Hi, I'm a girl and I know this situation all too well...
If everyone is constantly saying that she is pretty, don't. She will think you're just like all the other guys who were looking for just a physical relationship. If you compliment her appearance, definitely make sure you have already complimented her interests/sensibilities/culture/intellect first. She isn't an airhead and if she really does get complimented on her looks this often, she probably sometimes feels like everyone sees her in the airhead light.
This may seem a little tacky but you may want to check out a certain scene in Spanglish, where Flor tells Mr. Clasky she enjoyed watching him cook (because he is skillfull) and he says, "If it's anything at your end, imagine what it is over here...but the last thing you want is someone going off on your looks...it's just that you are drop dead crazy gorgeous!" *Paz Vega's character, with or without intention, gave Adam Sandler's character a perfect opportunity to compliment her physically...you don't want to go right into it with a girl who's heard it a million times. Otherwise it's just old news!
Usually the "corny lines" only work in EXTREME moderation...in other words, don't use this approach more than once in one day because it would seem as though you were trying too hard but had no real substance or stuff to say. Corny lines can be dangerous because there is a fine line between them and pickup lines, and a girl who is genuinely interested in you will not be interested in past approaches to pick up other girls! Most importantly, never use the same line twice!
Eye compliments can come off as a little corny but if you say her eye color is cool or something (or take notice of the color pattern in her iris) that's totally different and she'll like it...it also says that you see her as an intellectual (who just happens to be very pretty lol) I like the iris pattern one. But the absolute best eye compliment you can give a girl is just really good eye contact!
But it's really cool that you're concerned about this because most people wouldn't be. :)
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A guy said my eyes were "intense" once and I nearly died. The whole night I was thinkin';
"All guys say a girl's eyes are beautiful or pretty. But mine are INTENSE."
Whatever you do, make the compliment as natural and sincere as possible.
Sincerity usually eliminates the corny.
There are many good things that can be said about someone's eyes. Here are just a few examples:
- Your eyes are so beautiful.
- I love the color of your eyes.
- You have such pretty eyes.
- Your eyes are so expressive.
- I could get lost in your eyes.
Well...if you're telling her in person make sure you keep eye contact while saying: "Wow...You have luscious green eyes"...but be flirty not creepy..and maybe use a different word besides luscious...
I generally say how beautiful a girls eyes are and how they smile when she smiles.
I really notice a girls eyes and you can tell a lot from them
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mate, that's corny lol but sweet because ur making the effort, why don't you make her know your paying attention to her, by maybe describing her eyes to her or her lips or her hair or something eg. ermmmm, "i noticed that your have a slight shade of blue in your eyes,(she says reaaly? lol), then you say yeh..i also noticed that when you face the light, they glisten a green I can't describe, but when you look right at me...they are a colour so perfect I don't see any colours I just see you" lol I would melt if a y sed that to me lol you could downply it but I think this is sweet :)
"Hi, I noticed you have two eyes. That's already two things we have in common."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fOqNCY49THM
But seriously, this:Normal: your eyes fucking crossed.
Normal: your eyes, nice. I like it.
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girl, your eyes are as almond/black/dark/green/blue as
1. adjective noun on a setting. (corny)
shy clouds on a crimson night (wtf)
2. humor style
Your eyes are
as black as your heart (Lol)
as blue as cool (random)
as green as a forest, I fkn hate forests (insult)
as almond as almonds (dry)"Excuse me, I think you have something in your eye. Nope, it's just a sparkle."
They're probably looking at you because they think you're cute...and that's kinda lame to plan compliments like that. Just say whatever comes to mind, or you could just start off with a cute smile and saying "Hi." That would work on me
awh. its pretty obvious you think about this girl a lot. that's cute compliment to. I'm sure that any compliment you give her will make her feel amazing. but I like that one! good job
i have light brown eyes my ex boyfriend wrote my in a card 'i love the way your eyes look when they're in the sunset and your eyes light up with a tint of gold' it melted my heart :)
You could compare them to the closest colour related gemstone and describe your interest in that stone, but that is depending how romantic and personal you want to sound
Hmm, your eye color (if they have a unique one or if it really does look nice) adds so much softness to how you look at people sometimes, they really are stunning *Only say if you know them*
About eyes you can tell they are sparkly or dreamy. Also the color, maybe blue eyes gives you the vibe of the blue sea, or brown is warm chocolate. Green might look like fresh mint
I'm not sure about the flip side but beautiful seems overtly cliché. I would say something like stunning or radiating. But when girls compliment my eyes they say sexy or gorgeous. Had one tell me they make her w$t. It's all about the gaze, not to get confused with staring, gazing is totally less creepy like. Plus it helps to have nice eyes which I have been blessed with.
dont just come up to girls and say I like your eyes because if you do that with too many girls, it will lose its meaning. you could say to someone..." you have the cutest eyes"
There's one thing that I've been told many times and I really love it, "your eyes reveal all of your emotions" it is true, at least for me but the first time I heard it I loved it
just keep it simple.
"Has anyone ever told you that you have the most beautiful eyes?"
She will be caught off guard, and not know what to say, and be flattered beyond belief...To be honest I get board of people complimenting my eyes. As flattering as it is it makes me think they only like me for my looks. Try and give her a compliment on her personality instead
Whatever compliment you choose...just make sure you really mean it. If you feel it, no matter what you say it is going to come out right.
Just be like ..."i like your eyes" and that's more than enough..she'll be happy you even noticed
tell her that her eyes are beautiful...that literally all it takes :)
Awwwwwwwwww -melts-
=] You will make her laugh and feel super special all at once.One time I had a guy tell me that me eyes reminded him of swimming in North Carolina. I thought that was really cute because he said that and I was like what and he said '' I wanna go swimming in your eyes." I just thought that was really cute.
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