?

[AI Opinion]

Wearing a boyfriend's or husband's clothes can be comforting due to their scent and feel, offering a sense of closeness and affection. The oversized or relaxed fit is often cozy, making it a cute and casual style choice. Sharing clothes can also be practical, especially for a quick solution when something comfortable is needed.

[TrueConfection]

1. Oversized shirts are so comfy to lounge in!

2. It’s a mental substitute for having his arms around her.

3. Sometimes those shirts have a light scent of his cologne.

4. She feels good and knows she looks good in his shirts.

5. Like a child loves his blanket, a woman loves her man’s shirt (s).

[oswaldcobblepot]

Number 5 makes sense. My mom said when I was a toddler, I had a favorite blanket I took everywhere with me.

[leahzrc]

Because having a noyfriends shirt is like a symbol of feeling loved

[leahzrc]

boyf*

[EmmaMary]

I only ever wear one of my husband's lumberjack shirts during the winter months, as they're nice and warm, and ideal for working outside in the garden etc.

[Anonymous]

We don’t usually wear them out. Just around the house. And we do it because they’re comfy and not fancy (usually a size or two bigger than us). Plus some women like the smell of him on his blisters.

[oswaldcobblepot]

On his blisters?

[Opinion Owner]

Clothes lol. Sorry. Autocorrect.

[oswaldcobblepot]

It's funny, I don't think my clothes have a smell to them unless I'm sweaty.

[Opinion Owner]

They do. And if you love the person it can be a warm comforting smell.

[oswaldcobblepot]

I can understand that. A date once left her panties behind. The smell was incredible.

[Opinion Owner]

Not quite the same thing but glad you get it

[oswaldcobblepot]

Yes, I understand similar but not the same

[beenherebefore]

I love wearing my Partner's t-shirts to sleep, they're the ideal size and loose enough to make me feel comfortable oh they also have his scent which I absolutely love.

[oswaldcobblepot]

Ever worn his boxers?

[beenherebefore]

Nah I don't share undergarments with anyone.

[Cutegirl06]

I wear my boyfriends shirt to bed because he is away at school and having his shirt makes me feel safe 😆

[oswaldcobblepot]

That so hot that just his scent makes you feel safe

[Nikki1989]

My hubby has a huge t-shirt collection.

[oswaldcobblepot]

I also have a huge t-shirt collection

[oswaldcobblepot]

Are t-shirts the only thing of his you wear?

[dustybiker2]

Because they smell lovely and are big and comfy.

[yulia02]

Something about an oversized hoodie in the winter is just so comfy 🥰🥰

[Anonymous]

Not y'all in these comments saying having his shirt makes you feel loved….. girl it’s just a shirt relax

[oswaldcobblepot]

I was going to say the same but I'm not a woman

[Opinion Owner]

Understandable, glad someone agrees. The ones that say they smell good , but the one about how it makes her feel safe? The shirt’s scent eventually fades it doesn’t stay on the shirt long.

[oswaldcobblepot]

A woman I dated left her panties at my place. I was like, what do I do with these?

[Opinion Owner]

I think she left them specifically for you to try on and wear lol, all seriousness tho I’ve noticed that the ones who say it makes them feel loved or safe they probably are really young like the one who said that. But also it’s literally an article of clothing, yeah cool it smells like him. I’m sure his cologne is in the bathroom spray it on your own clothing, I’m not sure why other women think this way it makes me feel like they probably don’t get much love from there partner if they consider someone leaving a shirt at there place as feeling loved or safe?

[oswaldcobblepot]

Hard to say yes or no

[oswaldcobblepot]

Just for the record I'm not interested in wearing her panties

[Opinion Owner]

All good, that’s exactly what I figured. It was a joke when I said she left them for you to try on. But if you notice the difference in answers from the ones that are under 25 is about feeling loved and safe and the answers from women 25 and older are completely different. It’s just girls who don’t equate love with other things. Because if I were to give them my shirt are they going to think “omg she loves me” no, they’re going to be like wtf? I mean there young, I was the same once and had to snap myself out of it because it’s just a shirt, if they end up breaking up with that said partner sometime there going to have a hard time letting go of a piece of clothing

[oswaldcobblepot]

Very well said. I never knew thar

[oswaldcobblepot]

*never knew that

[MaddyJ]

Because it’s there

[Elliegirl]

Because they’re comfy and smell like him

[oswaldcobblepot]

What of his do you wear?

[Elliegirl]

Shirts and hoodies mostly. Sometimes his shorts or boxers

[oswaldcobblepot]

I wish a woman would wear my boxers

[oswaldcobblepot]

If a date leaves something behind at my place (clothes), she doesn't want it back?

[Rei13]

His clothes are oversized on me and comfy

[ItsAshh2009]

They are very comfortable

[oswaldcobblepot]

Ever worn his boxers?

[ItsAshh2009]

No. I haven’t

[oswaldcobblepot]

Didn't want to?

[ItsAshh2009]

No, not really. I usually just wear a shirt or hoodie of his

[oswaldcobblepot]

Okay.

[oswaldcobblepot]

I don't know why I assumed a girl would want to wear a guys boxers

[ItsAshh2009]

He’s taller and bigger than me, so they wouldn’t fit anyway

[oswaldcobblepot]

Wouldn't they just be loose on you?

[ItsAshh2009]

Yeah, especially in the waist

[oswaldcobblepot]

Have you ever given a guy any of your clothes? and I don't mean for him to wear them

[ItsAshh2009]

No. I have not

[oswaldcobblepot]

Okay I can understand that