my girl friends says that it doesn't look nice such hips, and they want to have "slim hips" .
I can't change mine much, because losing weight won't help much because I'm already slim..
So my girl friends says it's not nice..
But maybe boys like it?
Since, you haven't explained your situation in better detail.
Compare yourself to these women celebrities who fall under the acceptable BMI, have wider than average hips, and considered to be very attractive by most men:
* Jennifer Lopez
* Nicki Minaj
* Vida Guerra
* Nicole Austin
* Sofía Vergara
* Eva Mendes
Also compare yourself to these women celebrities with big asses who don't fall under their healthy BMI:
* Adele
* Queen Latifah
If your hips are anything like the first group, then you should be fine. However, if your hips are like the second group, and you have a skinny waist, then they're comically wide. You probably could go for liposuction in that case.
Oh, and Adele's hips are probably proportional to her waist, too.
hell ya, skinny girl with wide hips? you're friend's just jealous...
are you too young to know sir mix-a-lot? lol
some guys don't know sexy if it smacked them upside the head.
but mainly if you have confidence and swag, you can just about get anyone.
if someone isn't attracted to you because they have hang-ups, then they DEFINITELY aren't worth your time.
I am like you too.I am slim but my hips are wide.I think it is from my dad's genetic.Some of my friends been telling me the same thing and yeah also people that I am not close with.Wide hips look great if you have a balance body proportion.Also,when you wear tight dress,it enhances your body curve so be happy about it.Your friends are just jealous because some of them wish they have a body like you.Do not bother about their opinion if you are comfortable with your own physical image.
I think most guys lile girls with wide hips! I certainly do. lol
@Levarforever there should be more guys like you 😃
Because you expressed the insecurity, of course guys on here are going to like them
Too big is unattractive and will only get worse as you age(saddlebags)
At least you're being honest.
I would loooooooooooove to have wide hips, they look so hot in my opinion
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Oh hell yes! Don't get me wrong, I am pretty indifferent when it comes to female shape, but, knowing that there is (pig part of me, don't get offended) a nice ass, b-e-autiful curves on a girl, and a fit body, you have nothing to complain about. you may not notice it, but men all over are drooling over you. So tell your friends to fuck off and tell them to get an ass them selves, asses that they can be proud of. But all in all, doesn't really matter when it comes to curves or not, (I mean yes it helps) but be one of those cool chicks. Not those hussies who have a tendency to fuck every jock in school, but one who can hang out with both genders, take a sexist joke, and handle the occasional hooting and hollering towards your looks. Be down to earth, 80% of guys like that.
Be glad that you don't have to gain weight to get wide hips. Basically, since you're curvy due to genetics you'll probably be curvy for most of your life. I find curvy women attractive, and so a lot of other men. Even if you gain weight you'll most likely still be attractive. If you're going to ask what attracts guys you should ask a male instead of a female. lmao
Maybe you should post a picture or something to let us know just exactly how wide.
It might be hot, but it could also look out of proportion and gross - no offense to you or anything if that's the case.
I wanted to add something. Of course, hips that are wider than men's is attractive. Skinny waist with wider hips is a sign of fertility. But, there is a limit.
All these guys are just posting, "Yeah, I like big hips" without asking how big?
As long as we are not talking TOO wide. Otherwise the proportions look weird. To know whether your 'friends' are accurate or just being unkind, I'd need to see full body shots of you. But I doubt they stand out THAT much.
If you have a small waist and wide hips I find that much hotter than slim hipped girls. I like the curves.
Sometimes when a female friends says something is negative or points out a flaw guys don't notice don't care or don't think of it as bad.
Yeah, that's usually correct.
Wide hips are hot, whoever told you otherwise is insane!
Wide hips are fine...unless they are indication that you are also fat...(:(:(:
But, what if she is skinny, but her hips are like circus clown wide?
I typically like wide hips, but it also kind of depends on the girl.
Personally I am a male and I actually like the larger hips on women, I think it looks more attractive than a slim hipped girl, it makes you look more feminine and makes clothes look better on your body.
Skinny girls with wide hips are VERY attractive! I'm NOT talk'n about fat girls with bubble butts.. That;s Gross! (Like Kim Kardashian.. Ewwww!) I'm talk'n "skinny" girls with wide "hips". Love that look!!
Your girl friends are just jealous!
I'm a girl and I hate my wide hips. They show through my jeans and they get in the way and uuggghhhhh all guys notice them and they just kinda laugh soooo
Oh yeah. Slim girls with wide hips look great.
wide hips are very appealing to me, i find it surprising that girls would not want that.
From looking at pictures on most girls they look good.
what I want and what your friends want is not the same. I like wide hips but mostly I like girls who can stand fore what they are wihtout asking fore others opinion
Everyguy loves big hips
I know I do
Yeah, skinny with hips works for guys.
Be proud of your body, every person is unique :-)
wide hips are major turn-ons, if they are round and chubby that gets out attention they go well with touching thighs and big butts
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