I have been seeing quite so many women around putting on pairs of short shorts... so sexy, confident.. shameless, more or less or not at all slutty depending on each person. However, my eyes are getting sored by seeing too much flesh and too many booties. And that I am no longer feel like being driven by your sexiness and cleavage showing.. I find that dressing style is mediocre and cheap. I feel gross, offended, rude and yucky when seeing girls that passby on short shorts like they are around home, - insane, perverse, childish, trashy, defiant, provocative, booty style. I don't dare starring at them, I just gave them a quick look, quiver-shiver, and feel shy (some for me by seeing too many sex objects hanging, most for themselves as it is like they have no faces to lose and are not afraid of being disgraced). The style is immature, disrespectful, indiscreet, inconsiderate, ungrateful, not genteel and ladylike to surrounding people. It looks boyish and zero to compare to girly, elegant & decent girls in dress, skirts and pants. Today most guys are still dressing appropriately, genteelly, a bit of traditional but gentleman-likely, elegantly, maturely and respectfully towards the society, especially nicely and gently to girls.. while girls, sadly are degrading themselves and losing streak. It looks ridiculous when couples going out with guys on long pants and girls on short shorts.. That is like a pair of in-equal chopsticks.. that is not matching unless guys should wear short shorts. All that being said, girls should receive more education to love themselves properly, dress discreetly and not way too much casually like that.. Women gain equality in society and receive utmost respects from guys, so women should conversely treat other people respectfully and appropriately, starting by not dressing too arrogantly and wildly.
I tell my children not to behave like girls of these days (very naughty, gross, blatant, coarse and vulgar), not to pick on those girls for their marriage
lol buddy first of all don't try to control what your girlfriend (ex or present girlfriend) wears. A girl, not all, but a lot of them LIVE in style. Don't mess with that. Second, she's hot and every guy wants her but who did? YOU did. So don't be jealous JUST because guys look at her. Which leads to the third part. Women don't like the "jealous boyfriend", why?, because it means that you are insecure. Insecure, a part of ALL human kind, don't showing a girl that you aren't one of them makes her attracted to you the more you show...confidence.
Realize that YOU my friend, deserves the best. Now be the man.
There are a number of possibilities. It all depends on what you know about your Ex and what her personality is.
1.) The woman just wants respect. She wants to be able to wear what she wants, when she wants, without how you put it, gawked at. It's the, I like looking sexy so get over it, thing.
2.) Like how Ivarei put it, she is liking the attention but she's trying to be modest.
3.) The possible reason why she didn't take your advice is because you didn't compromise with her. Girls like her, like to wear sexy things. So if she's wearing short shorts and a tight fighting t-shirt. Ask her to take a jacket or something thin that (if it's in the summer) won't get her sweating to badly but she can still cover up if she feels like she's getting stared at. She might resist the idea but be persistent and if she doesn't take it. You take it or throw it in her car or something. Trust me, it'll help.
But hey. I'm a complete stranger on the Internet. I don't know you, your Ex or the situation of the problem enough to give better advice. I wish you and your Ex luck on fixing the problem.
I don't wear them to attract guys but I guess when I do dress up, guys tend to stare yes. I do it for trends and because my friends are also sometimes and I like to match what they're wearing when we go shopping or whatever. and it's summery and hot so I would tend to wear short shorts but I mean, I make sure I'm covered. like it isn't too short lol
because girls say the don't want to be starred at, but really it's flattering when they do, so it's a lie when we say we don't want to be looked at. she was just trying to sound modest lol.
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Some girls do like the attention others do it for style. Where I live I see girls were short shorts all of the time and in a very casual manner. I do agree with some of the other post in that your girl did like the attention and wasn't angry...she just made it an issue to make sure you are aware of the fact that others are checking her out. I can admit gawking can make a person feel like a piece of meat but if nobody looked it would be another issue. lol
She wasn't really mad.. and believe it or not, some of us tend to dress in more revealing clothes once we settle into a relationship... it's a good rush when we know people are looking and can't touch, and some guys tend to treat us differently when they know we're being looked at.. (aka more posessive, and we like that feeling)
Why do girls no matter how fit or unfit they are decide all men want to see their legs up to their twee twaa? For some reason its OK to look like a whore if you are a girl, yet I am laughed at when I show my knees wearing my shorts. My girlfriend says I should weare longer shorts to avoid the jabs. Some people think its "gay" but it is comfortable. There are certainly "gay"eople who wear long shorts and they look as uncomfortable as the dudes out there.
Why is it OK for two women to share an innertube at the beach and rub suntan oil on each other but a dude can not even look at each oether? Not that I want to do that with a dude, but I sure wonder if those girls are lesbos leasing the men.
I don't think she's mad (for real), or else she would stop wearing it. If anything she enjoys the attention and says "she's mad" to draw attention to the fact that guys are gawking at her. Which, conveniently, is her reminder to you that "you are not the only one, so work harder to keep me." I personally dress as I wish (I happen to look fantastic in short shorts, haha) even in a relationship, I don't see why I have to change myself, and I do enjoy the looks from guys--but even more when I hold on to my boyfriend a little closer and give them guys the "you can't have me" look.
Are you really between the ages of 36 and 45? Anyhow you should learn to trust your women. If she's got a healthy body, there is nothing wrong with flaunting and showing off what's she's worked hard on. That doesn't she wants attention or that she's cheating. It just means she's comfortable with her body. So let her do what she wants to do. But she's your ex now so it doesn't matter.
Well I wear shorts to show off my toned legs. But shorts is really comfortable and is a winner for lazy girls who don't bother to go on a closet rampage for a perfect style. I don't wear jeans 'cos it kinda make my legs look big.
She was likely not ignorant of the commotion she was causing but felt that it was the guys place to pretend not to notice. She wanted the attention just so that she could protest about the same. So she's gone? Ahem, good for you.
I wear them because they are comfy. Her getting mad was probably just a show for you to make you feel better, like to prove she only wanted your attention. I know guys are going to look, as long as they don't touch I won't complain.
it normally depends on the girl
sometimes (esp. when its really hot) girls just like to wear short shorts to stay cool
others wear them cause of the style and they look good
I only wear them on the beach. Your ex probably liked the attention but didn't want to admit it.
One time I saw many girls in short shorts at the mall that I almost dropped my pants and did a peewee Herman.
I don't wear shorts for 2 reasons. One, I don't really like how they look, I prefer pants. Two, I'm wayyyyyyy to self-conscious to wear them even if I did like them.
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