Would you say you want someone that looks somewhat like a model?

[Anonymous]

I would love to look like a model and get model treatment. I want every guy in the room to look at me and fawn over me.

I'm tired of being invisible. I'm making the steps to get there by making more money to afford better clothes, have better hair and makeup.

Working out more and getting into tip top shape. And of course eating like one. Eating a very healthy diet. Probably Mediterranean. Counting every calorie.

It may take a year to get there but I'm fully committing myself to look like a model.

Because the honest truth is many guys want a girl who looks like a model or close to it.

I was close to it at one point and want to get back to looking like that.

[sawno]

Sure, definitely not going to say no to that as long as she looks natural. I don't like that overly hot artificial look. But ultimately what matters is what she's actually compatible with me. If there is a literal model interested in me but we have nothing in common, and the other girl is a 7/10 and we have a lot of stuff in common and match really well? The model would loose every time.

[Asker]

True. I feel like I've always been below average in looks so I've had to cultivate my personality and be more introspective which I think would make me a killer girlfriend for someone once I have model looks. I would be the total package. Because I wouldn't be just about my looks but actually have a personality to go with it.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

"I would love to look like a model and get model treatment"

In a nutshell, this sentence says why I'm not big on being close to someone looking like a model. As I'd be concerned she is investing so much in her self-image that there's not enough room left for alterity. Without giving enough space to otherness I conceive no human relation possible...

[Asker]

But that's ultimately what many guys want. They want the Ana de Armas, Adrianna Limas and Margot Robbies of the world. Not some below average or average in looks girl. There is enough room for being with someone and investing in self-image. It's called self-love. Would you rather someone not have self-love and being with someone without that? That's bound to fail.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I don't believe in self-love, because I believe love goes outward, not inward. what I believe in is dignity and self-acceptance instead. I don't know what guys want, or what women want, and I don't think anyone knows.

[Asker]

True. You're entitled to your beliefs. But I see a lot of the pics of what men like on here and they are usually models or look like models.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I can't use GaG as anything describing reality out there, this community is far too niche and autarkic for me. And even then, men liking models can be just a far away fantasy, I would not use that to think they are actually interested in models when love knocks at their door.

[Asker]

I mean I guess so but I'm not getting any attention from guys which leads me to think I need to become a model or model like.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Plus, you're in the 18-24 range, while many guys here are in the 30-60 range, so it's unlikely you'd have anything in common with them, in general, worlds apart

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

The thing with attention is that it depends HEAVILY on your environment, on the level of socialization you're having access to. Do you meet new people regularly in your environment?

[Asker]

No I don't. I'm honestly not a going out type of person because of the way that I look.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

when I was in your age range, it was college time so I met tons of people constantly, if you don't have access to that pool of people, it statistically reduces your opportunities, I would look at that before considering there's a problem with you

[Asker]

I'm 23. Fresh out of college so I don't have that anymore.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Okay, well, based on you desire to be fawned over, I assume you feel worn-out by something here, a sort of payback you fancy to compensate for this lack of attention?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

all sorts of couple exist, some couples rely a lot on physique, some people will get together as a cure for loneliness, some people just want a kind soul to be with, some people want a deep intellectual bond, some others a deep emotional one, some want it all balanced. Anything is possible and the world is vast, at least in theory, again a matter of environment

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I've been with vastly different physiques, outlooks and body types, in 1998 and 2019 I was with what you would call a model type, in 2002 and 2016 I was with girls quite far, objectively, from the model type. All of that didn't matter when love was there. That's me, but I'm far from being the only one having relationships based on mutual affection, separate from any physical descriptor

[Asker]

I wish looks didn't matter so much to men but the truth is it does. They want someone that is almost unobtainable many of them and I want to be the unobtainable one for once in my life.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

The very few men I know obsessing over physique are single and frustrated though, so I wouldn't want them in my life if I was a girl

[Asker]

I'm just tired of not having many options and the options I do get aren't who I really want to be with. If I look like a model, I can get almost any guy I want. It may be a superficial way of being but I'm sick of being deep and introspective. It's gotten me nowhere. The one person who did love me for me still left me. And he wasn't anything most women would go for but I wanted to be with him anyways and he still ended up dumping me. So what's the point of being average or below average really when it gets you nowhere?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

as a model, any guy you want? I don't think so, chances are you will attract a specific category of men instead. The one you suspected, yes, superficial, shallow waters to expect.

I understand you're tired by some life events. I expected it to last forever with my first girlfriend. I expected it to last forever with any gfs in my history, but after several breakups, either initiated by me or them, I had to adapt and accept that, in truth, there is no forever I should expect. There's just enjoyment to find on the path, while the destination... It feels better to not try to control it.

[Asker]

I may can't control who exactly I attract and get but I know once I am stunning and model looking, I will have a sea of options. That's all that matters to me at this point.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I hope this path will give you what you need, wishing you well 🍀

[Asker]

Thanks.

[MontBlanc]

Attraction matters, but “model level” looks aren’t the goal.

Someone can be good looking and still not be a good partner. What lasts is how they carry themselves, how they treat people, and how you feel around them.

Real attraction grows from the whole person, not just the face.

[WellBye]

I already look like a model, getting compliments, being the main character is the boring part. The only thing I like about it is that people are more tolerant toward me

[Asker]

I'm tired of being a side character though. It's exhausting always living through your better looking friends. I want that treatment for once in my life as well. I went through it all throughout high school and college. I want to be the main character.

[WellBye]

Try being well groomed and fit first. Or are you a total hopeless case?

[Asker]

Define hopeless case?

[WellBye]

It means no matter how much you try, you still get nothing. Like being a midget and still looking short even in 10 inch heels, still not hot.

[Asker]

I'm not sure. I won't know until I put all my efforts into looking model like.

[AI Opinion]

I totally get that desire to feel seen and adored, trust me 😌. Glowing up can be fun and empowering, and a healthy routine is great. Just don’t turn it into punishment. Model-level looks aren’t a requirement for real love or respect. Aim to feel magnetic to yourself first, then let the clothes, hair, body be the bonus.

[Bklynbadboy12]

If you want attention why are you posting this anonymously. Im sure guys in this app would give you attention. And I dont want a woman that looks like a model I mean they'd have to be attractive but not model attractive. I want some that im compatible with that treat me well looks are a distant second

[Levin]

Soul connection is most important. Of course, I want someone I'm attracted to and aesthetically agreeable to me. But that will be very personal and based on our soul connection.

[Cyfris]

I don't care as long as she is good looking enough I wouldn't be embarrassed to introduce her to all my friends and family.

[LiamJHayden]

Nope. I'm more into the average girls.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/hYNxOtguQj0

[Asker]

Average or below average gets you nowhere. I'm tired of being below average. I was average at least before I stopped being consistent with working out and eating healthy. Now I'm below average. A 0 really. I need to be above average for a guy to want me. Because even when I was average I didn't have guys knocking down my door.

[lilBigPotato]

Getting a lot of attention is a double-edged sword.

[Anonymous]

You can’t become like that. U need to naturally have the genetics and height. And not to forget natural proportions

[Opinion Owner]

Being a model is about being naturally tall and good looking. No amount of clothes , makeup can ever compensate. U will become like a plastic bimbo Kim kardashian or kylie Jenner. U can never become adriana Lima. Margot Robbie or Ana de armas. They are born with the genetics. Some things can’t be bought. They just have the body skeletal structure , and facial bone structure , height , and everything. It’s not about the clothes or the makeup

[Asker]

When I was smaller I was told I had modelesque looks. I have the bone structure I just have to workout and eat healthy to get back into shape. I know clothes and makeup won't make me look like them but I can come close with the weight loss and working out everyday.

[Asker]

Margot Robbie and Ana de Armas are 5'6 by the way

[Opinion Owner]

😂😂😂😂😂. No they are not. They are way taller.

[Asker]

Look it up

[Opinion Owner]

Fake. Margot Robbie is tall as hell. Some people are born with it

[Anonymous]

Yes I'm well aware of my dashing good looks 👀
Ladies, please don't form a line 👣 👣 👣

[Anonymous]

Not really, I prefer girls who look athletic and sporty.

[DishLady]

No. I go for a more classic, rugged look.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'm alright wirh average

[Asker]

I wish most guys were

[ChicoFromThe305]

💯💯